how to deal with sexual rejection
If you want to find a fuck buddy, you have to bounce back
Rejection. This is something that is really hard to accept. No matter what area in life we experience rejection, when we do, it is always hard. Going for a job we really want and then being told they are giving it to someone else can really hurt. Asking a friend to come to your party / dinner / event and they say no because they are going to something else already can sting. Seeing if your family want to come and help you with something but they say they cannot because they have the kids that weekend, even this is a rejection (as understandable as it is). All of this has...
Truth and lies: the honesty of sex – both pleasurable and painful
Having a fuck buddy can be one of the best things in the world. Firstly sex is one the best ways to increase your overall happiness. Good food, good sleep and sex is a sure-fire recipe for feeling good! Usually, I would put the word exercise or movement in there, but the sex also does that for you. It is a fantastic workout. When you have a fuck buddy, you can afford to be really honest about the sex with them because that is the reason that you are with them. However, we are human and therefore sometimes we still struggle with this. Other times we are honest, and this can unleash a level...
Casual Sex Helps Deal With Rejection
Believe it or not casual sex can help us deal with emotional and physical rejection. This claim was first made back in 2012 by several psychologists studying the long term effects casual hook ups can have on a person’s mental health. There were of course both positives and negatives to having multiple sexual partners on a regular basis just as there are on having a single sexual partner on a long term basis. But whereas a bad break up in a long term sexual relationship can take months – sometimes years – to get over, the rebuff from a casual sex partner toughens the mental barrier we...
