Finding a fuck buddy: cities vs rural areas

EdBennett — Mon, 28 Nov 2022 07:51:32 +0000

28 Nov 2022 - 07:51 | Tags: rural dating, how to get a girls number

When it comes to finding a fuck buddy, people say that it is a numbers game. There is some truth in this. The more people that there are to chose from, the more likely you are to find someone that you are compatible with. With a large pool of people the system as a whole is more forgiving. If you make mistakes or are still learning, you have the opportunity to make mistakes with people, learn from that and then never see them ever again. You also can test things out more boldly because of the large pool of people. Want to try something a bit unusual during the courtship phase, go for it! Feeling like you want to experiment with something a bit more racy in the bedroom? If it turns out the other person is really put off by the suggestion it really doesn’t matter, you can just move on to someone else quite quickly and either try again or try something else. A note on this, if you are trying something new do remember to check the other person is comfortable with it. What is interesting is that by asking if they are up for it, they are more likely to say yes! People are more open to things when they have notice… and the more unusual or boundary pushing the activity is the more important it is to check with them first to help to get them on board.

Whilst you get large numbers in the cities, if you are living or working in a more rural area, you might find that there are a lot less people to meet and hook up with. The numbers are simply lower. So does this mean that no one every finds a fuck buddy or has a no strings attached relationship if they are in a small town? Of course not! That would be madness! So clearly this is not just a “numbers game” as people hook up even when the numbers aren’t there. People often forget one important fact when considering this. Whilst it may be a numbers game, you only need one person to hook up with. Whether that person came from a pool of thousands or a pool of hundreds, you only need one person have a healthy and fun fuck buddy relationship in place.

So whether you are in a city or in a rural area, you can find a fuck buddy. The numbers are only one factor in play.

How to chat up a girl in the street

EdBennett — Tue, 09 May 2017 18:06:21 +0000

9 May 2017 - 19:06 | Tags: how to get a girls number, hitting on girls, how to chat up girls

There are girls everywhere, literally. In the shops, the malls, the streets, the pubs, the clubs. There are women working in the sewers, on the trains, sweeping the streets just as much as in the board rooms or at the head of multi million pound companies. They are everywhere doing everything, and yet somehow we think that the only place that we can meet a girl is in a pub or a club...

This concept that you have to go somewhere to meet a girl is total nonsense. You can find someone almost anywhere, and at any time, and you never know when you are going to meet your perfect 10. The concept of a personal perfect 10 is simply that as everyone is different, the girl that is your perfect 10/10 super model is different to the next mans, which means that we all have the ability to win. So what if you meet your perfect 10 walking down the street, are you going to just let her walk on by because she happens to be in the street rather than in a pub? No, don’t do it. Take action and go and chat her up. If you have never done this before this can be quite a hard thing to do, so here are is a basic guide on how to chat up a girl in the street.

How to stop a girl in the street

Firstly you have to stop her from walking. Don’t jump out at her and scare the crap out of her, that would be a bad way to start. You don’t want to seem like a weirdo or like you are selling anything, so go up to her and stop her calmly and cooly. Ideally you don’t do it face on, you approach her from a 45 degree angle from over her shoulder, this means that she can see you coming and that she has to stop to hear what you are saying. Done.

What to say about why you have stopped her

Be honest. I mean super honest. Tell her that you thought she was hot/cool/pretty whatever it is that made you stop her. Tell her you had to stop her, and you wanted to talk to her. Whilst this is unusual, the honest approach really works. You come across as strong and confident, and it sets the frame as a sexual one from the start.

Then just shoot the breeze

After this it is up to you. Talk naturally, follow the conversation where it leads, listen to what she says and respond appropriately.

Ask for her number / a date

If you have gone through all of that, get her digits. Ask for her number or even better ask her out on a date there and then.

What ever you do, don’t let opportunity pass you by. If it walks up to you, hit on it!

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Finding a fuck buddy: cities vs rural areas

How to chat up a girl in the street

How to stop a girl in the street

What to say about why you have stopped her

Then just shoot the breeze