F-Buddy.com - the science of attraction

The face makes all the difference

EdBennett — Wed, 12 Jun 2019 17:36:06 +0000

12 Jun 2019 - 18:36 | Tags: being attractive, the science of attraction, looks matter

Being attractive is affected by many different elements. It is driven by your what you do. People who are bin men are naturally less attractive than people who are doctors or high-profile film actors. This is to do with the amount of money that you earn, but it is also about the status that comes with the job title. A doctor has a higher status than a bin man, thus the job title adds to how attractive that person is to the opposite (or same) sex.

Being attractive is also driven by what you wear. Dressing well, dressing smartly, makes you more attractive. Interestingly, some of this is for the same reasons as above. Your dress can say something about what you earn and your status. Women often say they “like a man in uniform” because that uniform goes to the root of what that person does for a living. What you wear can also just make you look sexier. Take the girls in the example picture I have posted. They are both wear short black dresses that accentuate the curvature of their breasts, particularly the one in the foreground who’s blue bra also brings out the smoothness and roundness of her boobs. What you wear can make a big difference.

Your general friendliness can make a huge difference. We want to be happy. Spending time around someone who it bright, upbeat and generally positive makes you a happier person. You almost feed off their happiness which fuels your own happiness. Thus how upbeat and happy someone is will change how attractive they are to the opposite sex.

Your body plays a huge part, especially when it comes to adult dating. If you are looking for a fuck buddy, you want them to have a smoking hot body. Again the girl in the foreground of the picture has a smoking hot body, if she messaged interested in being a fuck buddy I think most men would say yes.

The face can make all the difference. Look at the picture. Both girls are dressed in similar black dresses. Both have smoking hot bodies that compliment them. We know little about their background or demeanour, but based on the picture, the one in the foreground is super attractive, the one in the background less so. Why? The face. Sometimes the face makes all the difference. Background girl looks unhappy, a bit miserable. Perhaps this is her resting bitch face and underneath she is really nice, but we do not know that. All we know is the one in the front is hot and the one in the background less so. If she were to change her facial expression, that might be completely different.

So, remember to smile and try and cultivate a positive view of the world. You will have more sex if you do.

The difference between sexy and creepy comes down to attraction

EdBennett — Mon, 29 Apr 2019 18:30:08 +0000

29 Apr 2019 - 19:30 | Tags: the science of attraction, being attractive, how to be sexy

Welcome to the fuck buddy website, the place where we help you find the no strings attached relationship that you are looking for. Everyone wants to both be and find someone sexy. They want to be the sexy, attractive and wanted human being in the room. They want other people to admire and desire them. They want people to want them. They also want to find someone that they feel is sexy, someone that they desire and are attracted to… and they want that person to make them feel sexy by coming on to them. Being hit on is the ultimate validation that you are sexy, but hitting on someone can be hard. It takes bravery and it takes guts, because there is always the possibility of being rejected, something that no one enjoys. Ultimately everyone wants to be sexy.

No one wants to be creepy

No one wants to be creepy. The creepy guy is the guy that is a bit too pervy, a bit too touchy-feely. He is the guy that is hitting on you, and the whole thing is unpleasant, you want him to be away from you as soon as possible. When the creepy guy puts a hand on your arm, shoulder or leg, it feels icky and disgusting. The whole thing feels very unpleasant, and you want it over as soon as possible. No one wants to have the creepy person hit on them, and no one wants to be that creepy guy.

The line between creepy and sexy is often attraction

There are obvious times where someone is sexy. There are clear and easy to identify times where someone is being creepy… hiding in a bush outside someone’s house and watching them with a pair of binoculars is an obvious example of being creepy. However, there is a grey area in the middle where something sexy could be creepy and something creepy could be sexy, and the defining factor is attraction. Let us take an example.

Two people are in a bar, they are chatting and the guy puts his hand on the girls leg. If there is an attraction between them then this is sexy. It is a bold move that takes courage, thus making him seem more sexy for his bravery which is an attractive trait. It also makes her feel sexy as she has a man making clear and obvious moves to say that he finds her attractive. They both win in this situation.

