Why getting good at blow jobs is a life investment

EdBennett — Mon, 28 May 2018 18:00:05 +0000

We all love sex. It is one of the most natural things to do. It is warm, pleasurable, healthy to perform physically, brings people together mentally, is a great way to destress, and ultimately is one of the nicest things you can possibly do. There is nothing quite like it. Sex is the best. If more people had more sex, there would be world peace.

Sex is something that comes naturally to us. We have been doing it for thousands of years, and over that time we have gotten very good at it! That being said, we got good at the sex, I am not sure how “naturally” good we are at the foreplay.

When it comes to nature/nurture, it would seem that the act of having sex is part of our nature. Every man would have the instinct to put his penis somewhere, and every woman would have a gut instinct to want the man to put it inside her. That is part of us. However, when it comes to foreplay, I think that this may be something that we are taught, that is part of nurture rather than nature, and this includes blow jobs.

Blow jobs are amazing, for both men and women. For the man, it is something he can enjoy that is just for him, that takes place whilst he is no longer thinking about pleasuring his woman, he can just lie back and enjoy it. For the woman, it is her chance to give him something that he really likes, it can be a chance to tease, to twist, to wind him up in a way that puts her in charge. It can also be a really nice thing when she is just not up for it, but he really is.

Being good at blow jobs does not come naturally. It takes technique, time, and a little playing around to get a real feel for it. There is a set technique that you can follow, but to get really good is an art form.

So why bother? Getting good at blow jobs is an art form, but the joy it brings into both your lives is insurmountable. If you give a great blow job, the efforts he will go to in making sure that you come as hard as him are tangible. You will feel the reward directly, and for the whole of your life. Once you are good it, you will be good at it forever. This is well worth the time.

So get good at blow jobs. It is a life skill.

How to ruin a woman so she can never sleep with another

EdBennett — Thu, 10 Mar 2016 13:20:21 +0000

10 Mar 2016 - 13:20 | Tags: unforgettable sex, be a sex god, basic tenets of casual sex

It is the dream that all of us have. To find a woman, and have her *so * into us that she becomes incapable of ever sleeping with anyone else ever again! She wants you – and only you! She loves everything about you, and not because you put on a front, but because you are exactly who you are. Now the truth is that this is impossible to achieve, no one will ever like another human so much that everything that they do is wonderful! It is just not possible. We are, after all, human. So how can we fill this fantasy of the woman who can never sleep with another? The key is to ruin her for another man! Here are my top tips to achieve this!

Get her to say your name when coming

There is no bigger turn off than having someone scream someone else’s name when they come. There is no faster way to get yourself kicked out of bed! If you were with someone and they started moaning another persons name, I don’t know a single person that wouldn’t have an issue with this. I had a friend who once was with a girl who when she came screamed “sister Mary Margret!”. Needless to say this was the last time he saw her – it was just a bit too weird.
So, tell the girl you are with that you really like it if they say your name when they come. After a bit they will get used to it, and it will become habit. Should she ever try and sleep with another – she may find this hampers her ability to make it last!

Be amazing in bed

This is a long term goal and there are no quick wins here, but it stands the test of time. Be amazing in bed and the girl you are with will rarely want to go elsewhere. This takes time and work, and I won’t cover it here. There is another article covering that. Just remember that being better in bed has both short and long term gains. Well worth the effort.

Give her some memorable moments

Our memories are not perfect. We do not remember each day that we live equally. Instead we remember the important moments, the big moments, the turning points. We defiantly remember the moments of strong emotions... and that is where you want to aim. Give the person some moments of strong emotion. This can be joy and fun (people often reminisce about their favourite moments in life!). This can also be other less thought about amotions such as fear – the first time you have sex outside it is the fear of being caught /shame etc that gives a lot of the emotion spike. Give her these moments and she will forever compare others to what she had with you. It will make you immortal in her mind.

Do some firsts

Firsts are an amazing option if you can find them . Everyone remembers their first kiss, right? Well if you can find some “firsts” that are yet untouched – do them. Go alternative if you want, first time being tied up, first time you used a sex toy, first time you d sex in a cupboard! Think alternative and you will find that there are a huge number of “firsts” waiting to be done. Do them!

You will notice that most of this revolves around sex. This is deliberate. So go forth and have sex!

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Why getting good at blow jobs is a life investment

How to ruin a woman so she can never sleep with another