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Hooking up on Halloween

EdBennett — Sun, 31 Oct 2021 23:11:41 +0000

31 Oct 2021 - 23:11 | Tags: hooking up, find a fuck buddy, halloween sex

Halloween is a long-standing celebration that dates back nearly two thousand years. According to its Celtic roots, it takes place on New Year’s Day. On this day the barriers that separate those living on the Earth and the dead become thin and easier to cross, and so it is on this day that ghosts, spirits, demons and fairies are said to walk the Earth. Dressing up as a demon was a way of disguising yourself as one of the undead, and thus avoid their wrath! If they do not recognise you, they won’t hurt you. It made a lot of sense if you accept the belief system behind it. They also offered food to try and appease the spirits who died recently, something that has a clear connection to the modern day practice of offering sweets and edibles to those who come and knock on your door dressed as a member of the undead. Halloween is a great time for several things. It is the perfect night to light candles, go trick or treating to get candy and sweets, and a great night to hook up. How is Halloween the perfect night to find a fuck buddy? Allow me to explain.

We all need an excuse to peacock. To look great, to go out, to meet people. Halloween provides all of this. It is a great excuse for a party for starters, so everyone wants to go out and have fun. The dressing up part provides for a great excuse to look great. Whether you choose to go as sexy undead nurse or just strip off, splash yourself with some fake blood and go full zombie, Halloween is the night to be able to do it… and let’s be honest, which girl in the world doesn’t look better in a pair of pointy red horns sporting a devil’s outfit?

As well as using the night to look good, it becomes very easy to approach people you fancy. Simply going over to compliment the costume is always a choice if you see someone who you might want to hook up with. Other options include going over in character with whatever you are doing, reacting to them as if they are in character, or for the really elaborate, you can combo with a wing man/woman and play out something between you. Regardless, 15seconds later you will be speaking to someone who might become your fuck buddy, so it is always a win!

So take advantage of this Halloween and get out there and meet some people.

Better to find a new fuck buddy than chase the old one

EdBennett — Sun, 25 Jul 2021 22:45:53 +0000

25 Jul 2021 - 23:45 | Tags: getting over an exgirlfriend, find a fuck buddy

I am about to talk about something that we have all been through. If you haven’t been through it yet, you will. This is a sensitive topic so I want to make clear from the outset that everyone has different needs, and there will be a very small number of people that do not need to take this advice… but those people are the 1%. For the rest of the 99%, this is for you.

At some point, we have all been “dumped” but a fuck buddy (or will get dumped in the future). By this, I mean that your fuck buddy decides that they would rather have sex with someone else and they end the tryst with you. Many times, this is fine. The agreement was always a relaxed no strings attached set-up. You always knew that one of you would move on, you likely thought you would do it before they did, but it doesn’t really matter who got there first. So you move on and you are all good. Once in your life though, you will not be happy with the outcome.

Everyone has one fuck buddy where you were so into them, that when it ends, it feels like a more traditional relationship. You feel like you have been dumped. When this happens it can get really bad. You want to chase them, you want to get them back, but you were also in a relationship where the agreement was no strings attached, so you are not allowed to. You were dating in the adult dating world and for one time, you want it to be different. Maybe you don’t want to “date” them, but you were certainly not ready to stop having sex with them. Your gut is to chase. I am here to tell you no. Do not do it. Here is why.

When they decided to end it, they had their reasons. The bottom line is that they just didn’t like you enough, and the chance of changing their mind is astronomical. You would have to demonstrate a huge personality change to make them re-evaluate. You would have to change jobs, change your look, buy a motorbike… it is a huge amount of effort, and even then, the chances are it will not work. Do you know what is much more likely to work out? Find someone else! Once you are in the arms of another, you are no longer going to care about the previous fuck buddy. You will have moved on… but this cannot happen until you have slept with someone else.

So if you are feeling down about losing a fuck buddy, do something about it. Find someone else to sleep with. In a very short space of time, you will have moved on, and under no circumstances should you attempt to get your previous one back. Do your future self a favour… let it go.

