Why 10/10 models make great fuck buddies but bad girlfriends

EdBennett — Tue, 19 Nov 2019 22:25:55 +0000

19 Nov 2019 - 22:25 | Tags: the best sexual role models, girlfriend to fuck buddy

To some degree, all of us appear attractive to the right person. We all have different tastes and preferences, so someone may be your perfect fuck buddy, someone that you want to not just hook up with in the moment, but create a long term friends with benefits relationship with. That same person, for someone else, may be repulsive! They may find them not only unattractive but repellent! Someone’s cast aside is someone else’s gold! So there really is someone for everyone out there. That being said, there are some people that are objectively attractive, and some of them are what we call 10/10 models.

10/10 models are the people that are just so physically beautiful that the world bends around them. They are the people that have doors held open for them and seats on trains given up for them. They are the people that can go to a till and realise they have forgotten their purse at home and have their meal gifted to them for free for no apparent reason. They are the ones that can be pulled over for speeding by the hardest police officer and be let off with a verbal warning. They are that beautiful.

A 10/10 model can make a fantastic fuck buddy. They are so beautiful that they will turn you on, all the time. They can really bring out that inner sexual beast that lives inside of you, and help motivate and drive you to be more and more adventurous in the bedroom till you are pushing all of your sexual boundaries and really going where no man has gone before with them! Hooking up with them is a thrill every time, and you also end up with massive bragging rights with you friends for having bedded the person.

That fuck buddy would also make a terrible girlfriend. The world has bent over backwards to make their lives easy, thus they have not had to develop the same social skills, the same generosity of spirit of ability to make things happen. They rarely have to make an effort, and so they are in the habit of not making an effort, a habit that is extremely hard to break. This translates directly to how they are with you. Whilst they were a fuck buddy you had all the sex with none of the strings, so none of this mattered, but as a girlfriend they will have expectations of you, some of which will be near impossible to meet.

If you hook up with a 10/10 model, congratulations! I would advise caution if considering translating that into anything more.

Terrible sexual role models lead to stalkers and weirdoes

EdBennett — Wed, 21 Dec 2016 19:54:39 +0000

21 Dec 2016 - 19:54 | Tags: the best sexual role models, being attractive

As we grow up we develop our personalities and our behaviors based on a whole bunch of stuff. Things like what our families are like and how they act, what our friendship circle find acceptable we also find acceptable, what the people that we look up to choose to do also influences what we choose to think is “cool” or a “good” thing to be doing. There is a group influence that causes us to think in a certain way, to feel in a certain way about things, and to think that one way of acting is okay when another is either embarrassing or even plain rude.

Role Models play one of the biggest roles in this

The people that we look up to, that we revere as our chosen role models play a bigger part in this than anything else. A single person that we look up to strongly enough, can over ride behaviours that the rest of our upbringing and culture have imprinted on us over a lifetime. These role models hold huge sway over their followers, and their influence cannot be underestimated. It is for this reason that I am so angered and annoyed at some of the most terrible role models that I have ever seen being presented to young men, and specifically the messages that they send about sex and relationships. Let’s go straight to an example.

Twilight – Edward Cullen has a lot to answer for

Edward Cullen is a 100 year plus old vampire. He lives forever, can stalk the night, is super strong and has the additional wisdom that his 100 year old life lends him with which to navigate the world of both day to day life and the pitfalls and traps of relationships. This guys should be the daddy, the alpha male of boyfriends. Is he? Is he fuck, the guy is a complete pussy. He meets an extremely young girl, who would fall into his arms at the click of his fingers, and what does he do to win her over? He turns into obsessed controlling stalker guy. She wakes up and he is standing there at the foot of her bed looking down on her as she sleeps – without her permission. The worst part? She then likes this and falls for him... thus telling all the viewers that the way to get a hot girl is to be the weird stalker guy. If he had grabbed her vampire style and just taken her willing and nubile body back to his that would have been a far better message, but know he goes all controlling and stalker.

Spot it, recognise it, so you can ignore it

We are so easily influenced as humans, we can’t help it, it’s how we are made. So when you see things like this try and spot it and consciously recognise what you are looking at. That way you can reject the bad sexual message that they are sending, and get back to being the awesome guy that you are.

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Why 10/10 models make great fuck buddies but bad girlfriends

Terrible sexual role models lead to stalkers and weirdoes