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Five reasons a fuck buddy is better than a girlfriend

EdBennett — Fri, 28 Aug 2020 16:10:36 +0000

28 Aug 2020 - 17:10 | Tags: girlfriend to fuck buddy, how to get the best sex

Finding a fuck buddy is one of the best things that one can do. They can change your life. Even if you are someone that has a good life, a fuck buddy can up your happiness and life game. Maybe you have a great job, a fantastic set of friends, a family that love you and are really nice to you… have someone you can booty call is the best thing ever. You may be thinking, ‘but I can get a girlfriend for that’ and you would be right to a degree, but you would be wrong to think that a girlfriend was anything near as good. Allow me to explain why as I lay out for you, the five reasons that a fuck buddy is better than a girlfriend.

A fuck buddy always puts out

With a girlfriend, there are a lot of other factors that are tied into the relationship. You have dates, dinners, family and friends. You are trying to fulfil each other’s needs emotionally as well as physically. You and your girlfriend also have to get each other's friends and families to like you, and you have to support the other through both careers and other big life processes… that can sometimes means that sex does not happen! It could be because of an argument or other stress factors, but it does happen! With a fuck buddy, they always put out. The purpose is for sex, you both want it, so you both get to have it. It is perfect.

You don’t have to do stuff you don’t enjoy

If your girlfriend loves going to see soppy films or the theatre and you hate it, you might find yourself sitting through things that you do not enjoy just to keep her happy. You do not have to do any of this with a fuck buddy, and your fuck buddy won’t mind! They will go and do the things they love that you hate with the people that also love it. You will both be happier for it!

It is cheaper!

Yes you heard me, it is cheaper! No longer do you have to wine and dine you hook up for the whole evening, you can get to the bedroom much quicker and without the rituals of restauranting. It is incredibly liberating.

A level of honesty that leads to better sex

The best way to have the best sex of your life is to be honest with the other person. Whilst there are times where the best thing to do is to fake it till you make it, the best long term strategy is to be honest about what you do and don’t like. As the focus is the sex, you can be frank with a fuck buddy sexually in a way that you cannot with a girlfriend. There is no fear that anything you suggest will result in your being judged. This is one of my favourite things about adult dating.

You can have more than one

What is better than one good thing? It is two! Whilst a girlfriend might get upset if you have more than one of them, a fuck buddy rarely will. They understand the ‘no strings attached’ nature of the relationship and they won’t throw your stuff out of the window if you decide to share your love with more than one person.

So there are my top 5 reasons that a fuck buddy is better ha a girlfriend. Whether you decide to go for a girlfriend or not is of course up to you, but I would strongly advise you try both before deciding.

Why 10/10 models make great fuck buddies but bad girlfriends

EdBennett — Tue, 19 Nov 2019 22:25:55 +0000

19 Nov 2019 - 22:25 | Tags: the best sexual role models, girlfriend to fuck buddy

To some degree, all of us appear attractive to the right person. We all have different tastes and preferences, so someone may be your perfect fuck buddy, someone that you want to not just hook up with in the moment, but create a long term friends with benefits relationship with. That same person, for someone else, may be repulsive! They may find them not only unattractive but repellent! Someone’s cast aside is someone else’s gold! So there really is someone for everyone out there. That being said, there are some people that are objectively attractive, and some of them are what we call 10/10 models.

10/10 models are the people that are just so physically beautiful that the world bends around them. They are the people that have doors held open for them and seats on trains given up for them. They are the people that can go to a till and realise they have forgotten their purse at home and have their meal gifted to them for free for no apparent reason. They are the ones that can be pulled over for speeding by the hardest police officer and be let off with a verbal warning. They are that beautiful.

A 10/10 model can make a fantastic fuck buddy. They are so beautiful that they will turn you on, all the time. They can really bring out that inner sexual beast that lives inside of you, and help motivate and drive you to be more and more adventurous in the bedroom till you are pushing all of your sexual boundaries and really going where no man has gone before with them! Hooking up with them is a thrill every time, and you also end up with massive bragging rights with you friends for having bedded the person.

That fuck buddy would also make a terrible girlfriend. The world has bent over backwards to make their lives easy, thus they have not had to develop the same social skills, the same generosity of spirit of ability to make things happen. They rarely have to make an effort, and so they are in the habit of not making an effort, a habit that is extremely hard to break. This translates directly to how they are with you. Whilst they were a fuck buddy you had all the sex with none of the strings, so none of this mattered, but as a girlfriend they will have expectations of you, some of which will be near impossible to meet.

If you hook up with a 10/10 model, congratulations! I would advise caution if considering translating that into anything more.

How I improved my Fuck Buddy in one day

EdBennett — Tue, 10 Jan 2017 19:35:45 +0000

10 Jan 2017 - 19:35 | Tags: girlfriend to fuck buddy, improved sex, better fuck buddy

So I wanted to have a no string attached relationship, I wanted to find someone with whom I could meet up with from time to time, have amazing sex, then not have to think about them afterwards or invest too much emotion in them. This was what I realised I wanted, after a year of being in a quite full on relationship with a girl who was reasonably high maintenance. After months of thinking about this and procrastinating about having to break up with her I finally did it. I was hesitant of course because she was super hot – I mean she had a tight body and a great arse. I really liked her – she was great, and I really wanted to keep sleeping with her. But I though I needed to change things... and change things I did, but not how I expected at all! This is how I massively imporved my fuck buddy in just one day!

First, I got my fuck buddy

I sat and I talked to her, and rather than just break up, I was totally honest about how I felt and what I wanted. I had been warned against this by my friends, telling a girl you are breaking up with her because you want a fuck buddy not a girlfriend is a terrible idea! It is a good thing I ignored them – because it turned out to be an amazing idea! After I talked about what I really wanted, she agreed to change the nature of our relationship immediately to one where we were non monogamous. Sudennly I went from having a girlfriend to having a fuck buddy, and the best part was that my new fuck buddy was as hot as my ex girlfriend, because she was my ex –girlfriend! It gets better...

Then I was honest about what I wanted to do in bed

After a year of sleeping together there were certain things she did in bed that she thought I liked, but actually did nothing for me. So that evening I told her... I talked her through what I really like in bed, and some of the things that I wanted to experiment with... and she was up for it! Suddenly my heart was pumping when I realised that maybe this girl wasn’t as vanilla as I thought! The best part, she loved it! I mean she really loved it. She got all excited again, like she was when we first started having sex. It was great!

Finally – I got a threesome ready to go

The next morning – cuddled in bed, I mentioned I would love to try a threesome. Not only was she up for it, but she had someone in mind!

In just one day, I went from having a girlfriend, to having a fuck buddy, that knew how to fuck me better, and was looking at how to have a threesome with me! Now that was an epic 24 hours!