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The advantages of a fuck buddy you share no common interest with

EdBennett — Mon, 25 Apr 2022 22:32:24 +0000

25 Apr 2022 - 23:32 | Tags: No strings attached sex, adult dating, advice to get laid

There are a lot of different places where you can meet and find a fuck buddy. Clubs, pubs, bars, on public transport… you can find people almost anywhere! However, there are some places that are easier than others to hook up. Meeting someone in a club is obviously easier than meeting someone walking down the street! This is primarily because when walking down the street most people are busy and have somewhere to be, whilst when they are in a club or a bar, they are out for some fun. They are there to meet people, so when you go and talk to them, the default position is that they are pleased rather than feeling like they are being bothered by a stranger(!) which is why most of us don’t find our next fuck buddy whilst walking down the street.

Adult dating is all about focusing on the physical aspects of the relationship and not the other parts of traditional dating. The phrase “no strings attached” means exactly what it says on the tin. Everyone is free to do what they want, with whomever they want, without fear of backlash or any infringement on any agreement made with the person that they are sleeping with. This can mean that people end up sleeping with individuals that they have little or nothing in common with. There is nothing wrong with this and in fact it has certain advantages. When you only really share a shared interest in the bedroom, there is very little chances of that washing over into other parts of your lives. You are already protected against attachment, obligation and emotional ties because you are never going to be able to form them with your fuck buddy in any event.

Sharing an interest in other aspects of life can hinder this. If you find a shared love of an activity, say running or cycling, you will likely find yourself doing these activities together. This can be great, doing something physical together prior to sex is a great way to build yourself up to it, but it can also open the door to those “strings” and attachments that you have already decided you do not want. IF your desires change over time, which they can do, then this is not an issue. Where one person’s desires change and the other person’s do not this can be an issue however, so this is one thing to watch out for.

Regardless, remember that there are no hard and fast rules to adult dating. Try your best to be true to yourself and to have fun… but you remember to do you. Live life by your standards, not someone else’s, not even by ours. Good luck!

Using ice in the bedroom

EdBennett — Thu, 24 Sep 2020 09:42:52 +0000

24 Sep 2020 - 10:42 | Tags: advice to get laid, kinky sex

One of the best things about having a fuck buddy or a friends with benefits relationship is that you can really experiment in the bedroom. Due to the sexual focus of the partnership, a fuck buddy is way more likely to be up for trying new things out in the bedroom, and that can be very exciting. That can start as just trying out new sexual positions, which is always a good idea as let's face it, missionary position is about the worst position if you are trying to make a woman come / if you are a woman and you want to come. It is just not how we are really built to have sex. There are all sorts of other things that you can try out now though as well, from toys to films to the latest lubricant. An easy one that requires no real preparation is ice.

Everyone has ice in their house. All you have to do to use it is to fish it out of the freezer. It can be surprisingly exciting to use it and it is a low-level thing to play with as you can’t really hurt or damage the other person in any way by using it. So it is a no loss thing to try!

Using ice if you are a woman

There is one perfect use for ice if you are a woman. Use the temperature change. Pop some in your mouth, allow the ice to really cool your mouth before giving your man a blow job. The ideal thing to do is to start the blow job without any ice, so that your mouth is warm, then use some ice whilst keeping him busy with your hand before unleashing the new sensations your mouth will bring to him. The switch is explosive!

Using ice if you are a man

The same principles apply to men. If you are going down on your woman, using some ice to drop the temperature of your tongue and see her squirm in pleasure as you stimulate her in ways that she has never felt before. If you are able to, blindfold her first and don’t tell her what you are going to do… the surprise will make your fuck buddy enjoy it even more.

Using ice on the rest of the body

You can, and should, also play with ice on the rest of your fuck buddy’s body. Across the chest, around the nipples, whilst you kiss… the best thing to do is to experiment and just see what you like!

So have a go and popping some ice into your sex cocktail, you will love it!

