When it comes to the repertoire of things you can do during sex, giving or getting a blow job (for many people) is part of a staple diet of things to do in the bedroom. Whether it is with a long term fuck buddy or with someone you just hooked up with, blow jobs are the best! They are a great way to make a man come, they can be done discretely in places other than the bedroom or the safety and privacy of your own home, and they can also be a great thing if the person giving the blow job is not interested in having sex but wants to be generous to their fuck buddy that really does want to have sex. All-in-all, blow jobs are just brilliant. This brings us to the question for the person giving the blow job, to spit or to swallow? This is the question!
Personal preference
The first thing is that certain people may already have a strong preference. For some people swallowing someone else’s semen gives them a heightened sense of intimacy with that person, for others it is a real no-go and they just don’t like it. It is important that if you are with someone who has a strong feeling either way that you respect that feeling of theirs.
Is spitting or swallowing better?
The answer here is simple, neither is “better” it really is a personal choice. The spitting/swallowing happens after the man has come, so it rarely affects the orgasm of the person in question. That being said, some men find it sexy or like it when their partner swallows, but this is a mental preference, it is not a biological drive.
Is swallowing safe?
If you have a sexually transmitted disease, then swallowing semen could be an issue. If there is no STI in play then swallowing is completely safe and can be done without any stress or concern. In case it needs to be said, swallowing a man’s semen, if you are a woman, cannot make you pregnant. I think this is widely known, but I mention it for the avoidance of doubt.
Top tip on how to swallow a man’s semen should you chose to do so
Don’t try and swallow your fuck buddy’s semen all at once, do it in bits. Some men can come quite hard with a lot of semen, so swallowing in stages can help to deal with the volume. If you have your fuck buddy’s penis quite deep in your mouth you might find that the sensation of the semen hitting the back of your throat can induce a gag reflex... if this is the case and it becomes a problem ask your fuck buddy to indicate when they are about to come so that you can better deal with this.
So the choice ultimately is yours, but I hope you found this helpful when thinking about this as a choice.
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