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The no hands game!

EdBennett — Wed, 20 Sep 2017 15:37:54 +0000

20 Sep 2017 - 16:37 | Tags: sex games, spicing things up in the bedroom, sexy fun time

Sex is amazing! There is nothing like it. Nature has ensured that it is the greatest pleasure for one important reason, as long as we are all having lots of sex, then the human race will continue to survive and thrive. Yes there is of course the issue of contraception. Clear buggers that we are, humans have found a way of having all the pleasure of sex without the procreation… but we are not so clever that mistakes don’t happen, and so the human race continues to multiply! Aren’t we smart?

So there are lots of ways to spice up your sex sessions. The main thing being good sex is in the selection. Finding a like-minded fuck buddy, or a hook up that wants the same kinds of things as you is key to having a really good relationship. There is no point finding someone that doesn’t want a no strings attached relationship if that is what you are looking for, that is only going to end swiftly and badly. So selection is really important when it comes to sex.

Once you have that though, I think one of the key things is a sense of playfulness. Being able to play, to have fun, to mess about in bedroom and mess about with each other without fear of failure. That is where things can get really enjoyable. Finding ways of exploring each other’s bodies as well is a really positive thing to do. Most people can be a little shy about it, and that is where a good “sex game” can come into its own. One of my favorites, is the no hands game.

How to play the no hands game

Get your partner to give you a massage, but without using their hands! They can use every other part of their body, but just not their hands. This starts slow, but soon you will find them stroking your entire body with their face, their hair and their boobs. It is surprisingly sensual, and it is not only great for you. If you get them to put their hands behind their back when they do it, but don’t restrain them, they will find themselves wanting to put their hands on you, but being unable to do so! This will cause sexual frustration on their part, building their own desire to be released from the restriction to jump your bones.

The game can be played both ways, so you to them or them to you. My understanding is that it works better with the girl doing it to the guy… but the only way to really know is to try it find out! So get naked, and remember, hands off!

Top Types of Food to use in the bedroom during sex

EdBennett — Sat, 27 Aug 2016 18:31:20 +0000

27 Aug 2016 - 19:31 | Tags: fun with food, kinky sex, spicing things up in the bedroom

There are many fun things you can do in the bedroom to spice up your sex life and these can go from simple little things through to quite extreme complicated things! I wrote an article earlier this month about why it is sexy here. You can light a few candles to better set the mood, you could change your sheets to silk ones for a more sensual experience. If you want to take bigger actions you could fit a mirror on the ceiling, or paint the room sexy red. I terms of play you could get a camera and record yourself to make your own porn videos starting you, you could get some rope and start tying each other up, you could even bring flame into it with some serious fire play. It is all good fun – as long as you stay safe when doing it and you are both consenting and into it.

Food is one of the simpler things to bring into the bedroom because you already have it in your house! It is a familiar item, so it seems safer than say pulling out a ball gag! So if you are thinking about adding in some edible ingredients in order to spice things up in the bedroom, here are some things to think about!

Food not to use

Firstly eliminate all the food that you should not use. Anything too liquid is bad – covering a girl in soup before fucking her is not sexy it is just a little odd. Now odd can be fun – and if that is what you are going for this is a great choice – I wouldn’t start out with it. Anything that is super sticky could be an issue – deserts are something that is an immediate go to so just be careful about your choice of desert. Chocolate for example only becomes an issue when it melts so it’s a manageable amount – I would avoid sticky toffee pudding etc though!

Foods that are great in the bedroom

Certain foods have a sexual association already and these are the ones that you want to reach for. Strawberries are great – with all the pictures we have been exposed to of sexy women sucking on strawberries they carry a turn on element to them. Chocolate is again a food that boosts the happiness hormones and as long as you consume at a good speed then they don’t melt too much. Vodka jelly shots are brilliant if you want something alcoholic in the mix – though use with care. Too much alcohol can make you soft if you are a man.

So grab some food and get going – you are going to have a good time.