Over the past year we have talked a lot about casual sex and the benefits and pitfalls involved. Whether or not you’re looking for a girlfriend/boyfriend or just someone to fuck, casual sex will at some point be of use to you. With all the data we’ve collected we have managed to put together 4 Basic Tenets that will help you enjoy your casual sex a lot more then you will if you go in blind.
1. Experiment
This isn’t a girlfriend or boyfriend you’re banging. This is either a friend or casual acquaintance with whom to enjoy some physical pleasure with. As such you should treat it as practice for when you do meet someone you want to spend more time with. Don’t be afraid to try things (eg. New positions, techniques) that you ordinarily don’t do. You can use your partner as a litmus test for what you like and don’t like and vice versa.
2. Find what works best for you
Kind of an addendum to the first point. Through experimenting with different things you will be able to find something that works for you. Basically you’ll be in a far better position to impress a girl you do want to impress with your sexual confidence.
3. Don’t treat your sex partner like a boyfriend/girlfriend
Make sure you’re both on the same page before you start fucking as otherwise someone’s feelings are going to get hurt. Be clear on the status and nature of the casual relationship right from the start because if you’re not, further down the line one of you is going to get into a lot of trouble and pain that’s just not worth the effort. This is a need to fulfil a sexual desire. Do not treat it otherwise…unless you both agree to.
4. Go Wild
This is your opportunity to cut loose and fuck free in the bedroom. You have no fear of what you’re getting up to of leaking out to someone you may know in a casual relationship (which is another reason to keep the rest of your life separate from this) so feel free to act out hard core porn scenes, bondage…whatever your wildest fantasies may be. Just warn your partner first so that they aren’t too shocked by your wild side when it comes into play!
Follow the Tenets…Enjoy the Pleasures
Casual sex can be a great way to relieve stress cause by little to no sex but you must remember some of these basic rules in order to enjoy it to the full and avoid hurting someone…including yourself.
Happy fucking!
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