Is having a fuck buddy worth it?
Casual sex gets a lot of stick in mainstream media. It's often cited as the reason for a whole generation's moral decline. Apparently we're all so interested in hopping into bed with complete strangers that we're unable to form any kind of intimate emotional connection with another person. Whilst an argument can be made in support of that assertion, there are counter arguments which show casual sex can indeed help people at certain times. Indeed having a fuck buddy for a period of time can be instrumental in helping you maintain a long term relationship with another person. By being...
How do you know when a fuck buddy has become something more?
At face value this is quite a simple question. In practise we all know that it is a little more complicated than that. Having sex the first time with anyone is always exciting, and lust takes over from rational emotion. However there are some tell tell signs which should help you determine whether or not relationship has become more then sex, or if it is just sex.
1. The Morning After
There are massive schools of thought who suggest that in order to maintain a long term casual sex relationship; you must never under any circumstances allow your fuck buddy to...
The Power Of Self Esteem Part 4: Love Yourself
We've covered 2 of the three parts of getting yourself the sex life that you desire through the power of self esteem but today we are landing at the core of this topic and that is truly learning to accept who you are and loving yourself for who you are and being thankful for how awesome you and your life is.
This is a tough task for many to achieve though because we have so many ways to find out how insufficient we are in so many different ways in this day and age. You can look and find people that are a thousand times better at pretty much anything than you in an instant and that's...
The Power Of Self Esteem Part 3: Your Sexual Advances are a Good Thing
Your sexual advances are a good thing, it says so in the title and it's bloody true. A lot of time and effort is put into telling us what we should not do when it comes to sexual encounters but there is almost nothing telling us how great our sexuality is and that we are actively going out and sharing our passionate lust with others. So today I will be the one to pat you all on the back for wanting sex and showing that to people and indeed tell you off for holding back and pretending you are some monk like character and then sheepishly masterbating in the corner in shame.
No you...
The Power Of Self Esteem Part 2: Sex is Not a Big Deal
So the title of this blog might be misleading, sex is a big deal in the respect that it is critical to the continuation of the species and is arguably the greatest single motivator in every adult's life, food and shelter might trump it though but you can tend to get enough of those and that is typically not the case with sex for most. So sex is both important to us as a species and for our own personal well being, so in that light it seems like the biggest deal imaginable, but that is the problem. The mind set I just explained is what causes so many humans to be having no where near as...
The Power Of Self Esteem
We all want more sex and better sex but we also normally tend to look for this sexual satisfaction in the wrong places and therefore make the wrong assumptions as to why we are not getting as much sex as we would like to be. A common assumption that will come to those that are sexually unsatisfied is that it is their natural physical and or psychological aspects that defines their sexual success rate and the the conclusion that leads to is that there is nothing that they can do about it.
This leads to despair and retreating into oneself and avoiding situations where you could have...
Does Class Decide Your Sex Life? Part 4: Upper Class
Today I will be covering the last of our 3 classes in this meta series of blog posts about the ways that our, and out partner's class background effects our sex life.
This is the day for the upper class, and I suppose the first question to ask is what real problems do upper class people have compared to those of us not so lucky to have their privilege? I mean it is reasonable to say the upper class people do have almost everything easier in life and that does carry over into the sex lives of the upper classes. They can impress with their money and possessions and even use their...
Our Newest Members: Meet Moaning Maria
If you are looking for a sexually confident fuck buddy then get in contact with Maria right now. She's looking for people to meet for all kinds of sexual adventures including dogging and voyeurism. So if you are up for some out there sexual adventures with a sexy older woman get logged in right now and chat up this lovely lass.
Does Class Decide Your Sex Life? Part 3: Middle Class
So last time we covered the issues that are of concern to working class people and people that are sleeping with a working class person. So that means that today we can move on to covering the issues that involve middle class people when it comes to sexuality. As briefly covered in the original introductory post in this series (as seen here) middle class people's common sexual issues relate mostly to repression and frustration which leads to some other related sexual issues. For this reason...
Does Class Decide Your Sex Life? Part 2: Working Class
If you missed it last week we covered the three different classes and how their sexuality is affected by their class. In that post I made an outline of the typical problems that each class can find themselves in due to their social standing but today I will make my first post with advice to people that are affected by these issues.
The first of the classes to be covered is the working class. The working class is probably the most derided as far as society's view of them and so I do feel the need to preface this article by mounting somewhat of a defence of working class sexuality....