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Why we want to fuck foreigners

EdBennett — Fri, 19 Oct 2018 18:01:33 +0000

19 Oct 2018 - 19:01 | Tags: foreign sex, travel sex

When it comes to having sex, most of our desires and wants are driven from a place that has nothing to do with logic. Some people want to find a fuck buddy that is blonde for no other reason that as a child their babysitter was blonde and they liked them… and now they are an adult they don’t ever remember this! It means that their tastes, the things they look for in a fuck buddy come from an unremembered experience, making the choice completely illogical. This lack of control or predictability when it comes to the sexual marketplace is prevalent across nearly all tastes and preferences. Some people like it rough in bed because they are so used to being treated carefully and daintily in their day to day life. Other people like it rough in bed because their early sexual experiences were of having rough sex. Can you see how two opposing experiences can lead to the same end? There is seemingly no logic to it at all! All you can know is what you want from a hookup, and all you can do is try to be self-aware enough to chase down that which will make you happy. This is worth remembering, the goal here is happiness, everything else is just a means to an end.

Very often we want to have sex with someone that is very different to ourselves, we are naturally drawn to hit on and hook up with people from different countries and different places. To put it bluntly, we like to fuck foreigners. There may be random experiential reasons for this, but in addition to this, there is also a very logical reason, making this one of the few exceptions to the no logic rule.

We are built to seek the genetic variation. When we have kids, our genes combine to make their child. If one person has a defective gene, say they have a gene that gives them a heart problem, the baby, as it is growing, will naturally choose to use the other person’s gene, the one that builds a perfectly decent working heart. This means that we are looking for two things: someone who looks super healthy and without problems; someone who looks different enough from us that they have alternative genes to offer. Whilst most sex is had for pleasure, without any chance of children, our bodies do not know this. Our bodies still drive us to fuck our fuck buddies because it wants to procreate. This means trying to push us to find that beauty and variation of genes.

This is why we want to fuck foreigners so much. They look different, exotic, and our instincts want us to claim that genetic variation. So if you have never had a fuck buddy from a foreign land may I recommend that you go find one. You’ll be surprised how much better the sex can be when your body is desperate to have kids with your f-buddy!

Why we are attracted to people from different countries

EdBennett — Wed, 28 Feb 2018 12:07:45 +0000

28 Feb 2018 - 12:07 | Tags: foreign sex, being attractive, the science of attraction

When it comes to who we want to sleep with, there is a real tension between nature and nurture. Much of our sexual preferences come from how we grew up, the people we are surrounded with, and our early experiences. In other cases, we are driven by our hard coded genetics, the things that we are born with as humans that we have no control over. In this article, I am going to discuss the elements of nature that affect our hook up preferences, how our nature changes who we form no strings attached relationships with, with I will conclude with reasons why these play into our desire to have lots of sex with people from other countries.

Nature

In nature we are born with a desire to procreate. “Go forth and multiply” God said according to the bible. We are had coded to want to have sex. Those that do not have this element within their biology are bred out, they do not have kids and thus do not pass on the nature of not wanting sex. It is a key trait for survival and genetic prosperity.

Part of what comes with survival is a desire to get the best genetic mix in order for our kids to have the best survival traits. Sleeping with someone who looks remarkably different from ourselves ensures that these differences are in place. We are diven to find these differences, and that’s why genetically we want to have sex with people who are different to us, a prime example being that of someone who is from a different country. They sound completely different to us.

Nurture

This also plays an important role: how we are brought up, the people that we are surrounded by. The major factor, the thing that makes the biggest difference, is our early sexual expeiences. Our first big “love” can make a lasting and irrevocable impact on the people that we are going to find attractive. The people that surround us also set our “normal” – that which we are familiar with.

Nature and nurture coming together

Nature is pushing you to find a genetic mix, with the largest variation being the best. Nurture sets your normal, and normal is often boring and less interesting. This means that when you meet someone that is from a foreign country, they ping BOTH these aspects. They are interesting and different in that they are different from your personal “normal”, and then alongside this also ping your natural hard coded drive to find genetic variation.

So that’s why you may find yourself attracted to someone who is very different to yourself, and when you do, go for it!

The dangers and delights of moving country with a relationship

EdBennett — Tue, 20 Jun 2017 08:28:30 +0000

20 Jun 2017 - 09:28 | Tags: moving country when in a relationship, foreign sex, sex abroad

When you meet and get together with someone it is rare that you plan out your future to check they are compatible in the early stages. You have no idea if it is even going to last, so why would you plan it out? You are just seeing where it goes in the early days, I mean that is all that you can do! So if things last, if things work out, you then have to deal with the big boy stuff later down the line. More and more we are living in an international world with people from all over the globe moving to this country, so there is a good chance that you will be dating someone who is from a different country. What if they want to go back home, what if they want you to move to their country with them? This can be an awesome thing, it can also be a disastrous move! Here are some things to think about, both the delights and the dangers of moving country for a girlfriend or boyfriend.

Your relationship flourished in this environment

There is no reason to say it won’t flourish in a different environment, but you do know that it did grow in this one. It is like a plant in good soil. You know that this is good soil for this plant, if you move it, perhaps it will do better or perhaps it will do worse. There is only one way to know.

New adventures together!

Growth comes from adventures, and growth keeps relationships alive and happy. A big adventure like this could really help – and be fun to boot!

Do you have a base out there?

You are leaving everything behind. Do not underestimate the role that your base, your social group being close, plays in your life. Loosing that could make you unhappy – and thus the relationship unhappy.

Loss of purpose will kill the relationship

If you lose a sense of personal purpose, you will fail in the relationship. Fact. For example, if you go to a country and she has a job and you do not, you could end up living off her. Eventually the lack of purpose can kill your self confidence and thus the positive aspects that you otherwise would have brought to the relationship. Be really wary of this, it is a relationship killer this one. If you go, get a job, earn money, retain your independence.

There are some things to think about. Ultimately life is an adventure, so do what seems most fun!