Finding a Fuck Buddy the cobra kai way

EdBennett — Tue, 31 Aug 2021 21:03:08 +0000

31 Aug 2021 - 22:03 | Tags: film sex, how to chat up girls, how to get a hot date

There are many films that you saw in your youth that have held the test of time. For the slightly older of you, perhaps that is star wars, for others that may be back to the future, or for those in their twenties perhaps it is mean girls or the like. Those films that we saw in our formative years stay with us, and many of them inform how we think and act. It may seem odd to say that because you grew up thinking Martie McFly was cool that it changed who you were, but actually, it might have done. The story opens up the idea that actually if you push for what you want, you can get it. It is a tale that shows how the George McFly that was scared got nothing, but the George McFly that stood up to the bully got the girl and the life he dreamed of. Those stories of our youth inspire us to what is possible. Those stories opened our minds to who we could be and what we could do. They play a more important role in our lives than most of us realise. That includes how we manage our dating lives. Just as Back to the Future was the story of the geek getting the girl, for many girls mean girls was the first time they saw two girls kissing on screen (though it was brief and fleeting, it was an inspiration for many bisexual or lesbian women). These stories may well be affecting your own personal confidence when it comes to how you deal with the opposite sex, including your confidence with getting a Fuck buddy or approaching someone with the offer of a no strings attached relationship. We generally look up to the “good guys” but in this article, I want to talk about how to get the girl the cobra kai way.

Cobra Kai has brought karate kid back in a massive way. The film tapped into an entire generation of original viewers and has quickly added a huge number of new viewers who did not watch the original films… and it brings one message to bear. Strike first, strike hard, no mercy. This can be applied to getting a fuck buddy the same.

Strike first

– if you see someone you like, move immediately. Do not wait for your brain to engage and the excuses to kick in, approach and say hi, plunging yourself into the engagement before you know what you are doing.

Strike hard

– there is no point holding back. Yes if you don’t put your best self forward if it doesn’t work out you can tell yourself, it is for that reason, but I would urge you to embrace failure in order to be successful.

No mercy

– assume victory. Most people talk to people they want to have sex with assuming that they will fail. Assuming that you are going to be successful helps you get there!

So next time you speak to a potential fuck buddy, do it the cobra kai way!

How to chat up a girl in the street

EdBennett — Tue, 09 May 2017 18:06:21 +0000

9 May 2017 - 19:06 | Tags: how to get a girls number, hitting on girls, how to chat up girls

There are girls everywhere, literally. In the shops, the malls, the streets, the pubs, the clubs. There are women working in the sewers, on the trains, sweeping the streets just as much as in the board rooms or at the head of multi million pound companies. They are everywhere doing everything, and yet somehow we think that the only place that we can meet a girl is in a pub or a club...

This concept that you have to go somewhere to meet a girl is total nonsense. You can find someone almost anywhere, and at any time, and you never know when you are going to meet your perfect 10. The concept of a personal perfect 10 is simply that as everyone is different, the girl that is your perfect 10/10 super model is different to the next mans, which means that we all have the ability to win. So what if you meet your perfect 10 walking down the street, are you going to just let her walk on by because she happens to be in the street rather than in a pub? No, don’t do it. Take action and go and chat her up. If you have never done this before this can be quite a hard thing to do, so here are is a basic guide on how to chat up a girl in the street.

How to stop a girl in the street

Firstly you have to stop her from walking. Don’t jump out at her and scare the crap out of her, that would be a bad way to start. You don’t want to seem like a weirdo or like you are selling anything, so go up to her and stop her calmly and cooly. Ideally you don’t do it face on, you approach her from a 45 degree angle from over her shoulder, this means that she can see you coming and that she has to stop to hear what you are saying. Done.

What to say about why you have stopped her

Be honest. I mean super honest. Tell her that you thought she was hot/cool/pretty whatever it is that made you stop her. Tell her you had to stop her, and you wanted to talk to her. Whilst this is unusual, the honest approach really works. You come across as strong and confident, and it sets the frame as a sexual one from the start.

Then just shoot the breeze

After this it is up to you. Talk naturally, follow the conversation where it leads, listen to what she says and respond appropriately.

Ask for her number / a date

If you have gone through all of that, get her digits. Ask for her number or even better ask her out on a date there and then.

What ever you do, don’t let opportunity pass you by. If it walks up to you, hit on it!

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