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Life is too short to not have a fuck buddy

EdBennett — Tue, 26 Feb 2019 18:52:39 +0000

26 Feb 2019 - 18:52 | Tags: find a fuck buddy, fuck buddy relationships, how to keep your sex life alive

As a race, we are a strange set of creatures. On one hand, we are incredibly smart. We invented machines and processes to do much of our work for us. We created methods of mass farming that means that we have enough food to feed everyone in the world and that starvation should be a thing of the past. We worked out how to put a man on the moon, how to take a man to the deepest depths of the oceans, and we used all the information to both take resources like oil and gas from the earth and to put satellites into the sky so we can communicate over long distances. We are eradicating diseases and suffering, and we are starting to explore what it is to be human, learning more about our emotions and makeup till one day we may hope to fully understand what it is to be part of this race that we were born into. In the next generation, we are also likely to see the first invention of real artificial intelligence as we make leaps and bounds into the working of AI through enhanced machine learning techniques. The one thing that we seem to never be able to face though, is our own mortality and what that means.

There are things that we want in life that we put off. We all want sex. Even when we are in a sexually quiet period of our lives we still want to be having sex, and if offered it in a no strings attached way the only thing that holds us back is our own fears and insecurities about that being a genuine offer. Finding a fuck buddy is one of the best things that you can do for yourself, and for the person that you are going to have sex with! It is good on both sides. So why do we not do it, what holds us back?

Fear. Fear is what stops us from having the sexually fulfilling lives that we could be having. It doesn’t take much to overcome it, but overcome it we must. One of the best ways is to recognise that our lives are short and fragile. To the universe, our lives are but a blink of the eye, over before we have had time to even register and have an impact on the world. Yet we ignore this. Our lives can be so short, yet we deny ourselves the core happiness that comes from having sex for the strangest of reasons.

Life is too short to not have a fuck buddy. So if you do not have one, I would urge you to get one. Live, whilst you still can.

The advantages of not “liking” your fuck buddy

EdBennett — Thu, 28 Dec 2017 20:25:10 +0000

28 Dec 2017 - 20:25 | Tags: fuck like a rock star, fuck buddy relationships

When we meet someone, and start sleeping with someone, there is often this natural feeling that we need to start to grow to like them in ways other than the simple desire to have orgasmic sex with them. We cannot help it, it is socially conditioned into us! We think that we need to start listening to their music with them, taking them to dinner, hanging out with their friends or bringing them along to meet our friends. Now we might want to do that anyway, it can be fun! However, this is not mandatory! We don’t have to progress our feelings past the point of wanting the sex. There are even advantages to not liking your fuck buddy, and I would like to take you through those now!

It saves so much time!

Do you know how much time it takes to wine and dine people? How many hours of your life you can spend on fore play that isn’t even fore play? I mean in the modern world, you can easily spend more time on the unsexy foreplay that the actual foreplay and sex combined! If you lead a busy life this is a big deal. However, if you don’t really like your fuck buddy outside of the sex, then you will never feel the urge to do this!

It saves so much money!

That’s right, liking your fuck buddy is expensive. You won’t notice it individually, but all the spontaneous take away orders, the drinks in the bar, even the occasional gift, this all costs money. The simplest way to save all of this is to not like them enough to want to do any of it!

It keeps you attractive

Whilst this may feel counter intuitive, the less you care, the more attractive you are. Staying non-needy and less invested, is a key element to maintaining an attractive demeanour. If you genuinely don’t care, you will do it automatically!

The sex will be better

You heard me. When you really like someone, often you are focused on making sure that they are having a good time. This can sometimes lead to shyness and reticence when it comes to saying what you want in the bedroom. When you care less, you can be honest so much more easily! Whatever your fetish is, you have so much less to lose if you don’t like them outside of sex, and that leads to better sex.

So, next time you really physically want to have sex with someone, just go for it. Personalities are over rated.