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Cold read your partner in bed to appear like a sexual monster

EdBennett — Tue, 22 Feb 2022 18:12:45 +0000

22 Feb 2022 - 18:12 | Tags: sexy mindset, how to have better sex, be a sex god

We all want to be great in bed. We want to have a good time and we want our fuck buddy or whomever we have hooked up with to have a good time as well. The thing we definitely want is for our fuck buddy to think that we are amazing in bed. As humans, from a young age, we have been taught to seek approval. Most of us wanted our parents to be proud of us. As kids we were taught that our teachers were the ones that gave us grades, marks and generally made judgements about our worth, so we became seekers of their approval. Even at work, most of us have bosses that give us appraisals or decide if we are going to get pay rises or promotions, again all of which mean we continue to seek approval from others. The same is true in bed.

We cannot help but want the person that we are sleeping with to want more of the same, to want us again and again (and again!). We seek that approval (and we seek it often without evening being aware that we crave it so). So how can we really be sure that we are going to get it, that we are going to rock the world of the person that we are with? There are many steps that can be taken, but one is to learn to cold read your fuck buddy.

Cold reading is the art of reading someone’s body language to know what they are thinking or what action they are about to take without them saying words to that effect. It is most commonly known in poker, where you try and “read” your opponent to know when they are telling the truth or when they are lying. In this case, it is about reading your fuck buddy so that you know what they like and what they don’t like. It is really quite simple as well!

Sometimes your fuck buddy will use their words and just tell you what feels good. When they do that, listen and do more of whatever it is you are doing. Other times they don’t and this is when you really pay attention. When you stoke them somewhere, do they pull away (indicating they don’t like it) or do they lean in? Does their body shiver with pleasure or stiffen in stress? If you can be sensitive to this, you can adjust your approach accordingly.

Listen to their breath as well. As they breathe faster, shallower breaths they are getting more and more excited. When that changes, be mindful of what you are doing so you can quickly learn what it is that is turning them on and off.

By simply listening in this way, you will find your fuck buddy will keep coming back again and again as they have the best time in bed with you.

Tell yourself you are a Sex god - and you will be

EdBennett — Fri, 18 Nov 2016 12:38:11 +0000

18 Nov 2016 - 12:38 | Tags: be a sex god, being alpha, being great at sex

There are lots of things that you need to do in order to be great in bed. Staying generally fit and healthy is a foundation stone of this that means getting some exercise and eating reasonably healthy foods. I am not telling you that you have to stop drinking or being fun in any way, just try and make sure that you get some vitamins into your system now and then, and don’t eat too much sugar that’s a real body killer. What would you prefer? A chocolate bar or great sex? Well that’s the choice you get to make!

Nerves are a killer

Nervousness can be a real turn off. It makes you come across as unsure, as weak, and no one wants to sleep with someone that is weak. Conversely confidence can come across as a real turn on. Being confident can make someone like you more, make them want you more than before. It also means that your movements are sure, steady and strong. This has an effect in two ways:

You body language automatically tells the other person that they chose correctly, that you are the awesome attractive guy that they want to be having sex with. This means that you are more likely to sleep with them.
When you are sleeping with them, your movements are strong and confident. This means that you are by definition going to be better in the sack. You are going to be better in bed because of this. You are going to be a sex god – because you believe that you are a sex god!

It is a self fulfilling prophesy

This is a completely self fulfilling prophecy. If you believe that you are a sex god, you will act like a sex god. You will be strong, confident and the other person will respond to this, be more turned on as a result and thus have a better sex life with you. You just have to believe it, and it becomes true.

Fake it till you make it

I know this is a hard thing to roll with, especially if you do not believe that you are a sex god. I mean who is, right? Well the way forward is to fake it till you make it. Girls “fake it” all the time with orgasms and coming, so as a guy why not fake the attitude.

Once you see the results you won’t have to fake it anymore, because it will be true. You will be a sex god!

