How to not be jealous in relationships

If you are here it is likely that you are looking for the life of abundance that you so rightly deserve. You have thrown of the shakles of “one man and one woman” and have realised that really it can be however you want it to be. If you want to be sleeping with several men or woman at the same time you can absolutely do that... and that can even be during the same week period, or literally at the same time! You can have it however you want, and the secret to this is simply finding like minded people who also want to be living the same level of abundance.

One of the key things that can sometimes mess this up for us sadly, is not any external factor, but is actually us. Ourselves. We can sometimes be our own worst enemy when it comes to leading the happy abundant lives that we wish to lead. The best person to sabotage our successes is not our worst enemy, but us. This can come in many forms, the one that I wish to focus on here is jealousy.

Jealousy is the great fun killer. It can and will destroy any and all joy that it finds if you give it the change to do so. It can rampage through your life and kill not only the moment, but destroy all future happiness as well by causing you to sabotage your own life. So how can we get over this, how can we not be jealous? The key thing here is understanding what causes jealousy.

The root cause of jealousy

Jealousy is a symptom of a fundamental root cause. Insecurity. If we are jealous of a woman talking to someone else, it is because we fear that they are going to leave us to sleep with the other person. It is fear that drives it. Here on f-buddy we take a more enlightened view of the world and openly accept that it is *okay* to sleep with different people without it being at all negative or bad. Again when jealousy rears its head about the person we are sleeping with going to someone else’s bed, what is it that is causing it? Our own fear or insecurity. What if the other person is better in bed than us, is more fun, more attractive...? Any of those things would be enough to cause us to fear a change in our own position or relationship with the person we are sleeping with.

So what can be done about it. The 1st step is to recognise that it is insecurity that is driving this, that is our own fear about something that is to do with ourselves. From there we can then address the real issue.

Remember, jealousy can only ruin your life, so deal with it. Fast.

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