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Fun games to improve your fuck buddy sex life

EdBennett — Sun, 27 Jun 2021 23:09:05 +0000

28 Jun 2021 - 00:09 | Tags: sex games, improved sex, keeping your fuck buddy

Having a fuck buddy is one of the greatest things that you can have, especially in the time of reduced movement due to covid-19. The coronavirus has made it harder to get around, to meet people, to hook up or form other adult relationships. So if you have a fuck buddy right now, you are probably looking to hang on to them and keep them. Why give up a good thing when there is no alternative waiting in store, right? So what can you do to improve your sex life and help prevent it getting stale? Play some sex games with your fuck buddy.

Paid for sex games

There are a lot of sex games out there that you can buy off the shelf. Some of the best ones for a scenario like this are ones that build over time, that give you a longer term narrative to play through. For example, the card game “A year of sex” is a sexual position card game. Each card has a brand new sexual position for you and your fuck buddy to try out. You can pull them at random of course, but they also have a difficulty rating on them from 1 to 5, which means if you want to start slow and easy and work your way up to the trickier ones you can. The nice thing about this game is that you can look forward to playing it again and again. You can make it your mission to complete the set and do every single one, and that will result in you and your fuck buddy having a lot of sex. What a great result!

Free sex games

If you don’t want to spend the money, or just prefer to be a bit more traditional or want to try something tonight and don’t have time to buy something, there are also plenty of sex games that require nothing specialist to play. If you have an ordinary deck of cards that is a great start. Strip poker is a classic game from your youth, even if you didn’t play it at the time, and is a great way to get things steamy with a slow build. If there are more than 2 of you, spin the bottle is great, and you can play almost any game and agree that every time someone scores a point the other person has to do something sexual.

So if you are looking to keep things going and take it up a notch, try a sex game!

Things not to do with a fuck buddy if you want to keep them

EdBennett — Wed, 18 Sep 2019 18:45:38 +0000

18 Sep 2019 - 19:45 | Tags: keeping your fuck buddy, how to keep your sex life alive, when not to have sex

What is a fuck buddy? A fuck buddy is someone that you have and enjoy sex with, but there is no emotional or relationship attachment outside of the sex. It is someone you are focused on having sex with. You have a clear agreement that it is, what is known as, a no-strings attached relationship. If it is a friend, then they are also often known as friends with benefits. This can be a life-changing thing for both of you, bringing a lot of fun, happiness and well-being to all involved. There are ways to fuck it up however. With that in mind, here are my top tips for things not to do with a fuck buddy if you want to keep having sex with them without starting to develop unwanted attachments.

Do not cuddle

The intimacy brought on by cuddling develops attachments and feels far more than having sex. Do not do it. If you are someone who loves spooning try and repress that desire, or accept that perhaps you want something more than a fuck buddy.

Do not expect the moon on a stick

Courtship rituals will break the fuck buddy status that you are both enjoying so much. Do not do it, do not expect it either. That includes, but is not limited to: flowers, fancy dinners and expensive gifts or jewellery of any kind.

Do not become overly demanding, clingy or hard work

This is a “friends” with benefits relationship. It is not a relationship. Remember that. Doing anything that suggests that you are demanding or territorial is a real no-no. Do not start leaving a tooth brush in the holder around their house. Be careful about leaving clothes behind. Men like to mark their territory with socks, women often use underwear. Avoid this. If they cancel on you, be relaxed about it.

Do not introduce them to your parents

I mention this only because I know that it has happened in the past. Traditionally you introduce the person that you are marrying to your parents. Do not introduce your fuck buddy to them, unless you are looking for a quick way to end that partnership!

Do not hate on them for chatting to other potential partners

They are your fuck buddy. This is a non-monogamous relationship here. They are allowed to talk to other people with the intention of sleeping with them, just as you are. If they are on tinder, are Facebook friending potential sex partners, or even going on dates with other people, that is acceptable within your agreement. If you are not okay with it, talk to your f-buddy about it. This may mean ending things, but better that than you turn into crazy stalker person. We’ve all met that person and you know you do not want to be that person.

