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The most sexy body shape

EdBennett — Wed, 11 Dec 2019 22:56:16 +0000

11 Dec 2019 - 22:56 | Tags: being sexy, how to be sexy

One of the wonderful things about members of the opposite sex is that they come in all shapes and sizes… and all of them are sexy to different people! There are tall ones, short ones, fat ones, thin ones, stiff ones, bendy ones… and they come in all colours to boot! Everyone has their type and preferences which is perfect. It means that there is a fuck buddy out there for everyone, no matter what you or they are like, so everyone has the ability to have a no strings attached relationship. There are certain types of shapes that, statistically, are considered “more” attractive because they appeal to more people. In this article we ae going to talk about what the most sexy body looks like based on the metric of the body type that appeals to the largest number of people… but I want to start with a caveat. Life is about variation and difference. We all look different, and it is those differences that make us unique and interesting. We all have people out there that are going to like us for what we are, so there is never a need to conform to an externally set body type, even if this way of measurement considers it sexier than your body type.

For men that are attracted to women, the driver behind things according to Psychology Today is procreation. Men are hard wired to be attracted to women based on their fertility. This is often reflected in youth (age) and the appearance and health of their skin, hair and other visible body parts. The waist to hip ratio is a really big thing. During puberty fat is built up in the hips, bum and breasts. This creates a lowered waist to hip ratio, which gives men a good indicator of their fertility, hence it being important.

For women interested in men, it is about having a “V” shape. Greater muscles on the upper body with a narrow pelvis is associated with high testosterone levels. Again, this is all about fertility. Women also tend to like older men because this is connected to the building up and gathering of resources which can then be used to look after them and any future offspring that may be created by the coupling. The final main thing is that women like taller men. I struggled to find any scientific studies that really back up why taller men are more attractive to a potential fuck buddy, but I also am certain in its current truth, so I have included it here.

So those are the body types that make the sexiest bodies for both men and women. You can choose to use this information by changing and moving towards one of these body types… but I think that a good choice is also to just find someone that likes you as you are, so don’t get too hung up on this.

The difference between sexy and creepy comes down to attraction

EdBennett — Mon, 29 Apr 2019 18:30:08 +0000

29 Apr 2019 - 19:30 | Tags: the science of attraction, being attractive, how to be sexy

Welcome to the fuck buddy website, the place where we help you find the no strings attached relationship that you are looking for. Everyone wants to both be and find someone sexy. They want to be the sexy, attractive and wanted human being in the room. They want other people to admire and desire them. They want people to want them. They also want to find someone that they feel is sexy, someone that they desire and are attracted to… and they want that person to make them feel sexy by coming on to them. Being hit on is the ultimate validation that you are sexy, but hitting on someone can be hard. It takes bravery and it takes guts, because there is always the possibility of being rejected, something that no one enjoys. Ultimately everyone wants to be sexy.

No one wants to be creepy

No one wants to be creepy. The creepy guy is the guy that is a bit too pervy, a bit too touchy-feely. He is the guy that is hitting on you, and the whole thing is unpleasant, you want him to be away from you as soon as possible. When the creepy guy puts a hand on your arm, shoulder or leg, it feels icky and disgusting. The whole thing feels very unpleasant, and you want it over as soon as possible. No one wants to have the creepy person hit on them, and no one wants to be that creepy guy.

The line between creepy and sexy is often attraction

There are obvious times where someone is sexy. There are clear and easy to identify times where someone is being creepy… hiding in a bush outside someone’s house and watching them with a pair of binoculars is an obvious example of being creepy. However, there is a grey area in the middle where something sexy could be creepy and something creepy could be sexy, and the defining factor is attraction. Let us take an example.

Two people are in a bar, they are chatting and the guy puts his hand on the girls leg. If there is an attraction between them then this is sexy. It is a bold move that takes courage, thus making him seem more sexy for his bravery which is an attractive trait. It also makes her feel sexy as she has a man making clear and obvious moves to say that he finds her attractive. They both win in this situation.

