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The best break up songs to get over your forgotten friend with benefits

EdBennett — Tue, 29 Mar 2022 23:19:42 +0000

30 Mar 2022 - 00:19 | Tags: music and sex, breakups, breaking up

When it comes to adult dating, people who are not involved it in often think that heartbreak never happens. They think that just because people are in no strings attached relationships, or because they are strictly fuck buddies that there can never be heartbreak. They are wrong. I would be quick to forgive them for their misconception. The idea behind adult dating also encapsulates the idea that there is no heartbreak. If there are no strings, then there is rarely the attachment that is a prerequisite to heartbreak. However, despite best intentions and all honesty between the parties who enter into an adult relationship, it still happens. For the most part, it is quite low level and quick to recover from. One person decides they no longer want to sleep with the other. They part ways and there are no hard feelings, but one party is disappointed. That lasts for a short amount of time before it fades and the person finds another friend with whom they can hook up. However, sometimes, just sometimes, it can be much worse. One party develops feelings that are not reciprocated and that ends things. Then the person is in a hole for a while. It is for this reason that I would like to share some of the greatest breakup songs to help you get over your forgotten friend with benefits.

Champaign Supernova – Oasis (if you were born in the 1980s)
This is a fantastic song. It is not specifically about a relationship which is why is particularly good for losing a fuck buddy, as often they are more like losing a close friend than a girlfriend or boyfriend. It is also about change, that people do grow and move and that can move people on. If you were born in 1980, this is a great one for you!

We are never ever getting back together – Taylor Swift (if you were born in the 1990s)
This music video was shot as a single rolling shot and is quite the piece of art to watch! It has the wonderful upbeat tune with a nice strong message behind it that reminds you to move on and not look back. It is also filled with beautiful people and somehow that helps! This is definitely a winner.

Valentine – Kina Grannis (if you were born in the 2000s)
This song is about love and fun and joy. It is the perfect Valentine’s day song, but it is also a great song to get over someone. It reminds you that there are other people out there that want to make YOU their valentine.

So, if you have had a hard parting recently, why not dip into one of these and cycle yourself out of it at record speed?

If you break – always have break up sex

EdBennett — Wed, 28 Mar 2018 17:39:20 +0000

28 Mar 2018 - 18:39 | Tags: breakup sex, breaking up, friend with benefits

Breaking up with a fuck buddy is never easy, even if you are the one doing the break up. It is hard, you are insulting the other person’s identity in a way that can never be cushioned. Even with a strict no strings attached relationship, there can be a moment of hurt. It is easier in this setting, because you were clear about it when you signed up to it in the first place, that does not stop it from still being a difficult thing to do / have done to you.
There is on clear silver lining when ending a fuck buddy, you can hook up with them again one last time, and you can have break up sex.

We love unique things

As humans we love it when something is unique and different from everything else that we have done in the past. It is excellent if it is new. We love special edition releases of films, 1st edition books are worth far more than their less rare later counterparts, due to their rarity. When going to restaurants, we love to try new food and new dishes. A change is as good as a break. The same is true with sex. We change the time, the position, the strength and voracity of it, the roughness, the speed and the feel. We have happy sex, frustrated sex, unstoppable lust driven sex. The one thing that most people don’t have is angry sex. When you are in relationship, if you are angry you are simply not having sex.

Break up sex is authorised angry sex

You can be really angry with the person, and have sex with them, and that is acceptable. It is the one time that you can both ride that emotion, and you can do it for real. You can try and fake it, but that never works. If the anger is real whilst still in a hook up setting, then you don’t have sex. What allows the sex to still happen, is that you are never going to see each other again, so you make an exception.

Great sex is emotion – and this is emotion on speed

The emotion of a break up is huge. It is so massive, so overwhelming, it heightens everything. This includes the sex. You can have a sexual experience unlike any that you have ever had in your life before. Every been slapped then fucked the girl? Well here is your chance.

So if you have a break up, take advantage of it. Have break up sex.

