kinky sex
Using ice in the bedroom
One of the best things about having a fuck buddy or a friends with benefits relationship is that you can really experiment in the bedroom. Due to the sexual focus of the partnership, a fuck buddy is way more likely to be up for trying new things out in the bedroom, and that can be very exciting. That can start as just trying out new sexual positions, which is always a good idea as let's face it, missionary position is about the worst position if you are trying to make a woman come / if you are a woman and you want to come. It is just not how we are really built to have sex. There are all...
Top Types of Food to use in the bedroom during sex
There are many fun things you can do in the bedroom to spice up your sex life and these can go from simple little things through to quite extreme complicated things! I wrote an article earlier this month about why it is sexy here. You can light a few candles to better set the mood, you could change your sheets to silk ones for a more sensual experience. If you want to take bigger actions you could fit a mirror on the ceiling, or paint the room sexy red. I terms of play you could get a camera and record...
Why is food a sexy thing to use in the bedroom
It is interesting how many different things that turn us on as humans. We get turned on by people looking a certain way, tall, short, large, slim, with or without hairy bodies! It is also amazing how many settings can affect this. So many people have very specific and certain fantasies about having sex in certain places, sex in a lift, sex in a church, sex in the lobby of a hotel... the list is endless. They also have certain scenarios played out. Most people don’t actually want the thing to happen for “real” but they would enjoy playing it out for fake, for fun. Having sex with a teacher...
New to kink? A beginners way into tying someone up in the bedroom
So you have decided you want to spice things up in the bedroom by getting your kink on and getting the rope out. This could be for a number of reasons, maybe you are in a long term relationship and you want to mix things up a little – something I highly recommend! Perhaps you have always wanted to try it and want a little guidance as to how to start, maybe you just want something different or perhaps you have a new fuck buddy that has a particular love of being bound and restrained in the bedroom and so you are stepping up in order to be able to fool around with them. Regardless of the...
Is There a Problem With Vanilla Sex?
To say that someone is ‘kinky’ or ‘vanilla’ is to ignore the wide and varied world of fetishes and sexual preferences nestled under the umbrella term of ‘kinky’. Simply put, it’s hard to say someone is truly vanilla or kinky. Everyone is different and everyone has different ways to enjoy their sexuality. Just because you enjoy being spanked does not mean you are into BDSM. Just because you enjoy having sex in the missionary position, does not mean you only enjoy having vanilla sex. As a culture, humans are obsessed with labelling things. You have to fit one label or another or we...
Do we all have a kink?
It’s the question that a lot of people want to ask, but hardly anyone tries to answer; do I have a kink? There are many reasons you never get an answer. You’re too embarrassed to think about it, you think you’re the only person in the world who feels the way you do…etc etc. Hopefully you’re smart enough to know that you are not alone at all. Everyone has different sexual preferences and many people have what we call ‘kinks’. First of all it’s worth clarifying what we mean by ‘kink’. Basically having a kink is having a sexual fetish of some sort. Basically it encompasses anything...
