When it comes to having sex and sexual preferences, we are all different. We all have different favorite sexual positions, we all like sex at different times of the day, we all want to have sex at greater or lesser volumes. Some people want to only find a fuck buddy that wants to have sex outside, for other people they only want to have sex in the morning all comfortable in bed. Finding someone that is of a like-minded persuasion is exactly what we here at fuck buddy are trying to help people do. When this happens, everyone wins! The guy gets to have sex with the girl, the girl gets to have her brains fucked out, and all their friends at work get to have happier co-workers! It really is the win win. Sight is one of the biggies.
Lights on or lights off
Do you like to have the lights on, or the lights off when you have sex? It was astonishing to me to find out what a big difference this makes to some people! Some people really are die hard “lights out” people. They cannot (and will not) have sex with the lights on. When you trace it back, a lot of this comes down to body conscious issues, and confidence. They don’t like to be seen, but for these people it is a deal breaker.
For the people that want the lights on – again for a small number of them, it is a must. If they cannot see their partner’s reaction, if they cannot enjoy watching their partner’s pleasure then their own pleasure is also diminished.
Eye’s open or eyes shut
Some people when orgasming and the build up to it, they will close their eyes. This is fine for them… but some other people really hate it. When their partner closes their eyes, it means that they could be with anyone. They could be imagining someone else, or even blocking the whole thing out! This lack of assurance that they are in the moment can really turn people off.
Eye contact
For a few, they take it all the way, and they want eye contact. This pretty much means having sex in the missionary position. For them, being able to stare into the eyes of the other person is key to being present and in the moment. It is a shame that missionary is not necessarily the easiest position with which to elicit an orgasm from a woman, because I can understand why the eye contact can be powerful, but there are ways around it.
So be aware of these choices, and make them choices. If you find someone who is struggling with you, a fuck buddy who is having trouble coming, talk to them about this. It may be as simple as turning the lights on.
Add new comment