If you’ve never had anal sex before then this post is definitely for you. Still very much a taboo subject putting the penis where it’s not supposed to go is a massive turn on for a lot of guys and some girls. But not many people actually know how to prepare for anal sex much less what to do during it. We’ve prepared a few tips and suggestions to help you on your way. If you’re thinking about it that is.
1. Relax
This applies to both your body and your mind. It’s essential you feel relaxed before beginning. If you’re feeling worried and stressed that will translate through your muscles and you’re arse will tense up. Not only will this be difficult for the guy to put his penis in but it will be painful for you.
2. Lube and lots of it
The bum is not designed for sex technically speaking. It’s important to use as much lubricant as possible before going ahead. Try having your F-Buddy do a lot of foreplay before going rear entry as this will help you relax and you can build the lube into the foreplay.
3. Communicate
If you don’t let the guy know what he can and cannot do than neither of you are going to enjoy anal. Discuss your fears and maybe use a finger first to get you both used to the idea of it.
4. Stay in Control
If you’re not comfortable doing something, don’t do it. This rule applies to anal sex just like anything else. The first time you’re letting a guy put his penis in your arse can be worrying so make sure you have control. A good way to go at your own speed is to sit on top of the guy. This allows you to dictate speed and thrust. If it hurts stop.
5. Use condoms
Let’s not beat about the bush, the bum is where shit comes out. Anal sex can be an amazing sensation for both parties but it’s wise to use a condom before going in. This can prevent infections and keep things clean for both parties.
6. Use a vibrator if you feel comfortable
If you discover you enjoy the sensation of anal sex use a vibrator on your vagina at the same time. You’ll find that the guy gets off on your pleasure as much as you do.
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