Once you have slept with someone, forever have you broken a boundary with them. No matter what happens in the future, whether you stay friends or become enemies, perhaps they become your boss or your employee, or maybe they end up dating your mate. It matters not, you crossed that line once, and once it has been crossed once, the ease with which you can cross it again will never be completely reduced or made redundant. Welcome to this month’s article on fuck buddy, the website where we help you get a no strings attached relationship or find a fuck buddy in your area. This month I would like to tell you about why you are going to have sex with an ex (if you haven’t already!).
The first time you sleep with someone you are having to cross all sorts of personal boundaries that you are just not used to having to cross. In our day to day lives, we just don’t touch each other that much. Sure we shake hands when we first meet, or we might clap the back of each other in congratulations, but we tend to not to touch each other more than needed, and we also never touch skin. Think about this for a moment… how many of the people that you work with have you seen naked? Okay let’s make it easier, how many of them have you seen half naked, let’s say topless? Okay still not getting much here. How many of them have you pressed your hand against the skin on their lower back? You see where I am going with this?
Your issue here is that there are relatively few people that you have crossed that physical boundary with, that you have been naked with and that you can be naked with. This means that once you have crossed that boundary, they enter the small number of people that you could do that with again comfortably, which means that at some point you are going to have sex with an ex.
Is this a problem?
It depends. If for you having sex with an ex is going to cause you emotional turmoil and doubt. If it is going to cause havoc in your internal systems, now you know it is on the cards, stay well away from it! If on the other hand it is not – then fuck it! (literally!)
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