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Using technology to enhance your value as a fuck buddy

EdBennett — Wed, 30 Jun 2021 22:54:34 +0000

30 Jun 2021 - 23:54 | Tags: sex technique, improving your sex life

When it comes to having sex, we could all do with having more of it. There are two ways of making this happen. You can either find more people to have sex with, or you can try and have more sex with the people that you are already sleeping with. Both are valid options, though you can’t do the latter unless you already have the former in place to a degree! If you aren’t sleeping with anyone at the moment your first step is to find a fuck buddy. There are other articles on this site that will help you do that and I would urge you to go and read those first. Do not despair. Remember, when you have sex with someone, they also get to have sex with you, which means they are getting laid as well. This has always been one of the best things about having a fuck buddy, it is a win-win on both sides. For those of you that already have a fuck buddy, if you want to be having more sex, the best way of doing this is to increase your value as a fuck buddy. There are lots of ways of doing this, health, fitness, looks, skill in the bedroom, access to certain places or events. In this article we are focusing on one thing, using technology to enhance your value as a fuck buddy. Enter Kindu.

Kindu is an app that allows you to look at sexual fantasy cards and swipe yes or no to whether you are interested in them or not. You link the account to your fuck buddy who sees the same or similar cards and does the same thing. At the end, the app will tell you where you have matched. So why is this useful? Well many people are shy to talk about their fantasies. Here, if you swipe yes to something and the other person isn’t into it, then they will never know. You only know about the fantasies that you both have said yes to. This takes the pressure off and allows you to be totally honest.

The other bonus is that then when you do it, because you haven’t spoken about it, it can still have an element of spontaneity to it. Say you both would love to have sex in a lift, once you both know, you can both be on the look out for an opportunity without ever having discussed it directly.
Give it a try, it has worked for fuck buddies in the past, no reason it can’t work for you too.

Edging for both you and your fuck buddy

EdBennett — Fri, 29 Jan 2021 08:43:33 +0000

29 Jan 2021 - 08:43 | Tags: sex technique, better sex guide

Sex is amazing. We all know this. It is one of the reasons that having a fuck buddy is such a good thing. Having a life with sex in it, is a great way to just up your overall happiness game. Having a fuck buddy is a way to guarantee sex in your life without all the nonsense that comes with a formal relationship at a time in your life when you do not want it. What you want will change over time of course, but at this time, if you want the sex without the strings attached, then a fuck buddy is the way forward.

So you have your fuck buddy and the sex is good. Want to make it even better for both of you? Try edging.

What is edging?

Edging is where you extend the anticipation of the orgasm by coming close to it, but not going all the way the first time. It means taking yourself and your fuck buddy to the verge of the orgasm but not over the edge, like walking on a cliff edge.

Why edge?

We all deserve a well earned reward, after we have earned it, much more than if we just get handed it with no work or build up. Edging does this same thing. The extended anticipation increases blood flow around the pelvic area making everything more sensitive. This enhances your orgasm and the orgasm of your fuck buddy.

How do I edge?

This is simple. When you are with your fuck buddy or the person you have hooked up with and you are about to orgasm, back off. Slow down. Reduce your stimulation. This can be done by stopping entirely, or by slowing down and moving the touching to other, less sensitive areas. Once you have brought yourself back from the brink of orgasm, begin your approach to it again and building yourself up. You can do this as many times as you like. There will come a point where you will just explode, and that explosion will be more powerful for the build up.

Set it up!

Do not just do this without telling your fuck buddy, otherwise they will think you are odd or feel rejected by you pushing them away just as things are about to kick off! Get them on board with the idea and the process and do it together. You will both be happier for having done it, and it will lead to many nights of slowly increasing pleasure as you get better and better at it.

It's not the size of the boat, it is the motion of the ocean

EdBennett — Wed, 20 Jun 2018 15:53:01 +0000

20 Jun 2018 - 16:53 | Tags: sex technique, how to have better sex, size does not matter

We are obsessed with size in many areas of our life. We all want to have climbed the biggest mountain, the tallest tower. We want to have partied for the longest night, danced the hardest, visited the biggest mega club. We want to have drunk the most alcohol, to have been the most smashed that one could be. We want to have had the most explosive orgasm, the most uncontrollable crazy night of sex ever. All of these are valid desires, and I am in no criticising or undermining the value or validity in them. In many ways I would encourage them, for these are rooted in the desire to live life, to embrace what life has to offer by going out and trying to experience the very best that life has to offer us.

Where I would try and correct the approach is the focus on the size and not the experience, and this is especially true when it comes to sex. We really are obsessed with size, and this cannot be better demonstrated than by our obsession with the size of a man’s penis. The bigger the dick, the better as far as everyone is concerned. Once again, there are strong advantages in having a large dick, and I would never deny these advantages… how ever there is more to it than just size. A bigger factor in a good night of sex is technique.

If you won the genetic lottery and have a big dick, then that is great news for you, congratulations. Whether you are the person or you are not, you must pay attention to technique as well. It is not enough to simply have the equipment, it is what you do with it that counts. Are you building up the sex with good foreplay? Are you making sure you tease and tantilise her as you building up to the sex? Are you using language, either through words and story, or through silence at the right time as sometimes saying nothing is one of the most powerful things you can do? Unless you are one of the few unfortunate people that has real trouble coming yourself (which also thus means you can also keep going for hours without loosing your hard on), you want to be good with your hands in order to be able to play with her before starting the sex. Are you doing this, are you listening to her body and being sensitive to what she enjoys and does not enjoy?

It really is all about these things much more than simple size. So whether you are born with a huge dick or not, it does not matter. Keep your focus on your technique, on being in the moment and improving what you are doing, for it really is not the size of the boat, it is the motion of the ocean.