Whether you are a girl who likes oral sex, or the guy or girl who likes to go down on your female fuck buddy, oral sex can be the greatest thing if done right. Sometimes it can be used to tease and tantalise the other person as a starter to the main event. Other times you might enjoy licking out your partner’s pussy as a desert to some sweaty and satisfying sex either as an added bonus or to help them orgasm after you have. Sometimes though, you want them to come in your mouth. Being able to help your hook up orgasm from oral sex is a great way to make sure that one-time hook up becomes a more established friends with benefits relationship. The best way to get good at oral sex is practice! The more you do it, the better you will get at it…. that being said, an extra tip or two to help you help your fuck buddy to get there never hurt. With that in mind, please find below my top tips to helping your female fuck buddy orgasm from oral sex.
Make sure they are comfortable
Being comfortable is a key element to having them come. Stress is the enemy of orgasm, so take control of the environment you are in and make her relax. Is she a lights on or off type of a girl? Does she need you to take it slow and gentle to allow her to relax into it, or does she prefer someone to take charge in the bedroom and make strong choices so that she understands that things are being taken care of for her? Whatever it is, watch her body and spot the tension. If it is there, make sure you adjust to help relieve it… she will orgasm much more easily if you do.
Get a good position
When you are going down on a girl, you may find you are there for some time, so it is important that you are both comfortable! Popping a pillow under her bum will slightly raise her hips and change the angle to give you better access to her clitoris. This is an excellent way to improve the sensations for her. You also want to make sure you are comfortable, if you start to get tired you will flag faster and enjoy it less, so if that means pulling her to the bottom of the bed so that you sit comfortably on the floor with her legs hanging off the sides of the bed, you should do that.
Take the time it needs
Now you are comfortable, you can really take your time. If you really want to make your partner orgasm, sometimes it can ten minutes, sometimes twenty, sometimes longer! There will also be times when no matter how you work, you can not tip your fuck buddy over the edge. When this happens, it is okay. Accept it and move on to something else. They will not mind if you use a finger or two, and ultimately this is not an exam with rules that you have to do something a certain way. You are there to have fun and enjoy yourself, so as long as you are doing that, it is all good.
So bear the above in mind next time you are going down on a girl and you will find your journey to make her come easier.
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