Tips for sleeping with a fuck buddy for the first time

31 Mar 2020 - 18:44 | Tags: first time sex rules, fuck buddies, casual sex tips

Welcome to the fuck buddy website, the place we help you find a no string attached relationship. Adult dating has become more acceptable by society as time has gone on. In this time of social distancing and the Coronavirus, having someone that you can hook up with, without having to devote time and resources to outside of the bedroom, has become more important than ever. We all need sex, it is an important part of a healthy and happy life. However, we don’t necessarily need all the attachments that traditional society tells us come with that sex. If you want a relationship, you can have one, but you do not need to have a relationship to have sex. Having a fuck buddy or a friends with benefits relationship gives you all the bedroom time you need with none of the winning and dinning unless you want that part of it.

For some people, this is a new concept for them to get their heads around. Many people have been brought up indoctrinated to think that the relationship and sex go hand in hand. This is simply not true. The only way to break this is to do it. Once you have had your first successful hookup, once you have slept with your first fuck buddy, the shackles of your previous thinking drop away leaving you free to make the choices that are right for you.

For those of you who have never had a fuck buddy, it can seem like a daunting prospect. Fear not, it is easier than it feels right now. To help you out, here are my top tips for sleeping with a fuck buddy for the first time.

Put aside your expectations

You will go into any sexual meeting with expectations. Try your best not to. Put aside your preconceived notions about what your partner will or will not want. The thing that is most likely to be holding you back is a sense that it will go wrong, that it will not work out. Put that to one side and try and expect it to go well instead! Remember, they want to sleep with you as much as you want to sleep with them, so they want it to go as well as you do!

Fortune favours the bold!

They say you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. In the case of a fuck buddy, if there is someone you like, the only way to 100% guarantee that you will not have sex with them is to not try. If you try, it may not work out, but it also might! The only way to be sure is to try! So give it go. If you see someone, see if they want to hook up. Fortune favours the bold!

Use a condom

Always use a condom. The first time you sleep with someone, the best thing to do is to be safe. No matter what they say about whether they have been tested for STI’s or that they are on the pill… always use a condom. It is the only way to be sure.

Have fun! The first time you have sex with a fuck buddy is a night to remember.

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