Sex, like many things, comes in a variety of different flavours, colours and tastes. Sex can be happy sex, or sometimes it can be sad sex. Having sympathy sex is a real thing and is not necessarily the negative thing that the name suggests. People can have routine sex, when they are doing it out of habit, or they can have exciting unusual sex triggered by a change in place, location, time or even sometimes the person or number of persons that they are having sex with. Sometimes you can make love to someone, expressing all the emotion and care that you feel about them through the sex. Other times you might be fucking the person and it has little to do with love. Remember, you can do both of these things with the same person, be they your fuck buddy or your long term strings-attached relationship. It depends on how you are feeling in that moment, with that person. It can, and will, change over time.
There are many types of sex and “break up sex” is one of them. In this article, I want to explain why break up sex is awesome, and why you need to seize your chance to have it if, and when the moment presents itself.
Who can I have break up sex with?
Anyone you have had a romantic encounter with. Whether you are sleeping with a fuck buddy and breaking off the option of doing it again, or it is a long term partner, you can have break up sex with them.
Why is break up sex amazing?
Much of what makes sex good and a critical factor in the “flavour” of the sex, is the emotion that is driving it. The stronger the emotion, the stronger the experience irrespective of whether that emotion is “positive” of “negative” in your opinion. Breaking up is one of the most emotional moments you can have with a fuck buddy of a friend with benefits. This gives you a super charged moment where the sex is going to potentially be mind blowing. All that tension from the break-up, all the emotion, all the love and hate and angst and regret is all balled up into one single moment… if you can drive all of that to orgasm, you are going to have one explosive sex session.
Why do I need to have break up sex the first time I break up with someone?
…because the moment may never come again. Ever. If you are breaking up and the conditions aer right to turn it into sex, you have to take that. Many people never get to have break up sex. If the option is on the table, take it.
Have fun!
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