The Fuck Buddy Apocalypse is here!

EdBennett — Fri, 30 Apr 2021 00:41:10 +0000

30 Apr 2021 - 01:41 | Tags: find a fuck buddy, best times for sex, find sex

The last year has seen a dearth of sexual opportunity across Ireland. The coronavirus pandemic has seen the closing of bars and pubs, the restriction of movement and meetings, and the lack of new people coming into the area or country. All of this has meant that the last year has been a harder time than ever to hook and meet a fuck buddy. It has still been possible, it is always possible to meet someone for sex, it is too much a part of out basic human needs to ever be something that is removed from our reach, but it has been harder. Now those times have ended or at least are ending, and we are entering a new era where the lack of opportunity is going to lead to a wealth and abundance of sex for the coming summer. I am calling it the fuck buddy apocalypse!

The fuck buddy apocalypse is going to be an explosion of sexual opportunities, and it is about to happen if it is not already happening by the time that you read this. It is not going to be obvious, it is not going to hit the headline news, and for those people that are not single and not looking for it, they are never going to even know that it is happening. However, for those people that are on the look out for it, this is going to be a summer like no other. Whether you are a guy or a girl, everyone who is single is going to be extra pumped to find someone this summer. Dating apps are going to be oversubscribed, the pubs are going to be full of people that want to meet other people, and the air is going to be rife with hormones. As the weather gets warmer and the sun of spring comes in, out natural body rhythms are going to drive everyone to want to have more sex than at any other time of the year, and with the previous drought period, it will be crazy. The fuck buddy apocalypse is coming, and you want to be ready to take advantage.

So how do you take advantage? Firstly, don’t let the recent COVID-19 issues have left you unable to have good sex. That means getting some movement and exercise in the coming months. Have a body that is ready to have sex. The second thing is to take action. Go out and meet people, sign up to adult dating sites like this one, and have your meet ups planned in advance. The third bit of advice? Have fun!

Enjoy the fuck buddy apocalypse whilst it is here. It will pass.

When choosing a fuck buddy – aim high!

EdBennett — Fri, 30 Apr 2021 00:11:48 +0000

30 Apr 2021 - 01:11 | Tags: how to get the best sex, find a fuck buddy

Outside of the adult dating forum in the more vanilla walk of life, there are so many pressures that mean people “settle”. They want kids, they want security, they are too scared to push harder for what they really want. They are happy with some aspects of the relationship so they settle on the rest. There are parts of the relationship that they would like to change or improve, but they are too scared of risking the whole thing to address it, so that element never gets addressed or fixed. I am here to give you one clear message in this article. When you are choosing a fuck buddy, aim high, because you can!

With a fuck buddy, you both know why you are there. You are there for the sex and you are not interested in the strings that usually get attached to long term relationships. There is also no expectation of it lasting any more than one night. That is not to say that it will not last more than one night. Many do, and the longer you are together the better the sex gets so it is worth doing if you are with someone you like having sex with, but there is no expectation of it. This brings the pressure right down, it means that there is less holding you back from being honest because you are not invested in the outcome. You can be in the moment and true to how you are feeling. So what does this mean? It means you can aim high!

If you are not having the best sex of your life right now, with a fuck buddy you can make that happen. You are both there for the sex, so it is easy and legitimate to have conversations with the other person about the sex. You can talk openly about what you like and don’t like. You can express your preferences and kinks. You can even talk about your fantasies and secret sexual desires… and you can do all of this because ultimately if they are not into it, it does not matter. The whole coupling was always temporary anyway so you lose nothing by taking the risk of trying to make things amazing. I think that is the best part about it, you really can take risks with your fuck buddy, the kind of risks that you might hesitate to take with a long term relationship.

So with your fuck buddy, aim high! You might well get there.

