After almost two (2) years of drought, sex is easier to find

EdBennett — Sun, 20 Feb 2022 23:05:05 +0000

20 Feb 2022 - 23:05 | Tags: having sex when depressed, easy sex pickings

The covid-19 pandemic was devastating to our way of life. Businesses closed, social gatherings were banned, and you could only meet up in limited numbers. It was a tough time for all involved and the reduction in our interactions did not just end with an inability to be able to go to for a drink, it also had a huge impact on the number of sexual partners we were meeting.

People reduced the amount of sex they were having for a number of reasons. In many cases, this was caused by an inability to meet lots of other available people face to face. With the social gathering places shut down and the difficulty in finding other people raised, there were simply fewer people available in our “pool” that we might reach out to and connect with. This was then made worse by other facts. Covid has a depressive effect on the mental health of the population as a whole, to a greater or lesser extent depending on the individual. When we do not feel good our libido is generally reduced. No matter how much we like sex, stress kills desire. Depression and other mental illnesses reduce it. So the population as a whole were less driven to have sex.

There was also the issue of infection. As we became used to being warry of contact with others for fear of catching covid, this spilt over into a hesitation to be intimate with others as well. Sharing ones body with another became a risk that some of the population were unwilling to take. These people removed themselves from the sexual pool entirely, further reducing the number of people that were available as potential fuck buddies.

Times are finally changing. It remains true that covid is still an ever-present factor in our lives. It remains real, something that can still cause huge problems and poses a danger to the health and wellbeing of all the population, but particularly those that are more vulnerable. However, now things are finally settling, we are coming out of a sexual drought. This means that people are going to be keener than ever to meet other partners. They are going to be driven to find a fuck buddy stronger than they were previously.

So, if you were thinking of trying to find someone, now is a perfect time. After two (2) years of sexual drought, there are a lot of thirsty women and men out there.

New year’s eve – one of the easiest times to get laid

EdBennett — Tue, 28 Nov 2017 15:00:56 +0000

28 Nov 2017 - 15:00 | Tags: new year sex, new year busiest time for online dating, easy sex pickings

If you are coming into new years and you haven’t got someone to sleep with over the holiday period, fear not! New year’s is one of the easiest times to sleep with someone. It is also the 2nd most popular time to become single, so a whole bunch of people are about to come on the market, and a bunch of them are likely looking for you!

Times of year

There are certain times of year when it is easier to get laid, and it all comes down to emotion. There are certain points in the year, when people are made to feel more insecure about being single. They feel much worse for it, it makes them feel sad to be single, and this in turn makes them feel like they want to find someone. A great example of this is valentines night. If you go out on the pull on valentines, it is the one night of the year that you can guarantee that anyone who is out without a partner, is single. Simple. New years is not as powerful as valentines, but everyone wants someone to kiss under the mistletoe at midnight, and that means that new years is a great time to hook up with someone if you haven’t already got someone.

Be bold

SO on new years, be bold with your approach. They are looking so you can afford to be a little more direct than usual, you can get away with seeing someone you like and just telling them. It is really wonderful

Hit early

They want someone to kiss at midnight… this means that you want to have tried to kiss them before midnight. Why? Well if they like you and reciprocate, this locks you in for midnight, like a reservation at table number tongues. If they reject you, then you have time to switch over to hitting on someone else whilst the window is still open. Simple right?

Don’t get too insecure yourself

A final word of warning. It would be easy to get insecure yourself. Don’t do it fool. Stay solid internally, try to not care too much and to avoid neediness at all costs, for neediness is the attraction killer.

Have a good new years

More than anything else though, have a good new years! Having a good time is the most important thing – without that, what’s the point?