Why hitting on someone in the summer can be more intimidating but you are more likely to be successful

EdBennett — Fri, 20 May 2022 22:56:25 +0000

20 May 2022 - 23:56 | Tags: hitting on girls, how to get sex this summer, summer sex

Summer is a peak period for finding someone of the opposite sex for adult dating. According to research by the Journal of the Royal Society of Medicine, summer really is the time that the most people have sex. This is not just hearsay evidence. Studies have been carried out, data has been analysed and results have been scrutinised. After all that work was done, it told us something that I could have told you off the top of my head without any need for all the time, effort and expense involved in the many studies that were carried out. More people are having sex in the summer than any other time of the year. It seems commonly accepted knowledge this, but it is nice to have the science behind it. If you are a man looking for a woman to be your fuck buddy, summer can also be one of the most intimidating times of the year to hit no someone, though you are also more likely to be successful. Allow me to expand on this.

In the summer there is so much more skin on show. The ladies pull out the short tops and even shorter skirts. You see legs, shoulders even some side boob will become a regular offering when it gets really hot. With global warming in full swing, the summers are getting hotter than ever, which means it really is time to show off… and that means that most women tend to look much more attractive. This is a good thing for everyone involved… but it can also make women seem more intimidating. Whether we like it or not, most of us set an internal level as to our “league” and hitting on someone who appears “out” of our league can be intimidating and a little scary. This means it can be harder to hit on someone that, 3 months ago, would have appeared to be “in” our league and therefore attainable.

There is hope, however! Summer is also the time of the year when you are most horny. With the summer comes an increased sex drive and desire for intimate time with the opposite sex. This means that it is easier because you are more hormone-driven. You can listen to your body more which will help you get over any fears or doubts and get in and have a go!

Best of luck with the summer.

How to chat up a girl in the street

EdBennett — Tue, 09 May 2017 18:06:21 +0000

9 May 2017 - 19:06 | Tags: how to get a girls number, hitting on girls, how to chat up girls

There are girls everywhere, literally. In the shops, the malls, the streets, the pubs, the clubs. There are women working in the sewers, on the trains, sweeping the streets just as much as in the board rooms or at the head of multi million pound companies. They are everywhere doing everything, and yet somehow we think that the only place that we can meet a girl is in a pub or a club...

This concept that you have to go somewhere to meet a girl is total nonsense. You can find someone almost anywhere, and at any time, and you never know when you are going to meet your perfect 10. The concept of a personal perfect 10 is simply that as everyone is different, the girl that is your perfect 10/10 super model is different to the next mans, which means that we all have the ability to win. So what if you meet your perfect 10 walking down the street, are you going to just let her walk on by because she happens to be in the street rather than in a pub? No, don’t do it. Take action and go and chat her up. If you have never done this before this can be quite a hard thing to do, so here are is a basic guide on how to chat up a girl in the street.

How to stop a girl in the street

Firstly you have to stop her from walking. Don’t jump out at her and scare the crap out of her, that would be a bad way to start. You don’t want to seem like a weirdo or like you are selling anything, so go up to her and stop her calmly and cooly. Ideally you don’t do it face on, you approach her from a 45 degree angle from over her shoulder, this means that she can see you coming and that she has to stop to hear what you are saying. Done.

What to say about why you have stopped her

Be honest. I mean super honest. Tell her that you thought she was hot/cool/pretty whatever it is that made you stop her. Tell her you had to stop her, and you wanted to talk to her. Whilst this is unusual, the honest approach really works. You come across as strong and confident, and it sets the frame as a sexual one from the start.

Then just shoot the breeze

After this it is up to you. Talk naturally, follow the conversation where it leads, listen to what she says and respond appropriately.

Ask for her number / a date

If you have gone through all of that, get her digits. Ask for her number or even better ask her out on a date there and then.

What ever you do, don’t let opportunity pass you by. If it walks up to you, hit on it!

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Why hitting on someone in the summer can be more intimidating but you are more likely to be successful

How to chat up a girl in the street

How to stop a girl in the street

What to say about why you have stopped her

Then just shoot the breeze