Sex advice: Shave for more sensitive skin

EdBennett — Fri, 20 May 2016 18:59:22 +0000

20 May 2016 - 19:59 | Tags: be a sex god, great sex

Once we are having sex and getting laid, what we inevitably move towards is a place where we are having more sex and getting laid more and more often. It is easy to confuse quantity with quality however, they are both different things. They both serve the same master of course, the desire for *more* - more sensations, more satisfaction, more feeding of our insatiable desire for oneness with another human being. They do of course serve in different ways however. I have to be careful here, because there is a lot to be said about quantity. The more of something you have, often the better it genuinely is. A reasonably tasting pie is alright, but if you are hungry and you get to eat loads and loads of pie, like ALL the pie then actually it can become a great meal! The same is true for sex. If you just get to have loads and loads of sex, then even the most mundane of sex can quickly become good through sheer quantity. Good sex can be upgraded to great sex, and great sex had multiple times in a row can be easily looked back on as a mind blowing brilliant sex session. So I fully acknowledge that there is a huge amount of value to be had in just having more!

Another good approach that can increase how much enjoyment you are having with your current sex sessions, is to increase the quality of the sex that you are having. We lead busy often time starved lives, and so it isn’t always possible for a lot of us in our current work/life situations to be able to increase the amount we have sex simpley because there isn’t the space and the time to do so. As such instead we have to look for ways of increasing the quality of the sex that we are having instead.

One sure fire way of doing this is to shave. Shaving the hair from any part of your body makes it more sensitive. That part of the skin when touched, stroked, carsessed – even lightly brushed will respond with a greater level of rippled pleasure than an un shaved section of skin. For the ladies this likely means going and having your legs waxed, your arms done, and depending on how adventurous you are having your bikini line done. This is largely the accepted relm of the ladies.

For the men I would urge you to not discard this however. For most men the shaving of the face can make a huge difference in your sex life – for both of you. Not only does your face become more sensitive to touch, but for her she gets a smooth face against her face, chest and thighs depending on what part of her body you are kissing at any time!

If you are looking for a little extra time spent from her around your manhood, then a little tidying up down there can also massively increase this! Not only (again) will it make you more sensitive in that area to her touch (both from her hand and her mouth) but it will also encourage her to go down there. I never really realised how important a little tidy now and then can make to a girls willingness to visit your cock with her lips on a more regular basis.

So want to increase quality? Then whether you’re a girl or a guy, get the razor out and get trimming!

How to ruin a woman so she can never sleep with another

EdBennett — Thu, 10 Mar 2016 13:20:21 +0000

10 Mar 2016 - 13:20 | Tags: unforgettable sex, be a sex god, basic tenets of casual sex

It is the dream that all of us have. To find a woman, and have her *so * into us that she becomes incapable of ever sleeping with anyone else ever again! She wants you – and only you! She loves everything about you, and not because you put on a front, but because you are exactly who you are. Now the truth is that this is impossible to achieve, no one will ever like another human so much that everything that they do is wonderful! It is just not possible. We are, after all, human. So how can we fill this fantasy of the woman who can never sleep with another? The key is to ruin her for another man! Here are my top tips to achieve this!

Get her to say your name when coming

There is no bigger turn off than having someone scream someone else’s name when they come. There is no faster way to get yourself kicked out of bed! If you were with someone and they started moaning another persons name, I don’t know a single person that wouldn’t have an issue with this. I had a friend who once was with a girl who when she came screamed “sister Mary Margret!”. Needless to say this was the last time he saw her – it was just a bit too weird.
So, tell the girl you are with that you really like it if they say your name when they come. After a bit they will get used to it, and it will become habit. Should she ever try and sleep with another – she may find this hampers her ability to make it last!

Be amazing in bed

This is a long term goal and there are no quick wins here, but it stands the test of time. Be amazing in bed and the girl you are with will rarely want to go elsewhere. This takes time and work, and I won’t cover it here. There is another article covering that. Just remember that being better in bed has both short and long term gains. Well worth the effort.

Give her some memorable moments

Our memories are not perfect. We do not remember each day that we live equally. Instead we remember the important moments, the big moments, the turning points. We defiantly remember the moments of strong emotions... and that is where you want to aim. Give the person some moments of strong emotion. This can be joy and fun (people often reminisce about their favourite moments in life!). This can also be other less thought about amotions such as fear – the first time you have sex outside it is the fear of being caught /shame etc that gives a lot of the emotion spike. Give her these moments and she will forever compare others to what she had with you. It will make you immortal in her mind.

Do some firsts

Firsts are an amazing option if you can find them . Everyone remembers their first kiss, right? Well if you can find some “firsts” that are yet untouched – do them. Go alternative if you want, first time being tied up, first time you used a sex toy, first time you d sex in a cupboard! Think alternative and you will find that there are a huge number of “firsts” waiting to be done. Do them!

You will notice that most of this revolves around sex. This is deliberate. So go forth and have sex!