Finding a fuck buddy is one of the best things that one can do. They can change your life. Even if you are someone that has a good life, a fuck buddy can up your happiness and life game. Maybe you have a great job, a fantastic set of friends, a family that love you and are really nice to you… have someone you can booty call is the best thing ever. You may be thinking, ‘but I can get a girlfriend for that’ and you would be right to a degree, but you would be wrong to think that a girlfriend was anything near as good. Allow me to explain why as I lay out for you, the five reasons that a fuck buddy is better than a girlfriend.
A fuck buddy always puts out
With a girlfriend, there are a lot of other factors that are tied into the relationship. You have dates, dinners, family and friends. You are trying to fulfil each other’s needs emotionally as well as physically. You and your girlfriend also have to get each other's friends and families to like you, and you have to support the other through both careers and other big life processes… that can sometimes means that sex does not happen! It could be because of an argument or other stress factors, but it does happen! With a fuck buddy, they always put out. The purpose is for sex, you both want it, so you both get to have it. It is perfect.
You don’t have to do stuff you don’t enjoy
If your girlfriend loves going to see soppy films or the theatre and you hate it, you might find yourself sitting through things that you do not enjoy just to keep her happy. You do not have to do any of this with a fuck buddy, and your fuck buddy won’t mind! They will go and do the things they love that you hate with the people that also love it. You will both be happier for it!
It is cheaper!
Yes you heard me, it is cheaper! No longer do you have to wine and dine you hook up for the whole evening, you can get to the bedroom much quicker and without the rituals of restauranting. It is incredibly liberating.
A level of honesty that leads to better sex
The best way to have the best sex of your life is to be honest with the other person. Whilst there are times where the best thing to do is to fake it till you make it, the best long term strategy is to be honest about what you do and don’t like. As the focus is the sex, you can be frank with a fuck buddy sexually in a way that you cannot with a girlfriend. There is no fear that anything you suggest will result in your being judged. This is one of my favourite things about adult dating.
You can have more than one
What is better than one good thing? It is two! Whilst a girlfriend might get upset if you have more than one of them, a fuck buddy rarely will. They understand the ‘no strings attached’ nature of the relationship and they won’t throw your stuff out of the window if you decide to share your love with more than one person.
So there are my top 5 reasons that a fuck buddy is better ha a girlfriend. Whether you decide to go for a girlfriend or not is of course up to you, but I would strongly advise you try both before deciding.