Life is too short to not have a fuck buddy

EdBennett — Tue, 26 Feb 2019 18:52:39 +0000

26 Feb 2019 - 18:52 | Tags: find a fuck buddy, fuck buddy relationships, how to keep your sex life alive

As a race, we are a strange set of creatures. On one hand, we are incredibly smart. We invented machines and processes to do much of our work for us. We created methods of mass farming that means that we have enough food to feed everyone in the world and that starvation should be a thing of the past. We worked out how to put a man on the moon, how to take a man to the deepest depths of the oceans, and we used all the information to both take resources like oil and gas from the earth and to put satellites into the sky so we can communicate over long distances. We are eradicating diseases and suffering, and we are starting to explore what it is to be human, learning more about our emotions and makeup till one day we may hope to fully understand what it is to be part of this race that we were born into. In the next generation, we are also likely to see the first invention of real artificial intelligence as we make leaps and bounds into the working of AI through enhanced machine learning techniques. The one thing that we seem to never be able to face though, is our own mortality and what that means.

There are things that we want in life that we put off. We all want sex. Even when we are in a sexually quiet period of our lives we still want to be having sex, and if offered it in a no strings attached way the only thing that holds us back is our own fears and insecurities about that being a genuine offer. Finding a fuck buddy is one of the best things that you can do for yourself, and for the person that you are going to have sex with! It is good on both sides. So why do we not do it, what holds us back?

Fear. Fear is what stops us from having the sexually fulfilling lives that we could be having. It doesn’t take much to overcome it, but overcome it we must. One of the best ways is to recognise that our lives are short and fragile. To the universe, our lives are but a blink of the eye, over before we have had time to even register and have an impact on the world. Yet we ignore this. Our lives can be so short, yet we deny ourselves the core happiness that comes from having sex for the strangest of reasons.

Life is too short to not have a fuck buddy. So if you do not have one, I would urge you to get one. Live, whilst you still can.

Selection is the key to a good fuck buddy

EdBennett — Sun, 12 Mar 2017 13:21:32 +0000

12 Mar 2017 - 13:21 | Tags: find a fuck buddy, fuck buddy or partner

If you are looking for any kind of sexual relationship, I have come to realise that the real key to having the best sex of your life, is selection. The main factor that will alter or change your sex life for the better or worse, when all factors are taken into account, is whom are you sleeping with. Did you select the right person in the first place? This is also the key factor I believe in whether or not you ended up with a good relationship, a good life partner, a good husband or wife. It is the fundamental to if you had a good business partner or housemate too! Almost any relationship can be looked at from the point of selection, from the starting point. This applies most definitely to families too, however since you did not get to choose whom your family are you are stuck with whatever you are handed with! When it comes to your choice of sexual partner however, it is exactly that, it is a choice. You get to decide whom you are going to sleep with, and that means you get to decide the kind of person you sleep with.

Some things to think about when choosing your fuck buddy:

Are they sexually compatible? On a fundamental level, if you are a bisexual girl who would like to have a 2 girl 1 guy threesome, you should definitely be dating other bisexual women. If you choose to date a non bisexual girl, and then go on to try and have a threesome with her that is not going to work out well for you. Let me expand on this point.

I want to fuck you now change

You remember the old saying “I love you now change” – the reference to loving someone but actually wanting them to be a different person than whom they are, so you don’t really love them for them. The same is true for sex. You can’t meet someone and say to them you “want to fuck them now change”. It is just not going to happen. If you are into kinky rope fun, then you need to find someone who is into kinky rope fun. If just love sex when you are on top, find someone who wants to be on the bottom. If you want to have sex outdoors, it is better to find someone else who wants to have sex outdoors then try and convince, cajole, persuade someone to have sex with you in the park if that is not what they are into.

Find a fuck buddy that is right for you, and you will be happy. Go with someone who is completely in appropriate and at best it ends quickly, at worst you are stuck in an unsatisfying unhappy partnership.

