There have always been a huge surge of sex role play games, sex fantasies and icons and certain roles that we find sexy. There are some classics which you will find all too familiar. The sexy fireman or policeman fantasy is something that most women are really into – something about a man who as his job “protects and serves” turns girls week at the knees, I wonder why. For men it tends to be a lot more based on looks rather than agency! The sexy stripper, the sexy nurse, the sexy school girl fantasy... it is all about women who are hot and slightly subservient to their desires and needs. Britney Spears has a lot to answer for when it comes to the sexy school girl thing. The funny thing is that it is fantasy that people want, not the actual reality – and I mean this on both sides.
Reality VS Fantasy – for women
If you are a girl and you want the sexy policeman in the uniform, you want the fantasy. The reality of being with a man married to the force, who spends all of his time at work, leaves early, comes home late, and only really socialises with other policemen is not actually all that great. You want only the good sexy sides of it, not the gruelling reality that comes with it. The same is true of a fireman. He not only works longer hours, but actually has to sleep over night at the fire station a lot, has to therefore also pull shift work (nights and days mixed) and because of this sleep pattern is potentially around even less. This is not actually all that fun.
Reality VS Fantasy – for men
It is also all too true if you are a man. You think you want to be dating a stripper, and of all the cudos that your mates will give you for fucking a stripper, because she is hot, right? Well she may be hot – but that sweet body spends its evenings and nights being ogled at, stroked and touched by other men all night. She comes home at something o’clock in the morning, and eventually she gets a little older and has to quit stripping. This is not actually what you want, you just wanted the fantasy. As for the school girl fantasy – this will land you in jail. End of story. You definitely did NOT want it for real.
It is okay to have the fantasy, and I would encourage you to explore it – do so as a game though. Do not aim for the actual real thing, there lies fool’s gold.
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