For women words are a bigger turn on then sending a picture of your penis or ‘ripped’ abs. For men words can also provide an increased level of sexual desire before actually meeting up with a potential fuck buddy. This neatly brings us to the subject of casual sexting.
Is sexting, dirty texting?
Kind of…but mainly no. The difference between sexting and dirty texting is that sexting is much more direct. Sending a dirty text is easy. Sending a ‘sext’ is more challenging but a lot more fun with a much greater benefit – it is designed to wind up and turn the other person on so that sex is not even a question when you meet up.
How do you do it?
How do you get to Carnegie Hall? Practice, practice, practice. Good sexting is akin to good sex – the more you do it, the better you’ll get. Sending a few dirty lines in a text has the power to arouse in ways you can barely imagine. Women especially find a leading text to be much more powerful than a picture of a man in his briefs flexing his biceps. Sexting is about getting right down to it, which is where it differs from dirty and innuendo laden texting.
You can go full on X-Rated straight from the get go or you can be a bit cleaner if you choose. What remains the same is your directness. At no point must there be any doubt. What your texting, is designed to indicate to your partner what you want and the naughty and/or filthy things you’re going to do them when you meet up. Remember to be direct and you’re halfway home to a great fuck.
Basic sexting rules
When sexting it’s best to follow a few simple pieces of advice as people can get confused.
1. Don't sext someone out of the blue
Even if you’ve gotten their number, it’s wise to wait until you’re sure you’ve been given the green light. Remember sexting is slightly different to flirting and dirty texting.
2. Avoid sending pictures of your face if you’re going to send naked or dirty photos
Who knows where they’ll end up? It’s easy for someone to tag you on Facebook or Twitter if the meet up goes sour. Sometimes it’s best to avoid photos altogether in sexting.
3. Sext what you’d actually say in person
Two reasons for this; a) it will sound pretty odd if you speak differently to the way you text when you meet up in person and b) just like a photo, a sext could end up being tagged online. Best to keep your speech patterns consistent as that way you’re more likely to get laid and less likely to end up being embarrassed online.
Safe Sexting Fun
Sexting can be an important part of a casual relationship due mainly to its ability to keep things hot and naughty. Avoid making any stupid mistakes by following our advice and above all, have fun!
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