Whether you are meeting up for a traditional date, or you are hanging out with someone for a one-night stand, most people do something before having sex. This is not mandatory at all. Some of the best fuck buddy relationships come when people are ready and willing to jump into bed with each other at a moment’s notice, when they are in lust enough to want to rip the clothes from each other’s bodies with out any need for the “prelims” as I think of them (preliminary acts to the main event). This is rare though, and even when it does manifest, it rarely lasts. Things calm down over time, and that is natural. Nothing to be done about it. So eventually even these people to things before getting laid. So if you are going to do something, you may as well pick something conducive to sex! So here are my top things to do before having sex.
Coffee
Coffee is short, warm and cuddle, and it also has an excellent effect on the body. Caffeine stimulates the body, it allows you to lift heavier weights and push longer physically than without. What this means is that you are physically more ready to perform in bed! For bonus points, make it a daytime or afternoon coffee, that way you are also at full daytime energy! If you haven’t tried it, booty call your fuck buddy and try it immediately!
Dinner… if the right food
There are certain types of food that are aphrodisiacs. They make you hornier, and so eating them before sex is great! Go somewhere and have:
- Oysters
- Watermelon
- Cocoa beans
- Avocado
- Asparagus
- Pumpkin seeds
- Spinach
- Ginger
Then drag your partner back to the bedroom… if you have done it right, they will be dragging you!
A 3 pub pub crawl… heading in the direction of your house.
The perfect pub crawl, is three venues that slowly move you towards stumbling distance of your house. You don’t want more alcohol than this, as it will kill your night, and in fact the less alcohol the better! There is something magic about the three venues that really makes you feel like you have had a night of it though. By the time you get to yours, you will be pulling each others clothes off as you fall through the door!
Those are my top three! Come back for my runner up venues in a future post.
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