Everyone has a first time. It is not about how much sex you have after that, it makes no difference if you become the Casanova of your town, the Romeo to every girl around… that first time you have sex will always be remembered and always be a certain type of sex that you will never have again. Some people have the attitude that they want to have sex for the first time in a relationship that is really special, where there is a high chance of the relationship lasting. There is nothing wrong with this, the way that your lose your virginity is an entirely personal choice and I would encourage everyone to do what is right for them. What I will say, is that there are some big advantages to losing your virginity to a fuck buddy rather than someone that you are in a relationship with. To anyone that has yet to have sex for the first time, I would like to highly recommend it as an option. Here is my reasoning why having sex for the first time with a fuck buddy is a great idea.
Honesty about where you are at
For a lot of people, it is very hard to be sure that you are in a relationship that is going to last. There also comes a point where many people feel that they cannot progress the relationship without having sex. This can sometimes lead people to have sex under false pretenses. The lovely thing about having sex for the first time with a fuck is the honesty. You can be completely clear about where you are at emotionally and in terms of commitment. It is extremely liberating and can help to ensure that there is no “buyers remorse” afterwards.
Reduced pressure
There is a lot of pressure the first time that you have sex. Most of this is placed on us by ourselves, but we cannot help it. There is pressure to perform, pressure to “be good”, pressure to have a mind-blowing time whilst also rocking the other person’s world, pressure to go for a long time, pressure to come… the list is rather long! When you have sex for the first time with a fuck buddy, this pressure is removed. The extra level of honesty that is provided by the open nature of the relationship also means that there is a greater level of generosity. This can remove a lot of the pressure, causing you to have a much more positive experience.
A really great time!
With a fuck buddy, the focus is on the sex, not the relationship. This means that both of you are really looking at what will make the sex better. The first time you have sex you are feeling your way. This means that it will never be amazing. The honest conversations you can have with a fuck buddy about what is good/bad can quickly lead you to becoming a proficient lover and thus have a much better time in bed.
Having sex for the first time with a fuck buddy is a great choice. I highly recommend it.
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