Now the same situation, but this time there is no attraction. The guy puts his hand on the girls leg. Now it is creepy. He has gone where he was not invited. She does not want to be touched so intimately and he is doing it anyway. She probably wants out but does not instantly know how to deal with it. Meanwhile the guy is loving the contact… which means, even though he does not necessarily know it he is taking pleasure at her discomfort. This is creepy.

The only difference here is the attraction levels. So what can you do about it? Well you can try and be more sensitive to the signs. Being bold is good, but if you make a move like putting a hand on someone’s leg and they do not like it, retract it and then give them a little space. You can even be honest and call it if you wanted to and apologise. There is no attraction so you are not going to end up as fuck buddies anyway so you lose nothing by saying sorry.

Best of luck finding your fuck buddy!

Why married men are more attractive

EdBennett — Fri, 07 Sep 2018 15:55:51 +0000

7 Sep 2018 - 16:55 | Tags: being attractive, the science of attraction

It is not a surprise the number of married people that have affairs. I can look at it and understand that after you have been with the same person for a decade that your sexual needs may differ. When you first get together, you are both humping like rabbits. Early couples, in reality, are fuck buddies. They have found someone that they want to have a lot of sex with, if that is not a fuck buddy I am not sure what is! They become a “couple” when that progresses in other areas of their lives, but the best couples remain fuck buddies for life. However, this is a rare thing. For most couples, this tends to die off after a while. The flames of passion are extinguished, and the two-people become nothing more than friends with benefits where the “benefits” are few and far between. At this point, is it any wonder that men go off and have affairs?

What does come as a surprise is the number of single women that have affairs with married men. It is completely understandable that married people go off and have affairs, and the obvious way to do that would be to sleep with other dissatisfied married people. However what actually happens is that married men end up sleeping with single unmarried women much more than you would expect. Given the number of these women that are looking for more than fuck buddy, this seems like an unexpected turn of events. In reality, it is not. Married men are more attractive than unmarried men, and here is why.

Married men are pre-validated. They must make good sexual partners, as someone has already chosen them as their only sexual partner!
Married men have high sexual value. This value is determined on the basis that they are married, which makes them seem valuable.
Married men are unattainable. As humans we all want we cannot have, a married man is, in theory, unattainable.
Married men are “safe” to flirt with. Over time that flirting and sexual tension can build and become more, but the women allow it to start in the first place because the man is married.
Married men with kids have proven themselves fertile. On some level we are attracted to people because they would make good mates and help bear children. A married man who has a child already has proven this beyond doubt, and is thus attractive for this reason.

Married men are more attractive for all these reasons, so as illogical as it may seem, you are more likely to hook up when you already have someone waiting to fuck your brains out at home.

The first step to more sex, is to take action

EdBennett — Mon, 20 Aug 2018 15:27:34 +0000

20 Aug 2018 - 16:27 | Tags: the science of attraction, how to have more sex

We all want to be having more sex. It does not matter what your situation is. Whether you are currently single, or you are swimming in fuck buddies, everyone could have more sex. Having sex remains one of the most positive things that you can do for yourself, and the person that you are having sex with. Sex brings with is all the happy hormones that come with the rush of orgasm, it builds self-esteem, increases your sense of self-worth, and it is the most fun you can have a night. More sex is a good thing, period.

No matter what your situation, more sex is a good thing. So with that in mind, how does one increase the amount of sex that they are having? The first step is to take action. Nothing happens without this first step, and everything can happen if you embrace this and do something about your situation. What you do will, of course, depend on your personal situation. Here are some suggestions on some of the most common scenarios.

You are single

If you are completely single and do not have a potential fuck buddy, the best thing you can do is get online and start contacting people. You need to start by putting yourself out there and seeing what is there. This first step will quickly snowball into much more… but you must take this first step if you hope for anything to happen.

You are single but have a friend that you are attracted to

If you are have a friend that you are attracted to, that you think you might enjoy having sex with, the best thing to do is to make a move to move that friendship into a “friends with benefits” type of relationship. This is your easiest lead, your hottest opportunity. If it works out, the results can be spectacular, leading to the best fuck buddy of your life.

You have a fuck buddy

Make a booty call. Tonight. .Text them right now and make it happen. Having sex with a fuck buddy is not like dipping into a pot of water and using it till it is gone. Like magic, the more you use it, the more that there is there! Go for it!

