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Foreplay for your male Fuck Buddy

EdBennett — Thu, 21 Jan 2021 00:48:04 +0000

21 Jan 2021 - 00:48 | Tags: foreplay for men, foreplay

As much as we all feel like sex is the goal of all sex sessions, actually, the more foreplay that we have the better the sex is ultimately. It is the build up to the sex that means that we come harder than if we simply just had sex straight away. There are all the obvious things to do in the run up to sex: kissing, touching, stroking. If you have a male fuck buddy and are looking to be a little more creative however, here are some top tips of things you can do to help your man get excited just before you get down and dirty with him.

The striptease

Let your fuck buddy see you undress – but don’t let them do too much until the last item is off. Do it slowly and tease them with each item as it comes off your body. Sometimes leaving essential small parts covered, such as the nipples so all they can see is the side boob, is more sexually tantalising that revealing all. So go slow, take your time, and tease him with each item as it comes off.

Club style dance in the house

When you pull someone in a club, there is a lot of grinding and rubbing whilst the clothes are still on. When you get a fuck buddy back to yours this tends not to happen, but there can be a lovely slow turn on that you can bring to your home if you use the same slow build club technique. Put on some music, start dancing, and grind on each other lie you are in the club. Put a time limit on it as well, so you are not allowed to take it further until at least 3 or 4 songs have passed, that way you extend the build up until you are both super horny from it all.

Be bold – meet him naked!

If you are meeting outside first, either for some food or a drink, or even a walk, meet him naked! Get a long trench coat, pop it on with nothing else on underneath, then go to the meeting. Make sure that you tell your fuck buddy at some point that you are naked underneath the coat, but at a point where you can’t rush back to yours immediately, thus making them wait till you have finished your meal/drink/walk. It will drive them nuts!

So engage in some imaginative foreplay for some sexy fun!

Foreplay and your Fuck Buddy

EdBennett — Sat, 29 Aug 2020 14:29:26 +0000

29 Aug 2020 - 15:29 | Tags: foreplay, foreplay for men

The importance of foreplay cannot be underestimated. No matter who your fuck buddy is, you are going to want to orgasm and they are too. We all know that the orgasm can happen during sex and most of us want it to happen during sex. There is something quite special about orgasming at the same time as the other person, though this is rare and takes time and a lot of practice to get right… luckily practising sex is never a chore! The orgasm happens in the body, but the brain also makes a big difference to the build-up. The fuck buddy that you are with is important, but what they do is almost more important than who they are. The big question here is, do you engage in foreplay? If you do not then you are missing out on a deeper longer orgasm.

People who think that are engaging with foreplay

Do you like foreplay? Yeah sure I hear people say… but it is astonishing how different people’s perception of foreplay is. For some people, foreplay is kissing a bunch and waiting at least a couple of minutes before penetrative sex. In my opinion, whilst that is technically foreplay, it is not taking it anywhere near as far you need to in order to get the benefit of it. Sure, it warms you both up a little, but foreplay can build tension is a way that you cannot once you start having sex.

What real foreplay is

Real foreplay can take hours, and I am no joking! It is spending time building sexual tension with the other person, and that can start when you are not even with each other. Sexting the other person, reminding them of waits for them that evening or even seeing them for a kiss full of promise then leaving are all ways to start pushing the tension up. Then, when you are in person, going out and doing other things that delay the sex whilst at the same time making it clear that it is what you both want, can build the tension even more. Then finally, when you get into the bedroom, spending time bringing your partner towards orgasm without getting there is amazing. Use everything, your hands, your body, your tongue… by the time you have sex you are both already on the verge of popping! This is real foreplay, and the best way to have and keep a fuck buddy.

So you find you are spending little time on foreplay with your fuck buddy, try and devoting more time in the build-up. You won’t regret it.

Using private porn for foreplay

EdBennett — Mon, 25 Jun 2018 18:11:30 +0000

25 Jun 2018 - 19:11 | Tags: how to fuck like a pornstar, porn in casual sex, foreplay

The quality of your sex can, for the most part, be directly measured against the quality of the foreplay. FACT. Most people fail to understand how direct a connection there is between the foreplay and the actual sex itself. Pleasure, orgasm, even the function of the sexual organs themselves are all controlled by the brain. To have the greatest sex of your life requires a certain state of mind, and that is where foreplay comes in. “Fore” means to come in front of, it is the “play” that happens infront of, or before, the sex itself. For most people then when they think foreplay they are thinking about the things that may happen immediately before sex, things like blow jobs, going down no a girl, fingering etc. However I am going to ask you to broaden your horizons here a little, and start to think about foreplay as anything that happens in the 24hours running up to sex.

Anything that happens immediately before sex is the most powerful, as it is fresh in the mind for when you have sex. Many couples use porn for this. They will watch it together, immersing themselves in the sexual story before stepping into the roles that have been laid out for them by the porn. Using private porn is something that is even more powerful. The act of making a porn film staring yourself, is in itself something that is incredibly fun and sexy to make in the first place, and is in itself both forplay and role play. You both get to feel like porn stars, living out each other’s fantasies for the pleasure of your viewers.

Then when you watch the porn you made back, it acts then as foreplay in a different way. You get to watch yourselves at it, you get to be turned on and drawn in not by the fantasy of being someone else, but by being you! This reinforces your own sense of self and sexual prowess. This can be done with a fuck buddy, or a friends with benefits relationship, but it can just as equally be done by a married couple.

