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Should I spit or swallow come/semen from my fuck buddy

EdBennett — Sat, 22 May 2021 23:50:15 +0000

23 May 2021 - 00:50 | Tags: blow job tips, finding your inner fuck buddy

Having a fuck buddy is all about having a great time in bed. It is all the best parts of the physical aspects of a relationship with none of the annoying and draining parts of a long term relationship. You are there to pleasure each other physically, that is all. One of the most powerful things about this focus is that they sex can get really good. As the primary focus is the sex, as this is a no strings attached relationship, you spend all your energy on that. There is no wasted time and effort on other, less important things. You look to giving your partner and yourself the most mind blowing sexual experience that you can. This can lead to outstanding results.

Foreplay is an important part of that experience. Fore includes almost anything that happens before the actual sex: kissing, rubbing skin, playing with each other’s nipples or chests, telling each other what you are going to do to them verbally… the list is endless. One of the very common things is oral sex. Oral sex is excellent for everyone. The person getting it loves it, the person giving it can enjoy it just as much. The power from making your partner come is an important satisfier as much as coming yourself. Blow jobs are excellent for this… but when it comes to blow jobs, a question that often arises is: should I spit or swallow? Let’s start with some facts.

Can you get pregnant from swallowing semen?

No. There is no way that swallowing come can get you pregnant. You have to still be cautious about moving the semen from your mouth to your vagina of course, but that is rarely an issue in practice.

Can you get other diseases from swallowing semen?

Passing fluids between people can transmit diseases, so it can in the same way that kissing the other person can, and if you have someone’s come in your mouth you likely have already had their saliva in it as well! That being said if the person has an STI (sexually transmitted disease) then that can be transmitted, so it is good to be safe if you do not know if they have had an STI test recently.

Is spitting or swallowing better?

This really is a personal choice, but swallowing is easier. That is not to say it is the right choice for you, you should do whatever you most want to do. Some people get a turn on by swallowing, and some men are turned on by having their semen swallowed, but really it is up to you.

So the answer is really to do what you want to do, but I hope that the extra information above makes you more comfortable in making that choice.

Having a fuck buddy is how it was always meant to be

EdBennett — Fri, 28 Aug 2020 17:08:41 +0000

28 Aug 2020 - 18:08 | Tags: finding your inner fuck buddy, why casual sex is important

It is widely accepted that when it comes to having partners, we ‘ought’ to be monogamous. This is something that pervades the whole of society and is an accepted truth. The way that we ‘should’ have relationships is to go out, find someone, court them and no one else, then form a monogamous partnership that lasts for the rest of our lives. We are raised to believe this and we pass that belief on to our kids and reinforce it in the people around us. However, this is simply not how things always have been, no matter how we might wish to believe that it is. In fact, having fuck buddies were really how things were when we were more in touch with our natural selves.

We come from nature and ultimately we are one animal of the animal kingdom. That is not to say we are not the dominant force! Our ability to make tools, to use our intellect to create and invent things to propel us into the forefront as the dominant species is quite incredible. We now fly in metal boxes through the air like birds and can talk to people on the other side of the world as if we are telepaths. The human race is amazing… but we are also all just animals. We came from the animal kingdom and all the instincts and drives that were part of our make up still reside within us. The desire and drive to have sex are one of these residual instincts.

Just as it would have been during cave times, we want to have sex and procreate. We cannot help it, it is simply part of who we are as human creatures. We also want to do so in a way that is most likely to make our offspring successful in the animal kingdom, which is why we are attracted to certain people and we all fight over the prime members of our race. There is a reason that we all lust after supermodels, actors and other high profile people. It is hard-wired into us to want to have sex upwards.

We also are hard-wired to be non-monogamous. Back in the caveman days we would have had sex with more than one person! The ‘leader’ of the pack would have had sex with the most, with things tapering down from there. So when we talk about having a fuck buddy, we are simply talking about doing things in the way that we used to. This is not a new invention or way of living, we all used to do this as the normal!

So if you have ever considered trying a no strings attached relationship and have never done it before, remember this: it was how things always used to be.

