Girls dressed demure or explicitly – they all want sex on their terms

There is this belief that in a club, if you see a girl wearing very little material and flashing a lot of skin, that she is looking for someone to sleep with. That if you are looking to hit on someone, you want to go with the girl in the short skirt first over the girl in the ankle length dress if you are looking for an easy fuck. Well I am hear to set the story straight.

If a girl goes out to a club deliberately wearing clothes that show off her best assets, that allow people to see the fine figure that she has, the curve of her breasts, the voluptuousness of her firm yet supple behind, is she looking to get some attention from the opposite sex? Yes of course she is! Does that mean she would love to sleep with someone? Yes it probably does... but that is because that most women if they are not getting any at the time would rather be sleeping with someone than not sleeping with someone!

So lets now take another girl, same night club. She is there in a long ankle length skirt, with a top that covers her shoulders and her hair in a pony tail. You can clearly see that were she to let her hair down then it would likely flow down and across her shoulders in a most seductive way – she has chosen not to in this case. So the same questions I ask, is she looking to get some attention from the opposite sex? Yes she probably still is! Just because she is not as confidant with her own body to show it off in the same way, does not mean that she doesn’t have the same needs and desires as the girl who is being far more forward with how she looks.

Does she want to sleep with someone? I would say she probably wants to sleep with someone just as much as the other girl! Her way of expressing herself is more shy perhaps, but again what she wants could be just as explicit.

My point here I think is that how a girl dresses is not a reflection of whether she would love to be getting some sex from someone she would enjoy sleeping with. Yes some girls are more comfortable showing off more skin, but whether they choose to show more or less on the dance floor, there truly is an equality of potential sexual desire inside everyone equally. Remember this next time you see a girl you fancy, and consider just going up to her and saying hello, regardless of what she is wearing.