Routines without variation kills us

EdBennett — Fri, 30 Jun 2017 08:24:07 +0000

30 Jun 2017 - 09:24 | Tags: sex advice, keeping your fuck buddy, keeping sex good

After a certain amount of living, you will hit a routine, and there is nothing wrong with this, however sexual routine can really kill your sex life, and I would like to talk about what causes this lack of sexual excitement and how to avoid it if it hasn’t happened, and how to fix it if it has.

Routines without variation kills us

We all hit routines in our lives, and there is nothing wrong with routines in a basic sense. Routines are good, they allow us to do things efficiently without having to think about them too much, and the more we do a routine the slicker and smoother it gets, the more we do it efficiently and to better effect. Routines are great – and they help our lives. Routines can also be the fun killer.

When we get too set in our routines, we start to lose an ability to step out of that routine – and stepping out is where we are most alive. The routines of the same thing every day all blur into one till we cannot tell one day from another, and so the days we really remember, the days that we look back on with fond memories are usually days that we break from those routines, the days were we do something different. Usually because it is different, we also use the word exciting to also describe those days. We see friends and we say: “Oh! Do you remember when so and so did such and such? So funny!” We are always referring to when something is different, when something has been done that is outside of the usual routine or pattern. It is the break from routine, the norm, that really helps us to live.

With sex, just a pinch of change is all it needs

With a job you might be talking about doing something really big to alter your routine, like completely moving company! When it comes to sex, you only have to change a very small thing for this to make a difference. If you usually just have sex after going to the pub, go somewhere else instead. If you always go out before, stay in, and if you are always at home, go out. If you always have sex in the bedroom, do it in the kitchen, if on the bed, try the floor! If you are usually on top, try being on the bottom for once! If they normally instigate it, try taking control of the reigns and being in the driving seat for once! It really doesn’t matter what you change, just change something.

Start with something fun!

Is there something that you have always wanted to do in the bedroom? Or something that you think would be fun? Or even just something you quite like the idea of doing that you can do before sex even if it has nothing to do with the sex? Sometimes it is as simple as “do you remember that time we went out to that XXX gig and loved it?” “Oh yeah! Then you put me against the wall and nailed me so hard! How could I forget that night?”

Start small

If you are unsure start small. If you are lacking in inspiration as a few friends about some of their best nights of sex and see what they did before or during that you might like to try.

Avoid routine – just do something different, you will reap the benefits just as much as your partner.

Surprising sex is exciting

EdBennett — Mon, 12 Sep 2016 20:31:20 +0000

12 Sep 2016 - 21:31 | Tags: keep em keen, keeping your fuck buddy, sex is great

We all want a little excitement in our lives, and we all want things to change and be different, new and interesting all the time. It is part of a basic human need, and this is not different when it comes to having sex. We want to get laid, but when we fuck we want to be in the moment, for it to feel like this is unique in some way. If when we fuck it feels the same as the last time we fucked (and the time before that) this will get pretty unstimulating pretty quickly. No one wants to be having routine sex, take the bins out on the Wednesday, have sex on the Thursday. So how can we combat this?

Well the way to combat this is to do something different in the bedroom. “but I am not creative in that way” you may think or even “I don’t want to do anything kinky”. So let’s address this immediately. You don’t have to do anything too kinky. You can if you want to, many people have great fun playing with all sorts of things whilst having sex: food, candles, a little rope can go a long way! All of that is great if you are having fun – but only because you are having fun. Doing it for only the other person doesn’t work unless you are a really good faker – and few people are. So what can you do?

Do something different with sex – anything

Changing anything will work – and I really mean this – almost anything. Do it in a different place, or at a different time. Do it on the floor instead of the bed. Buy new colour sheets and then have fun “breaking in” the new sheets. Anything different will work.

Do something silly

Doing something silly may not seem sexy – but the point here is variation. So if you think that you would have fun doing it, then go for it! Commit to the enjoyment of it and the other person will also have a great time! If you want to have sex then press play on a pre rigged sound system to play “I just had sex” by Akon and dance around the room – go for it! It doesn’t matter as long as you enjoy it – they will too!

