The face makes all the difference

EdBennett — Wed, 12 Jun 2019 17:36:06 +0000

12 Jun 2019 - 18:36 | Tags: being attractive, the science of attraction, looks matter

Being attractive is affected by many different elements. It is driven by your what you do. People who are bin men are naturally less attractive than people who are doctors or high-profile film actors. This is to do with the amount of money that you earn, but it is also about the status that comes with the job title. A doctor has a higher status than a bin man, thus the job title adds to how attractive that person is to the opposite (or same) sex.

Being attractive is also driven by what you wear. Dressing well, dressing smartly, makes you more attractive. Interestingly, some of this is for the same reasons as above. Your dress can say something about what you earn and your status. Women often say they “like a man in uniform” because that uniform goes to the root of what that person does for a living. What you wear can also just make you look sexier. Take the girls in the example picture I have posted. They are both wear short black dresses that accentuate the curvature of their breasts, particularly the one in the foreground who’s blue bra also brings out the smoothness and roundness of her boobs. What you wear can make a big difference.

Your general friendliness can make a huge difference. We want to be happy. Spending time around someone who it bright, upbeat and generally positive makes you a happier person. You almost feed off their happiness which fuels your own happiness. Thus how upbeat and happy someone is will change how attractive they are to the opposite sex.

Your body plays a huge part, especially when it comes to adult dating. If you are looking for a fuck buddy, you want them to have a smoking hot body. Again the girl in the foreground of the picture has a smoking hot body, if she messaged interested in being a fuck buddy I think most men would say yes.

The face can make all the difference. Look at the picture. Both girls are dressed in similar black dresses. Both have smoking hot bodies that compliment them. We know little about their background or demeanour, but based on the picture, the one in the foreground is super attractive, the one in the background less so. Why? The face. Sometimes the face makes all the difference. Background girl looks unhappy, a bit miserable. Perhaps this is her resting bitch face and underneath she is really nice, but we do not know that. All we know is the one in the front is hot and the one in the background less so. If she were to change her facial expression, that might be completely different.

So, remember to smile and try and cultivate a positive view of the world. You will have more sex if you do.

Judge people by how they look

EdBennett — Sat, 28 Oct 2017 22:02:13 +0000

28 Oct 2017 - 23:02 | Tags: looks matter, how to be sexy, sociosexuality

When it comes to being sexy and getting laid, how you look makes a huge difference. In the modern world, we may talk a lot about how it the person that matters, that what someone is like in terms of character and attitude is the most important thing. I am not saying that for some people that it is not the most important thing, I am not saying that for many people that it is not an important factor because it is. What I am saying is that we cannot (and should not) ignore the all-important factor of how we look.

At a base level we are still human, we are part of the “animal kingdom” – and that means that it is hard coded into us to judge other “animals” by how they look when we first meet them. It is natural, it is the way that we are made. It is automatic. We as a people try and push away from that, talking about how “looks don’t matter”. Well they do, and I would like to talk about why they do right now.

Before we ever speak to someone, we look at them and we make a judgement call about what they are like. This is a split second decision that happens in the moment, off the cuff. We don’t consciously “think” about it, we just do it. From that point onwards what the person does or does not do or say will change this, but that is the starting point. We begin at what we look like.

If you look “evil” when someone see’s you, you are going to have to work very hard to come back from that. I am not sure what makes someone look “evil”, perhaps a hunched back, a twisted face, an evil grin, and a close resemblance to the joker from batman! Whatever causes it, you are stuck with it. On the flip side if you look lovely when someone first meets you, if you look warm and friendly and helpful and amenable, that impression will also stay with you, you are going to have to work really hard to wreck that impression, to destroy that impression that they have of you.

Looks do matter, and it is important to accept it. We cannot change that, we cannot alter the irrefutable fact that you will be judged by how you look and you will also find yourself judging other people by how they look. So let’s get over ourselves, accept it, and move on.

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The face makes all the difference

Judge people by how they look