Welcome to the year 2020! The start of the year is a really good time to reflect on what has passed in your life in the previous year. Perhaps the year was good, filled with friends, fun and frolics! On the other hand, you may have had a hard year. For many 2019 was a tough year, with financial and job issues, the passing of relationships and the changing of people in their social circle. Regardless, the reason we look back over the year is that it helps and allows us to navigate our way through the next. We cannot change the past, but we can decide to do things differently in the coming future.
The question I would like to ask you, how was your sex in 2019? This can be broken into categories such as: quantity, quality and satisfaction. Did you have a lot of sex? If the sex you had, was it good? Ultimately, after the sex was done, were you satisfied in your greater life? This last one is easy to answer as it goes to how you are feeling, but it is hard to know what is causing it. It could be the choice of partner, the frequency of the sex, the quality of the sex, or it could just be that other parts of your life are such that they are tainting your view of the sex.
If you find yourself very happy with your sex life, that is great! Congratulations. You need to make no major changes to your life. I would urge you to take action to ensure that you are able to maintain this level of sexual satisfaction, and this will often involve change and growth, but no need to change the structure.
If you find that you are less than happy or even unhappy with your sex life, then I would urge you to make a new year’s resolution to find a fuck buddy this year. New years resolutions can be very powerful indeed. They help you focus on what you want in life and they drive you towards getting it. There seems like no rushed deadline as you have the whole year, but at the same time because you have limited time you know that you have to take action to make it happen. You also come in on a point of positivity. The resolution is to make your life better, so you can run towards the goal eager and excited, looking forward to reaping the rewards of the change.
So make the commitment to getting a fuck buddy. You won’t regret it.