Your first fuck buddy

EdBennett — Wed, 26 Feb 2020 20:52:35 +0000

26 Feb 2020 - 20:52 | Tags: first time sex rules, finding your inner fuck buddy

They say there is a first time for everything, and this is, of course, true! Your first steps, your first word, your first school, your first crush, your first kiss, and yes, even your first fuck. The first time that you have sex, it is never great. There is excitement and insecurity and a massive lack of skill and knowledge that is required to have objectively good sex. That being said, it can often be really special. The first time that you have a fuck buddy can be a similar experience.

When you are a virgin, you probably spent a long time thinking about sex before actually having it. You talked to your mates about it, you imagined it, you probably even took some tips from the internet. The same is true with a fuck buddy. The idea of having a no strings attached relationship can be very exciting. All the benefits of sex with none of the downsides that come with the long term relationship. Most people think about it, perhaps talk to their mates about it, probably look to the internet to find out more about it which may be why you are reading this article! Thinking is good, but nothing can happen until you take action.

Taking action to get your first fuck buddy can be daunting. Doing something new is often difficult as it involves stepping outside of your comfort zone. You have to take a bit of a leap of faith. Jumping in and trusting that there is everything to gain and nothing to lose by trying it. Once you have a fuck buddy, you will find out if it is for you.

For many people, one of the big nerves about having their first fuck buddy is whether it is “okay” to do it. Many people have been raised to think that sex should be in a monogamous relationship only. Getting over this in order to open the door to having something that is a booty call and nothing more can be hard. The only way to really prove it to yourself is to do it. After the first time you have sex with a fuck buddy, you will realise that everything is alright! The world has not ended, all that has happened is joy between two consenting adults.

If you have never had a fuck buddy, now is the time to give it a go. The first time you booty call someone (or are booty called by someone) is a very special moment. Like the first time you had sex you will always remember it.

Masturbating saved my marriage

EdBennett — Sat, 08 Dec 2018 17:47:10 +0000

8 Dec 2018 - 17:47 | Tags: masturbation is healthy, finding your inner fuck buddy

When you are younger, there is this feeling that masturbation is something that everyone does, but no one talks about. Without talking about it, there is this feeling that it is naughty in some way. You are not sure how or why, but you have this understanding that it is something that you shouldn’t be doing, and you certainly don’t talk to your parents about it. You do it because you are driven to by an instinct that comes from the body. It is the same instinct that helps drive you to hook up with people, to pursue that fuck buddy till you find yourself in bed together. It is healthy. This is a story from someone, who will remain anonymous, about how masturbation saved his marriage.

The relationship

I was in a long-term married relationship. In the early days, things were amazing. We were all over each other, we could not keep our hands off each other. We were not in a formal relationship, it was more like a friends-with-benefits setup. We met and fucked… but we also talked and laughed a lot. It was really nice. What started as a lust driven hook up quickly became more, and 7 years later I found myself married in a relationship that was far from what it was when it started. We argued all the time, there was a lot of unhappiness, and we hardly ever had sex any more. I did not know how to fix it, what to do. I knew how good it could be, but I had no idea how to recapture the sexual energy that we had when we first started.

I came home early

One day I came home early from work, much earlier than I ever do. I was tired. I popped my laptop bag on the floor, dropped the coat, and made my way upstairs to the bathroom, thinking that the house was empty. As fate had it, my wife’s daytime had cancelled, and she was home. I could hear loud music playing from the bathroom, masking the sound of my approach. I walked into the bathroom to find her in the bath, bubbles going and a glass of wine on the side, masturbating. Her eyes were closed and I could see the pleasure on her face. I stood, just watching for a while. It felt like walking into a porn movie, but one where my lady was the porn star. I could feel myself getting hard from watching this woman who I had fucked countless times, once again in the run-up to orgasm like she once did under my hand.

I joined in

With the energy of this in the room, I walked over and kissed her. It was not the peck on the lips from a husband, nor the soft gentle kiss of a long time lover, but the hungry needy kiss of a fuck buddy, the kind of kiss I used to do back in the day. Her shock dissolved to pleasure, and before I knew it I was joining her in the bath.

Fuck buddy fucking again changed everything

It changed everything. We both remembered what it was like, how much we wanted each other, and in the throws of orgasm, we found once again our lust for each other. It is amazing how much easier it is not to argue, to find the compromised in life when you are sexually satisfied.

I will never underestimate the importance of a good sex life. You may think that your problems come from something else, and maybe they do, but a great sex life can help to abate everything else.