Why break up sex is amazing

EdBennett — Fri, 28 Oct 2016 17:45:15 +0000

28 Oct 2016 - 18:45 | Tags: breaking up, breakup sex, best times for sex

No one likes to break up with someone else or be broken up with by someone else. It is as simple as that. Everyone can get that being dumped sucks, and that it hurts and is a mightily painful experience all around. However, most people don’t consider that this flows both ways. The person doing the break up has to go through a difficult process to reach that decision, then they have to really man up to make the break up happen, and then no matter the reasons they did the break up, they still share the feeling of loss on some level. On some part of their inner workings they too have lost a person from their life, from their sphere of being and existence. They will no longer see and hang out with someone that they have been intimate with, and let’s not underestimate the power of that intimacy. Even in the most clear of fuck buddy set ups, even when everyone knows that it is casual, that there are no strings attached and that the friends with benefits rules apply, even then a parting can be difficult on both sides. This is where break up sex comes into play, in all its glory.

Break up sex is amazing, and the actual sex itself can be some of the best sex that you have ever had, ever. If you haven’t done it, you need to get in on this action because damn it is really good. It has all of the elements that make up the best sex you could have:

It is emotional:

Having a strong emotion is key to great sex. The emotion doesn’t actually have to be positive or negative, it just has to be strong. Break up sex has extremely strong emotions when you have it. This fuels the passion.

The last time effect:

This is the last time you will ever have sex with this person. Ever. This means when you do it, you really do it. You fuck hard and with all the effort and strength you can muster, because it is the last time. You really make the most of each thrust and you savour each rush of pleasure.

It’s a huge release:

The tension is high, the air is tight with the break up – sex is the best tension release ever, and because you both need that release it happens together making it even more powerful, and the sex even better.

It’s a great way to end things

If you are going to finish, may as well finish whist coming. I highly recommend break up sex to anyone planning a split of any kind. It is amazing.

Don’t fear the invisible sword of being dumped, for you sharpen it

EdBennett — Fri, 12 Aug 2016 20:18:38 +0000

12 Aug 2016 - 21:18 | Tags: being alpha, breaking up, being attractive

Fear is part of life. We all fear things, and that is no bad things for fear can serve us well. It is the thing that keeps us alive, and stops us from doing something that gets us killed. When we are young it is the fear of being burned that keeps us safe from fire, the fear of the pain from falling that stops us jumping from the top of high things, the fear of getting lost that keeps us near our parents and stops us from, well, getting lost! It is a useful emotion, which is why we have it. However in modern day life when we no longer have survival as our primary problem, fear can get in the way big time. Let’s get straight to it and look at it from a relationship point of view.

Once you have someone, whether a fuck buddy or a long term relationship, there is the possibility of being dumped. This is quite a likely possibility as eventually most relationships end. If you are not that into them, or it is early days, this fear is small because the stakes are small. You really haven’t invested that much into the relationship, you have only had a sex a few times if at all, there is no great loss if it ends. As time goes on, the more you come to like the other person whether for their witty conversation or their tight body, the higher the stakes gets and the less you want to separate. This in turn starts to breed the fear of that loss. If you are breaking up with them that is a different thing, as it is on your terms, but the fear of them ending things with you grows proportionally to the amount that you like them. The problem is this is a self fulfilling prophesy.

The fear of the invisible sword hanging over your head that is ready to sever the ties between you changes how you act. The brain thinks that it is helping you – like the way it stopped you from getting burned or jumping off a cliff... but the opposite is true. You start to be conflict averse, because the argument could lead to a ending... which means you start caving on things that worsen the relationship. You start apologising about things that are not your fault, which leads to false feedback and your partner to continue to make fuck ups You stop making strong decisions in an effort to please her/him – which end in no one being happy. Ultimately you compromise on who you are, which leads to you ceasing to be the person that they fancied to begin with, which dooms the partnership.

Don’t fear the sword of break up, for it will condemn you to its use. Now if I could only fully embrace my own advice on this my life would be so much better! Good luck you crazy cats.