We have all had moments when we have been walking down the street and we have just seen someone and been bowled over by their beauty. Quite often this is not conventional beauty, it is not necessarily that they look like a super model or an A-list celebrity. There will be something about them that just seems, well, super sexy. Usually what happens then we see this, is that we watch them walk on by, and then the moment passes. That is the end of it. However, as I have learned, it does not have to be the end of things!
If you see someone in the street and you like them, why not hit on them? Why are they any less likely to become your next fuck buddy or friend with benefit than the next girl or guy that you meet? This may go against your initial instincts, you may being thinking to yourself “I can’t do that!” Actually, you can, and here is how.
Get their attention in a non-threatening manor
If you “jump” them their hackles will be up and this will be over before it starts, so stop them in a relaxed non-threatening way. “Excuse me” tends to work really well! Anything that stops them from walking, you don’t want to try and do this on the move, it is awkward and involves bumping into people as you move etc etc.
Be direct
They are going to want to know why you stopped them. Be direct, be honest. Any beating around the bush at this moment will make you come across and dodgy and untrustworthy. You do not want that! So be super honest. Tell them that you saw them, then tell them what it is about them that made you really want to talk to them. Was it their style, hair, eyes, body… be the most honest you have ever been in that moment. If you are saying what you honestly think, then they will be able to sense it, they will believe you, and you will be in for a chance of hooking you with them.
Normalise
Being this direct with a stranger pushes a huge emotional spike, and as this is an unusual thing to do, you want to “normalise” things as soon as possible. So after that be very relaxed and chilled. Just ask them what they are doing, a little about who they are.
This becomes a normal seduction from here onwards
From this point onwards, it becomes a normal seduction process! Ask for a number, meet them for a coffee or a drink, or even better take them for a coffee there and then if they are free.
Good luck!
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