One of the best things is that it was made by you, just for you. No one else has ever seen it, and most other people don’t even know that it even exists. It is a secret, which makes it even sexier. It is also a little dangerous, which adds to the spice.

If you have never made a private video, give it a go. I think you will really love it, just as you will love “making love” afterwards.

Why is there always a pause before the sex starts?

EdBennett — Sat, 21 Apr 2018 16:38:45 +0000

21 Apr 2018 - 17:38 | Tags: foreplay, think before you fuck

It is very rare that you meet up with someone and jump straight in the sack. In the films, characters often meet up, and they are taking each other clothes off during the small talk stages. Sadly this does not reflect life. When you meet up, there is a process of spending time together before you jump into the sack, a time of acclimatisation. This is no bad thing. Half of orgasm is about the state of your mind and emotions, and this crucial time gives you the space to “warm” up your partner. It does not matter how much they want the sex, or even how in agreement you are on it! This could be the prefect fuck buddy, someone who is totally down with the no strings relationship approach to life. Their sole purpose for being in your house could be to have sex with you, an outright hook up with the clear understanding that they don’t want the paraphernalia that goes with the relationship side of things. Even in that situation, there is still a period of warm up, of a having to find your feet with each other, even when you know where each other’s “feet” are! Let’s take the example of a someone you have slept with multiple times. They are a fuck buddy, and they have booty called you for a one-night stand. Even in that situation, you still need warm up time.

Why is there this hiatus?

Personally, I think that it functions in several ways:

It gives you time to become comfortable in the space you are in. If you are the one that does not live in the location of sex, you want a little time to be subconsciously sure there isn’t a danger lurking in the background of the building. Remember, you are about to get naked, you are about to become really vulnerable. You do not want to do that before you are comfortable that it is a safe space.
It gives you time to assure yourself that nothing has changed with the other person. You need a few moments to reassure yourself of what you are about to do. This pause allows that to happen.
It gives you time to turn on and be turned on. You want to be horney before the first kiss in the ideal situation. This time allows that change to take place.

So embrace the pause, and use it well. It can make the difference between an okay night, and the most explosive orgasm you have had all year.

How many fingers

EdBennett — Thu, 20 Jul 2017 18:49:58 +0000

20 Jul 2017 - 19:49 | Tags: fingering a girl, manual sex, foreplay

How many fingers? And no I'm not talking about how many fingers worth of the vodka should be poured into the glass, nor am I talking about how many fingers should be chopped off in punishment in a Viking Village due to someone raiding someone else is down. I'm talking about how many fingers one should use when Pleasuring your female partner. Welcome to this week's fuck buddy article, well we give you handy advice for you to use when you pick up your next partner (see what I did there handy get it?).

One Finger

If you are new to a girl, or sleeping with her for the first time, this is a really good place to start. Going in with your whole hand to start with, could result in disastrous Endings. If you're sleeping with her I'm presuming at this point that you want to sleep with her, and you like to sleep with her again. Sex for the first time he's really amazing. You're still getting to know each other, getting to know each other's bodies, and learning what each other do and don't like in the bedroom. This means that the first time you sleep with someone, is unlikely to be mind-blowing. There are of course exceptions to this however they are the exception. So the first time you finger a girl, probably best to start with just one finger. The advantage of a single finger is you can't call Active pain. If she's particularly tight then single finger can often be enough. And if she is particularly tight, as a man you're going to really be grateful for that later down the line. So start with one before moving to a second.

Two Fingers

Two fingers can be a very powerful thing. The only thing better than one finger is probably two fingers. The nice thing about two fingers is for the woman it gives a real feeling of being full. Her vagina wants to be stretched, wants to feel like something is really forcing entry into it without being so tough that it causes out right to pain. Two Fingers generally is perfect for this, and is my personal go to friend's number of fingers. The other advantage with two fingers is that you can do with the walking technique. The walking technique is when, you have your fingers all the way in there, you gently move one finger up then down and then the other finger up then down in opposition. This is much like the action of walking your hand across a table with very very small steps. I can't explain the science of why this is Amazing, but I can tell you that this has left many a girl screaming on her back in pleasure. Two Fingers is a great way to go.

Three fingers

For the right woman, three fingers is absolute heaven. As I said earlier, she wants to feel like she is being filled, stretched, pushed to the absolute limit of pleasure. Three fingers can totally do this as long as it hasn't crossed the line. Let me expand on the line Crossing problem. If three fingers is too much, too big, you can move across into out right pain comma this will instantly kill any and all pleasures she is feeling, and can even result in the ripping or tearing of her tissue. If this happens, your likelihood of being invited back or drop dramatically. You don't want to do this. However comma if you can do the ring fingers without it being too much, it can drive her absolutely nuts. Use with care, I would strongly advise you working your way up to 3 fingers by starting with one, moving to two, then testing the Third Finger gently giving yourself a chance to stay on two fingers only if it doesn't look like it's going to work well.

Four fingers

This is absolutely crazy. If you can put four fingers up a woman's bits then you have crushed me to a place where you can do pretty much anything to her and she's going to love it.

Five Fingers

First question for you, is what kind of abnormal human are you that you have 5 fingers in the first place? But for those of you who are interpreting this has four fingers and a thumb by God if you ever do this please email me here at f-buddy and i'll write the article up and publish it myself. Bonus points for sending me a picture.

Have fun everyone.