Now the same situation, but this time there is no attraction. The guy puts his hand on the girls leg. Now it is creepy. He has gone where he was not invited. She does not want to be touched so intimately and he is doing it anyway. She probably wants out but does not instantly know how to deal with it. Meanwhile the guy is loving the contact… which means, even though he does not necessarily know it he is taking pleasure at her discomfort. This is creepy.

The only difference here is the attraction levels. So what can you do about it? Well you can try and be more sensitive to the signs. Being bold is good, but if you make a move like putting a hand on someone’s leg and they do not like it, retract it and then give them a little space. You can even be honest and call it if you wanted to and apologise. There is no attraction so you are not going to end up as fuck buddies anyway so you lose nothing by saying sorry.

Best of luck finding your fuck buddy!

What makes a woman sexy

EdBennett — Wed, 12 Sep 2018 10:15:59 +0000

12 Sep 2018 - 11:15 | Tags: how to be sexy, sexy clothes, The ideal woman

When it comes to the sexual marketplace, our individual value is completely defined based on how sexy you are. All other elements are said to play a part, but the truth is they are meaningless in of themselves. They are all seen through the lens of how sexy you are. If you are sexy, then they will be seen as a positive. If you are not sexy then they will be seen as negative, it really is as simple as that.

So in our quest to secure the most desirable mate, the most successful and prosperous partner with whom to couple with and have children, our natural instincts try and push us to become more sexy. The real question is, what makes someone sexy? This is different depending on if you are a man or a woman, and in this article I will focus solely on what makes a woman sexy.

How your fuck buddy looks

For a woman, the biggest thing they are judged on is looks. I am making no judgement here on whether this is a good or bad thing, and in this article I will stay well away from any politics surrounding this matter. All I will say is that currently, in the world that we live in and the way that we raise our children, the way a woman looks is of paramount importance to their value in the sexual market place. If a woman is fat or overweight this can plummet their stock hugely, whilst a woman who is in reasonable shape for her natural size and build will have far more options when it comes to choosing a fuck buddy. If a woman wants to increase sexiness, one of the best things she can do is lose weight. This is simply true.

How your fuck buddy dresses

How a woman dresses is also important. Interestingly this is so closely linked to looks, that it could have been included above. I keep it separate because how you alter this is different. To change your physical looks, you have to work on your body. To change your dress code, you go shopping and spend money. You can throw money at this at make yourself sexier, with physical looks you have to do exercise and control your diet, a much harder task indeed.

How your fuck buddy handles herself: conduct

How you carry yourself of course affects how sexy you are, but note that this comes third. It is not the primary thing. Being good looking is more important than acting sexy, so bear this in mind when you are deciding what to work on. Start with how you look over how you are.

Good luck finding your fuck buddy!

Why revealing less is more

EdBennett — Fri, 15 Jun 2018 08:49:28 +0000

15 Jun 2018 - 09:49 | Tags: less is more, how to be sexy, how to take a sexy pic

The saying that “less is more” is one that used in many areas. People use it in business, in pleasure. Artists use it when creating elaborate paintings, negotiators apply this when giving information to their counterparts as to what they want. When it comes to being sexy, this phrase has never been more true.

You might be setting yourself up for a number of reasons, the most likely is that of a photo. Perhaps you want to take a pic to send to your fuck buddy, or to help convert a friend into a friend with benefits. Perhaps you are looking for a hook up on a casual dating website, and if so a really good picture is a critical factor in generating leads for yourself for this. One of the best booty calls I ever got was just a picture and a time and postcode with it. Nothing more needed to be said, I was there bang on time! There is a lot to be said. So how do you make a sexy photo?

The instinct is to just take all your clothes off and then snap a pic. Whilst this will likely work, it is actually not the best way to do it. When you send a pic like this, you are trying to tease the other person, to make them look forward to find out more in person. If you give them a view of everything fully, their brain does not need to engage their imagination to try and fill in the blanks… and that is the key thing. You want to hold something back in order to engage that imagination! The way to do this, is to offer some but not all that is on offer.

