There are lots of things that you need to do in order to be great in bed. Staying generally fit and healthy is a foundation stone of this that means getting some exercise and eating reasonably healthy foods. I am not telling you that you have to stop drinking or being fun in any way, just try and make sure that you get some vitamins into your system now and then, and don’t eat too much sugar that’s a real body killer. What would you prefer? A chocolate bar or great sex? Well that’s the choice you get to make!
Nerves are a killer
Nervousness can be a real turn off. It makes you come across as unsure, as weak, and no one wants to sleep with someone that is weak. Conversely confidence can come across as a real turn on. Being confident can make someone like you more, make them want you more than before. It also means that your movements are sure, steady and strong. This has an effect in two ways:
- You body language automatically tells the other person that they chose correctly, that you are the awesome attractive guy that they want to be having sex with. This means that you are more likely to sleep with them.
- When you are sleeping with them, your movements are strong and confident. This means that you are by definition going to be better in the sack. You are going to be better in bed because of this. You are going to be a sex god – because you believe that you are a sex god!
It is a self fulfilling prophesy
This is a completely self fulfilling prophecy. If you believe that you are a sex god, you will act like a sex god. You will be strong, confident and the other person will respond to this, be more turned on as a result and thus have a better sex life with you. You just have to believe it, and it becomes true.
Fake it till you make it
I know this is a hard thing to roll with, especially if you do not believe that you are a sex god. I mean who is, right? Well the way forward is to fake it till you make it. Girls “fake it” all the time with orgasms and coming, so as a guy why not fake the attitude.
Once you see the results you won’t have to fake it anymore, because it will be true. You will be a sex god!