Never try to sleep with your Ex – here is why

EdBennett — Fri, 10 Mar 2017 18:15:48 +0000

10 Mar 2017 - 18:15 | Tags: forget the ex, find a fuck buddy

We all have people that we used to sleep with, a girl usually that we had sex with that left a mark that feels like it will never leave us. When that person leaves us, we want them back. We always want them back – if they have left us then it is always the case that we want to have sex with them again, that given a choice we will snatch them back into our arms in an instant. The length of time that this lasts for can of course vary, for the lucky few it lasts but a moment and then the moment has passed and they move on, for most of us the length or “morning period” is usually directly proportional to the length of time that you were with them multiplied by the intensity of the relationship aka “how much you were into them”. So for those less fortunate few this feeling can persist for a long time. I would like to help with this by explaining why this is happening to you, why you shouldn’t follow this instinct, and what to do about it.

Why you feel like this

You have been rejected.
You want what more you cannot have (we crave scarce resources).
You have been rejected.
Insecurity also known as “what’s wrong with me” makes you want them to want you again, because then there is nothing wrong with you.
You have been rejected

The crux of it is in the rejection. When you have been rejected by someone, you become instantly more attracted to them. If you are chatting up a girl and you are too interested, it makes you less interesting to them. We all want and value that which we have to work for, and rejecting someone is the 100% guaranteed way to make ourselves more attractive to that person. Sadly when you reject someone you don’t want them, so this is kind of a screwed up feature in the human makeup.

Why your should not try and get back with your Ex.

You have been down this road, you know where it leads, and where it ends. Unless there is a major life changing and personality shifting event, you are going to finish in the same place, alone and single. Again. If you really want your ex back, you are going to have to be the one to make that life changing move. Change careers, buy a new car, move house and alter your appearance in some way. But this is all fake if you are doing it to get your ex back, and so the road still ends in the same place. Do not do it, do not walk the same road to the same ending. It is not worth it.

What you can do to help avoid this

Have sex with someone else. Preferably lots of someones. There is an old saying, the only way to get over a man is to get under a man. Happy international women’s day everyone – the same is true if you are a man! Go get a fuck buddy, and sleep with other people. The reminder that there are other options out there, that you are not in a world of scarcity will help you to make the mental shift you need to be once again happy in your own skin single.

So get laid, and get over it. Never, ever go back.

Ask for sex – the best way to guaranteed getting laid

EdBennett — Wed, 28 Dec 2016 19:02:21 +0000

28 Dec 2016 - 19:02 | Tags: how to get laid, find a fuck buddy

In the game of courtship, there are all sorts of “rules” about what you should and shouldn’t do when you in the process of it. Things that you are allowed to say, things you are never to discuss. Here are a few prime examples of the kind of thing that we are told that we should or shouldn’t do during the “chatting up” process. You will find that you recognise a lot of these:

Don’t discuss religion
Don’t talk about former partners and ex girlfriends
Don’t tell her that she is a little on the overweight side or that her nose is a little large

In addition to this though there are a bunch of “rules” specifically related to the discusussion of sex in the courtship ritual:

Don’t talk about how good you are in the sack
Don’t talk about the kind of things you like to do in bed
Don’t share your fetishes or your sexual preferences
Don’t talk about some of the most memorable sexual experiences of your life because that involves talking about having had sex with someone else
Do not under any circumstance suggest that you may have had sex with someone else!
Do not express that you are a sexual being, and that you might be interested in having sex with them

Express that you are a sexual being

This is the really important thing. We are taught that we need to be careful, reserved, to be a gentleman. Part of this is the lesson that we do not express to the other person that actually we might want to throw them against a wall and fuck them till people call the local council to report the sound of screams well over the acceptable decibel level for the local neighbour hood.
Holding back in this way means that actually you are holding back a key thing that is going to get you laid. The fact that you are sexually attracted to the girl is a huge turn on for her, but it can only do this if you are brave enough to express this to her. Unless you are free to tell her that you want to fuck her, she will never know, and there is nothing more powerful than this!

If you want sleep with her, tell her

If you want to have sex with her, tell her. As long as you do it in a strong, non needy way, this is one of the biggest turn ons you can offer. It shows that you are a confident, strong man un afraid to see what he wants and go after it – which are the exact traits that are going to make the girl even more likely to say yes when you ask. So ask – and may I bid you a great night in the sexual sack!