Summer is the easiest time to get laid

EdBennett — Sat, 21 Jul 2018 13:57:10 +0000

21 Jul 2018 - 14:57 | Tags: getting laid, how to get laid, advice to get laid

The sun is shining, the days are warm, summer is here! Summer brings with it a whole load of advantages with it. The days are longer so you can get a lot more done. The evenings bring time to relax with a cold drink and some good friends outside. Everyone wants to move that little bit slower, so everyone wants to relax and just enjoy themselves that little bit more. When it comes to sex, everything gets easier in the summer… including how difficult it is to get laid.

The heat reduces the amount of clothes that everyone is wearing. This has a twofold effect. Firstly, everyone is that little bit hornier. With everyone looking sexier, everyone generally is more turned on, and thus everyone wants to have sex more. This makes it easier to get laid overall, as everyone is more likely to be looking for the same thing, for you to take action and show them a good time!
The second thing that reduced clothing in the heat does, is that it makes it easier to have sex! It is easier for both parties, when they want to do it, to do it! Skirts were invented for sex, they are perfect both for the heat and to work around… you don’t even need to take them off it you don’t want to, just push them up!

The extra heat also makes it easier to have sex pretty much anywhere you want to. Usually, the extra cold caused by taking clothes off can kill the sex vibe, so you need to be somewhere that this does not happen. This usually means having to go back to theirs or taking them back to yours, or even getting a hotel or something. In this case, none of these are barriers to you having a good time, so you really can get up and involved without having to think about these things!

The summer is when our natural body clocks tell us that it is time to have sex. If you are not having sex in the winter your body does not mind as much. If you are not having sex in the summer the body is more likely to call out to you. It is the difference between not eating again after lunch, or not eating when you are really hungry. Your body drives one much more than the other.

It is so much easier to get laid in the summer, so if you are currently not getting laid and would like to be, now is the perfect time to have a hookup or meet a new fuck buddy. You’ll be surprised what falls into your lap!

Having a kid makes every girl want to fuck you

EdBennett — Mon, 28 Aug 2017 16:08:04 +0000

28 Aug 2017 - 17:08 | Tags: meeting girls on the street, sex tips, advice to get laid

Why is it that having a kid suddenly makes every girl out there want to fuck you? The one time in your life that suddenly having a fuck buddy or an easy no strings attached hook up suddenly becomes difficult to manage, is the time that you have all the options to do it. I have never understood this, but it is true. Let us look at some examples.

Think about your married with a kid(s) friend

When my friend who has a daughter walks down the street with his baby, suddenly every hot girl out there wants to talk to him. He goes on holiday, and as long as his daughter is with him, he is suddenly being hit on by these super pretty foreign chicks that previously he would never have even spoken to, let alone them actively seek to spend time with him! He is sometimes with his wife at the time, and she just shrugs her shoulders, but it seems to happen more when he is without her.

Is it evolution?

Is this evolution? Is this the natural law of procreation. When a man walks down the street holding a baby, everyone knows that he is fertile. There is no question any more, no doubt, you know 100% that he is capable of rearing children because, well, he has a child! Is this the reason?

Is it unavailability?

There is something about being told we can’t have something, and then wanting it even more as a result. There is something on the menu at a restaurant that we weren’t that bothered about, the waiter tells us it is unavailable, and suddenly we are reading the description and lamenting that we can’t have it! Is it that once you have a child, you are seen as being off the market and therefore everyone wants you more?

Is it done because flirting is safe?

Perhaps it is that everyone feels it is safe to flirt with you all of a sudden. You remember how the gay guy was friends with all the hot girls, and they seemed to flirt with him all the time? They do that because they know that he is safe, he is so completely unavailable they can do what they like without fear of having to follow up. Is the same true here, is that why suddenly it seems like every hot girl wants to fuck his brains out, because they can express that without fear of having to actually do it?

Whatever the reason – use it to your advantage

Whatever the actual reason is, my suggestion is that it’s time to use it! Find a friend with a child, go out the two of you and the baby, then offer to hold the baby whilst in the park, down the street, on holiday together... and then when all the girls come flocking, instead of being off the market, you are very much available and ready to take advantage of the situation.