You have a fuck buddy and they are not available / around

Time to find another fuck buddy. There is nothing more attractive than being pre validated. If you already have a fuck buddy and you tell people this, they are more likely to want to be toyour fuck buddy. This may be counter to your logic, but it remains true. Trust me.

Take action now, you never know where it will lead to.

Why fear makes you want to have sex

EdBennett — Sat, 17 Mar 2018 19:43:57 +0000

17 Mar 2018 - 19:43 | Tags: the science of attraction, aphrodisiacs, having great sex

There are many things that will help to drive you to have sex with someone else. Many of them are specific to the person. You fancy them, they look like your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend, they are pretty, they are rich, they are poor, they share the same values as you, they happen to be there and you are horney, they are the only decent looking guy or girl at the party so by comparison they seem like Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie. So many of these are to do with the specific person, and that is useless information. You cannot change who you are, so you can’t really “use” this. However, there are some of these that are situational, ie they have more to do with the setting or external circumstances that they do with the people. For example, if you are the most interesting thing at the party you are a hot product. One way to do this is to go places where the numbers are in your favour. I passed through a drinks even the other day where there were 50 women and only 5 men. We got a lot of attention, I can assure you! So what is one thing you can harness directly? Fear.

Why fear makes you want to have sex.

Sex is primarily for procreation. We have it so that we can pass on our genes, so that we can have children that are a piece of us that live on past our own years. This is hard coded into us on some level, and you cannot change it. If you think that your life has been in danger then you are more driven to have sex, so that you pass on your genes before you do die!

Funerals

This is an easy way to apply this. Funerals remind people that they are going to die, they instil the fear of death in everyone who attends them. This means that hooking u post-funeral or a post funeral gathering is genuinely easier than you think.

Dates with fear

A test was ran where a girl on a street asked a number of questions designed to test how attracted people were to her. That same girl did the same thing on a bridge where there was a sense of danger. People on the bridge fancied her more than when on the safe street. This is due to fear. So a good way of harnessing this, is to take a first date or meet up to somewhere high up, where there is a sense or feeling of danger. Subtle, but it works.

Why we are attracted to people from different countries

EdBennett — Wed, 28 Feb 2018 12:07:45 +0000

28 Feb 2018 - 12:07 | Tags: foreign sex, being attractive, the science of attraction

When it comes to who we want to sleep with, there is a real tension between nature and nurture. Much of our sexual preferences come from how we grew up, the people we are surrounded with, and our early experiences. In other cases, we are driven by our hard coded genetics, the things that we are born with as humans that we have no control over. In this article, I am going to discuss the elements of nature that affect our hook up preferences, how our nature changes who we form no strings attached relationships with, with I will conclude with reasons why these play into our desire to have lots of sex with people from other countries.

Nature

In nature we are born with a desire to procreate. “Go forth and multiply” God said according to the bible. We are had coded to want to have sex. Those that do not have this element within their biology are bred out, they do not have kids and thus do not pass on the nature of not wanting sex. It is a key trait for survival and genetic prosperity.

Part of what comes with survival is a desire to get the best genetic mix in order for our kids to have the best survival traits. Sleeping with someone who looks remarkably different from ourselves ensures that these differences are in place. We are diven to find these differences, and that’s why genetically we want to have sex with people who are different to us, a prime example being that of someone who is from a different country. They sound completely different to us.

Nurture

This also plays an important role: how we are brought up, the people that we are surrounded by. The major factor, the thing that makes the biggest difference, is our early sexual expeiences. Our first big “love” can make a lasting and irrevocable impact on the people that we are going to find attractive. The people that surround us also set our “normal” – that which we are familiar with.

Nature and nurture coming together

Nature is pushing you to find a genetic mix, with the largest variation being the best. Nurture sets your normal, and normal is often boring and less interesting. This means that when you meet someone that is from a foreign country, they ping BOTH these aspects. They are interesting and different in that they are different from your personal “normal”, and then alongside this also ping your natural hard coded drive to find genetic variation.

So that’s why you may find yourself attracted to someone who is very different to yourself, and when you do, go for it!