Using plausible deniability to ask her back to yours

EdBennett — Fri, 28 Apr 2017 16:06:40 +0000

28 Apr 2017 - 17:06 | Tags: getting her back, getting laid, sex on the first date

If a date is going well, both parties desire sex at the end of it. I want to be clear here, that is not to say that sex will definitely happen, only that it is what both people on the date actually want. So if you doubt that the person sitting opposite you wants to sleep with you, put all that doubt aside and know that it is the case. In many ways this is the only attitude that can serve you. If they don’t want to sleep with you then this is going nowhere anyway, if they do want to sleep with you then there is potential and it is possible that it is all good in the hood. If you act under the assumption that they don’t want to sleep with you then you will create the self fulfilling prophecy that leads you to finish the night alone in your bed. However, if you go with the take that they do want to sleep with you, if you are correct (and the odds are actually in your favour on this front) then you are much more likely to be able to manifest this into reality and be comfortably snuggled up with a warm and supple body next to you in the morning. All you need to do is ask them to come back to yours.

It is hard to ask

It has always been hard to ask this, because it will often time end in rejection. Well that is what your brain is telling you anyway. In reality the opposite is true but the only way you will ever believe that is by testing it and finding out for yourself. So it is hard because you don’t want the rejection, and they don’t want to feel like a slut for saying yes. The solution – don’t ask!

Ask a different question

You have to ask them to come back for sex without making it explicit that you are asking for sex, thus protecting your fragile ego and at the same time giving them the opportunity to say yes without feeling like a slut! How to do this? Here are some examples:

Come back and see my fish
Come ad meet my dog
Wanna come back for hot chocolate – it’s coffee for the 21st century!
You’ve never read XXX book? Crazy! Right we are going back to mine right now I am going to lend you my copy

It doesn’t matter how you ask it, the excuse is not important because really they know exactly what is going on, it just allows them to deny that they know what is going on, which is what they want to do!

So always ask them to come back to yours for sex, but do it in a way that allows them to ignore that you are talking about sex (even though they know exactly what is going on!).

How to get your Ex back, and why you should not do it

EdBennett — Mon, 20 Mar 2017 20:08:20 +0000

20 Mar 2017 - 20:08 | Tags: sex with an ex, getting her back

You were with a girl and you really liked her. I mean really liked her. She may not have been the most good looking girl that you have ever slept with, but there was something about her that you just loved. She laughed at your jokes because she genuinely thought that they were funny. She liked to do that unusual hobby that you are really into. She thought that the little geeky things that other people laugh at were cute, and she encouraged you in them.

Then one day she left you. The reasons that she gave don’t matter, whether it was because the sex wasn’t good enough, or because the sex was too good! The reasons that she gave you matter not a jot. She left, and now you want her back. Well I am here to tell you how to do it, and then after you have the means, I am going to tell you why you shouldn’t try and get her back.

How to get her back

She made a decision that the “you” that she is currently dating is not someone that she wants to be dating. Forget the reasons why, that is all you have to know for now. She does not want to see you again in that way. So if you want her back, you need to completely change your game. You need to appear as if you are a new man, different, changed, grown in some way. Here are the quick ways to do that:
Get a new car. This an expense I know, but actually buying a car or something big and visible like this is great costume to help facilitate that change. If you don’t have the money, go the other way and buy a campervan or a cheap clapped out thing and spray paint it pink... just make a change, that is the important thing. If you can get a motorbike that is ideal!
Get a new job, ideally you would change careers and industries entirely. You spend more time doing your job than any other single activity that you might do. If you change jobs, that will really change a lot about you.
Chnage your dress style and sense.
Start a new hobby – preferably something manly like rock climbing etc.

Then get a new girlfriend – play the jealously game and she will come running. This is the only tries and tested guaranteed method that I know of that works across the board.

Why you shouldn’t do it:

If you are changing all these things just to get her back, then the change is not real and you are still the person that you were before. Whilst she will think you are a different person – you are not, so she will go back out with you for a time, but the self ultimately comes through and you are will end up single again. You have been down this road, you know where it ends my friend. Don’t do it.

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Using plausible deniability to ask her back to yours

It is hard to ask

Ask a different question

How to get your Ex back, and why you should not do it

How to get her back