There are loads of examples you can copy. Google any underwear model picture, and you will see picture of girls wearing ripped t-shirts and lacing semi see through clothing that lets you see some but not all that is on offer. This teasing is exactly what makes you want them more, it is this semi view that makes it really sexy.

Sexy underwear has been created with this exact theory in mind! If the “less is more” principle did not apply, the sexiest thing to do would be to get naked immediately. Instead we cover our bodies partially with sexy things, that cover only a small part of our bodies, but enough to effectively hold something back.

When taking photos, less is more. Remember it next time you take a sexy selfie!

Judge people by how they look

EdBennett — Sat, 28 Oct 2017 22:02:13 +0000

28 Oct 2017 - 23:02 | Tags: looks matter, how to be sexy, sociosexuality

When it comes to being sexy and getting laid, how you look makes a huge difference. In the modern world, we may talk a lot about how it the person that matters, that what someone is like in terms of character and attitude is the most important thing. I am not saying that for some people that it is not the most important thing, I am not saying that for many people that it is not an important factor because it is. What I am saying is that we cannot (and should not) ignore the all-important factor of how we look.

At a base level we are still human, we are part of the “animal kingdom” – and that means that it is hard coded into us to judge other “animals” by how they look when we first meet them. It is natural, it is the way that we are made. It is automatic. We as a people try and push away from that, talking about how “looks don’t matter”. Well they do, and I would like to talk about why they do right now.

Before we ever speak to someone, we look at them and we make a judgement call about what they are like. This is a split second decision that happens in the moment, off the cuff. We don’t consciously “think” about it, we just do it. From that point onwards what the person does or does not do or say will change this, but that is the starting point. We begin at what we look like.

If you look “evil” when someone see’s you, you are going to have to work very hard to come back from that. I am not sure what makes someone look “evil”, perhaps a hunched back, a twisted face, an evil grin, and a close resemblance to the joker from batman! Whatever causes it, you are stuck with it. On the flip side if you look lovely when someone first meets you, if you look warm and friendly and helpful and amenable, that impression will also stay with you, you are going to have to work really hard to wreck that impression, to destroy that impression that they have of you.

Looks do matter, and it is important to accept it. We cannot change that, we cannot alter the irrefutable fact that you will be judged by how you look and you will also find yourself judging other people by how they look. So let’s get over ourselves, accept it, and move on.

Look after your body for great sex

EdBennett — Mon, 28 Nov 2016 20:35:23 +0000

28 Nov 2016 - 20:35 | Tags: being sexy, how to be sexy, coming

When it comes to having sex we all want to have the best sex life that is possible. We all want to come hard and be making the other person come even harder. We want to share a scream of agonised pleasure with the other person, for that sweet sweet moment when it is just you and them, and everything else fades away but the sensations of skin and sweat and ecstasy. We have built our civilisation around it, and most of what we do is in some way related to our desire for sex. It is why we get jobs, earn money, buy nice clothes or flashy cars, why we want to have enough money for fancy meals out, it is often why we want to be rich! Most of us believe in our core than having huge wealth means having power, and power equals sex, lots and lots of sex.

Despite all of that effort that we make in other areas, somehow we forget to look after the foundation of our ability to both get sex and to have great sex. Our bodies.

Your body is the medium with which you fuck

When you have sex with someone, you are using your body to do it. You are not only using it, you are reliant on your body to send back the sensations that trigger emotion and feeling. It is the sensor array that gives you the data for your brain to interpret into pleasure. Without a body you could not have sex!

A crap body can equal crap sex

Think about it for a moment. If you had a clapped out car, with a dodgy motor and worn out tires, that car is not going to go very far or very fast. If it is running at 20% efficiency, that is the bottle neck of your journey. The same is true for your body. If your body is tired, badly treated or not looked after, then it will be running at a lower efficiency. It will not function as well – your sex will be worse. If it is running at 20% efficiency, you will only get 20% of the pleasure, 20% of the drive, 20% of the come and the rush.

The answer is simple – look after yourself

Just do it. Look after yourself and you will have better sex. Take care of your body, treat it as your gateway to pleasure, and as long as you do, that gateway will remain open to you.