F-Buddy.com - Sleep and sex https://www.f-buddy.com/australia/blog/tags/sleep-and-sex en Wear socks in bed for better sex! https://www.f-buddy.com/ireland/blog/wear-socks-bed-better-sex <div class="view view-blog-date-tags view-id-blog_date_tags view-display-id-entity_view_1 view-dom-id-e3fa0d1b93ad635a741dc758c99d9bc8"> <div class="view-content"> <div> 28 Feb 2017 - 19:38 | Tags: <a href="/australia/blog/tags/sleep-and-sex" typeof="skos:Concept" property="rdfs:label skos:prefLabel" datatype="">Sleep and sex</a>, <a href="/australia/blog/tags/sex-tips" typeof="skos:Concept" property="rdfs:label skos:prefLabel" datatype="">sex tips</a>, <a href="/australia/blog/tags/unusual-sex-facts" typeof="skos:Concept" property="rdfs:label skos:prefLabel" datatype="">unusual sex facts</a> </div> </div> </div> <div class="field-images"><img typeof="foaf:Image" loading="lazy" src="https://www.f-buddy.com/sites/f-buddy.com/files/styles/blog-images/public/images/blog/socks-sex.jpeg?itok=8RgxI9_g" width="250" height="190" alt="" /></div><p>The title sums it, yes that is right, a study has shown that you are 80% more likely to climax in bed if you are wearing socks! Sounds strange to you? Well it did to me until I delved a little more deeply into the reasons why, and it all comes down to comfort. The reason that the socks made the difference were warmth and comfort. Allow me to expand on this.</p> <h2>If you are cold you are less likely to climax</h2> <p>As a man have you ever noticed that when it is really cold that your penis shrivels up in on itself and gets as small as it can, almost as if it is trying to curl up to keep warm? The colder it is, the more that your little man seems to shrink in on itself? Well cold can kill a hard on. Temperature drops can really affect your ability to have a good solid stiffy in order to then have sex. This is a great example of how comfort affects your sex life – just like the socks. If you are cold, you are going to have trouble having great sex, and this is for both of you. There are some quick fixes:</p> <ul> <li>Get a huge duvet! Having sex under a huge warm duvet keeps things nice and warm.</li> <li>Keep the heating on. When you are going to have a night, just button the heating on as you head upstairs, in the time it takes for you to take each others clothes off, the heating will have kicked in and helped balance the lack of clothes!</li> <li>Candles. This is my favourite one. Most people use candles for the atmosphere and great lighting that it brings. It also gives the raw element of fire, a base power that we still react to. In this case, it also helps with heat! Candles are fire, and therefore are emitting heating at quite a rate! If you have a few of them going and you close the door, you will be surprised at how much extra heat it will add to the room! Did you know that if you are in a car that breaks down in the middle of winter, and you end up having to spend over night in the car, just 1 nightlight candle is enough to help prevent death from hyperthermia? They are that good. So get some candles!</li> </ul> <p>So stay warm and comfortable for great sex!</p> Tue, 28 Feb 2017 19:38:29 +0000 EdBennett 6550 at https://www.f-buddy.com https://www.f-buddy.com/ireland/blog/wear-socks-bed-better-sex#comments Sleep and Sex – yes the connection is real! https://www.f-buddy.com/ireland/blog/sleep-and-sex-yes-connection-real <div class="view view-blog-date-tags view-id-blog_date_tags view-display-id-entity_view_1 view-dom-id-5b47c4e2edb8b9f5ec11ff9c0eaf9277"> <div class="view-content"> <div> 20 Feb 2017 - 19:36 | Tags: <a href="/australia/blog/tags/sex-tips" typeof="skos:Concept" property="rdfs:label skos:prefLabel" datatype="">sex tips</a>, <a href="/australia/blog/tags/sex-and-health" typeof="skos:Concept" property="rdfs:label skos:prefLabel" datatype="">sex and health</a>, <a href="/australia/blog/tags/sleep-and-sex" typeof="skos:Concept" property="rdfs:label skos:prefLabel" datatype="">Sleep and sex</a> </div> </div> </div> <div class="field-images"><img typeof="foaf:Image" loading="lazy" src="https://www.f-buddy.com/sites/f-buddy.com/files/styles/blog-images/public/images/blog/sex-and-sleep.jpeg?itok=7O2x2Bsl" width="250" height="250" alt="" /></div><p>There are so many factors that can affect your sex life, and most of these are hard wired into us, so we have little or no “choice” about those factors affecting us. If we are unwell or ill, our libido just disappears. At times of great stress in your life, your desire to have sex usually disappears. That comes from an old preservation thing. When sex was directly linked to procreation and having kids only, in times of stress such as famine, fire, drought, your instincts to have sex drop through the floor as you really don’t want to be having kids when you are trying to deal with your own survival. That being said, war is an exception. Death brings the opposite along. When there are people dying around you, or you are facing death, the desire for sex sky rockets through the roof! Again this is a survival of the race thing, if there are lots of humans dying, you want to be making more to replace them before there are no humans left! So what is the connection between sex and sleep?</p> <p><strong>Rested and ready for some rumpy pumpy</strong></p> <p>Sleep is a huge factor that affects your desire and ability to have a great sex life, and this is a factor that can not and should not be ignored. If you are tired, under rested and in need of sleep, you are just not going to want to have sex. You want to sleep, you want to rest. Even if you do go ahead and have sex, you don’t have the energy to really follow through properly, you don’t have the stamina to go for as long as you would like to. For some people, they are just going through the motions for the benefit of their partner – but this act of sex in a “tick over” capacity results in bad sex for both of you. The best sex comes when you both really want it.</p> <p>So get enough sleep to be able to get to it!</p> <p><strong>Extra opportunity</strong></p> <p>The more time you spend in bed together, the more opportunity that you have to have sex. Sometimes sex is planned, sometimes it is spontaneous, and just lying around in bed together can result in spontaneous sex that comes from a very slow sexual build up! Spend more time in bed and you will get laid more.</p> <p><strong>Increased closeness</strong></p> <p>The closer you feel emotionally the better the sex can become. Spending time cuddling can bring and grow that intimacy. So cuddle – it is good for your sex life!</p> <p>So go grab a girl, get naked and get in bed immediately! Sex doctor’s orders!</p> Mon, 20 Feb 2017 19:36:10 +0000 EdBennett 6549 at https://www.f-buddy.com https://www.f-buddy.com/ireland/blog/sleep-and-sex-yes-connection-real#comments