Do something spontaneous

I can’t give you examples because the point of doing something in the moment is exactly that – you are doing it in the moment. If something strikes you as fun or silly or interesting or you just want to do it – go for it. Spontaneous thoughts in the moment are rarely wrong. Mix it up and go for it.

So if you want to keep sex good, keep surprising the other person – and also remember to surprise yourself too!

Always have stuff going on in your life

EdBennett — Tue, 12 Apr 2016 18:34:41 +0000

12 Apr 2016 - 19:34 | Tags: keeping your fuck buddy, being alpha, great sex

Sex is amazing. Even bad sex can be good! Good sex is great, and great sex can blow your mind! I mean literally. Science has graphed out the chemical reactions that take place in the brain at the point of orgasm, and the results are quite literally mind blowing.

Sex is so great that the pursuit of it can become all consuming, and the point of getting it, the times in your life where you have it on tap, understandably it can over turn your life. You can easily find yourself spending your time having sex, and doing very little else! Why would you go out on lavish dates when you can just go home instead and have sex. Why bother hanging out with you mates when you can hang out with your sexual mate instead. Why spend time with your family – I mean you want to but you are just too busy having sex. I could go on but there is no need – you get the idea I am sure. So if sex is so great, why bother doing those other things you ask? Because the two are connected.

Great sex comes from the energy of the two people coming together and fancying the pants off each other – I mean that quite literally. The more that they find the other person attractive, the better the sex is. A lot of it comes down to how much you want it, and you want to keep that to as high a level as possible. You want the buying temperature to be super hot!! So how can you do this? Have other stuff going on in your life. Have options.

If you are the cool guy that has friends he hangs out with, people he does cool stuff with, things going on that easily fill his time, it is a really flattering thing when you then choose to spend some of your time with the girl. It is quality time. On the other hand, if you don’t have anything going on in your life, if you drop the ball on your friends and your family, if you let your hobbies and pastimes lapse into disuse, then you are being with her because you have nothing better to do. That is a whole lot less flattering!

You also want to remain the attractive man that she first chose to sleep with. The man that she first had sex with *did* have all these things happening. So if you drop down from whatever level of “life” you had when you first dated, then you cease to be the same sexy thing that deserves to have your plaything.

Maintain a life outside of your sexual partner. It is the best way to keep your sexual partner.

Fuck like it’s your first time

EdBennett — Sat, 27 Feb 2016 20:49:27 +0000

27 Feb 2016 - 20:49 | Tags: fuck like a rock star, keeping your fuck buddy

The message here is in title of the article – and if you want to stop reading here then as long as you go and take the advice you will have a better time the next time you are in the sack. For those of you who want a little more ground work and explanation – allow me to expand on this a little.

The message is simple. Next time you have sex, I want you to hark back to the first time and do it like that. I would like to clarify that I am not talking about screwing a girl like you are a virgin, far from it infact! The first time you ever had sex with someone you were nervous and fumbling. You knew you wanted to do “stuff” but weren’t really sure why at the end of the day. One of your mates had explained it to you, you’d looked up some stuff on the internet – or you possibly got a book or a dirty magazine to try and guide you depending on how old you are. You finally did the “sex” and it was, well, probably not that great. Past the nervousness of it being your first time you probably can’t even remember what it was like or what really happened. Essentially you got through it, whether you had a good time or not is unimportant in retrospect. What is important is that you pushed through it... so the you could go on to start having really good sex as you got to know each other and were able to be more in the moment.

Do not have sex like the *very* first time you had sex!!!

What I am saying is sleep with the girl like it is the first time you slept with that particular girl. The likely hood is that the girl you are currently fucking is far from your first fuck, however there was a first time with her. When you did it a little of that nervousness came back, the excitement of seeing her fully naked for the first time kicked in strong, and the internal teasing of knowing what was about to (probably) happen drove you to great heights of lust. THAT is what you need to tap into.

The best part? It is easy to tap into it! You just have to decide to do it – and BAM you are having exciting amazing sex again... just like the first time you fucked but *better* because you already know that you can have a good time together.

For those of you who are less experienced al you have to do is fuck like the first time you had a good time – likely the 2nd or 3rd time with her.

Go forth and orgasm – HARD.