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Great Sex VS Hard Orgasm

EdBennett — Sat, 18 Jun 2016 08:32:59 +0000

18 Jun 2016 - 09:32 | Tags: great sex, simultaneous orgasms, making women orgasm

There are many different ways to have sex. You can have it indoors, you can have it outdoors. You can have it traditionally on a bed, you can have it not traditionally on the floor, you can go alternative and do it in the cupboard or on top of the television. You can do it simple and vanilla, you could go super kinky and do it with ropes and toys. Sometimes you will want to do it fast and hard, other times you might want to do is slow and soft. There are days when you want to make love to the other person, and there are other times when what you both want is just a good hard fuck.

Even if the mechanics of it are similar, the quality of the actual sex can differ massively. Sometimes the sex is mind blowingly amazing, and other times, well let’s just say that everyone and I mean everyone has times when the sex is so unsatisfactory that actually afterwards it was clear that you would both have been better of if you hadn’t bothered at all!

The ideal situation is that you have great sex that finishes in a really hard orgasm – for both of you. It rarely happens at the same time mind you, but getting a period of cross over is enough I think. Did you ever think about the difference between the two though?

Having an orgasm and having great sex are so intertwined, so synonymous with each other that actually we forget that they are two different measurements points, that whilst they come hand in hand, they can be of very different strengths! Allow me to expand.

Having great sex is about so much more than just the orgasm – and can in fact not even include each other! Great sex is about the build up, the setting. It is about the tease, about how much you want each other in the moment, about how much you turn each other on to the point where you are ready to rip each other’s clothes off and fuck really hard. It is also about the experience, if you do it in a different or exciting way, then it can be really exciting sex!

Having an Orgasm is about the actual act of coming. You can come to different levels as well, so you can come, or you can come really hard! So there are better and worse orgasms.

The interesting thing is that whilst they often come hand in hand, you can have one without the other, and you can excel in one area with out the other being that high a level. An awareness of this can help you to endure that all your nights are one to remember – so keep an eye on both!

Sex advice: Shave for more sensitive skin

EdBennett — Fri, 20 May 2016 18:59:22 +0000

20 May 2016 - 19:59 | Tags: be a sex god, great sex

Once we are having sex and getting laid, what we inevitably move towards is a place where we are having more sex and getting laid more and more often. It is easy to confuse quantity with quality however, they are both different things. They both serve the same master of course, the desire for *more* - more sensations, more satisfaction, more feeding of our insatiable desire for oneness with another human being. They do of course serve in different ways however. I have to be careful here, because there is a lot to be said about quantity. The more of something you have, often the better it genuinely is. A reasonably tasting pie is alright, but if you are hungry and you get to eat loads and loads of pie, like ALL the pie then actually it can become a great meal! The same is true for sex. If you just get to have loads and loads of sex, then even the most mundane of sex can quickly become good through sheer quantity. Good sex can be upgraded to great sex, and great sex had multiple times in a row can be easily looked back on as a mind blowing brilliant sex session. So I fully acknowledge that there is a huge amount of value to be had in just having more!

Another good approach that can increase how much enjoyment you are having with your current sex sessions, is to increase the quality of the sex that you are having. We lead busy often time starved lives, and so it isn’t always possible for a lot of us in our current work/life situations to be able to increase the amount we have sex simpley because there isn’t the space and the time to do so. As such instead we have to look for ways of increasing the quality of the sex that we are having instead.

One sure fire way of doing this is to shave. Shaving the hair from any part of your body makes it more sensitive. That part of the skin when touched, stroked, carsessed – even lightly brushed will respond with a greater level of rippled pleasure than an un shaved section of skin. For the ladies this likely means going and having your legs waxed, your arms done, and depending on how adventurous you are having your bikini line done. This is largely the accepted relm of the ladies.

For the men I would urge you to not discard this however. For most men the shaving of the face can make a huge difference in your sex life – for both of you. Not only does your face become more sensitive to touch, but for her she gets a smooth face against her face, chest and thighs depending on what part of her body you are kissing at any time!

If you are looking for a little extra time spent from her around your manhood, then a little tidying up down there can also massively increase this! Not only (again) will it make you more sensitive in that area to her touch (both from her hand and her mouth) but it will also encourage her to go down there. I never really realised how important a little tidy now and then can make to a girls willingness to visit your cock with her lips on a more regular basis.

So want to increase quality? Then whether you’re a girl or a guy, get the razor out and get trimming!

Always have stuff going on in your life

EdBennett — Tue, 12 Apr 2016 18:34:41 +0000

12 Apr 2016 - 19:34 | Tags: keeping your fuck buddy, being alpha, great sex

Sex is amazing. Even bad sex can be good! Good sex is great, and great sex can blow your mind! I mean literally. Science has graphed out the chemical reactions that take place in the brain at the point of orgasm, and the results are quite literally mind blowing.

Sex is so great that the pursuit of it can become all consuming, and the point of getting it, the times in your life where you have it on tap, understandably it can over turn your life. You can easily find yourself spending your time having sex, and doing very little else! Why would you go out on lavish dates when you can just go home instead and have sex. Why bother hanging out with you mates when you can hang out with your sexual mate instead. Why spend time with your family – I mean you want to but you are just too busy having sex. I could go on but there is no need – you get the idea I am sure. So if sex is so great, why bother doing those other things you ask? Because the two are connected.

Great sex comes from the energy of the two people coming together and fancying the pants off each other – I mean that quite literally. The more that they find the other person attractive, the better the sex is. A lot of it comes down to how much you want it, and you want to keep that to as high a level as possible. You want the buying temperature to be super hot!! So how can you do this? Have other stuff going on in your life. Have options.

If you are the cool guy that has friends he hangs out with, people he does cool stuff with, things going on that easily fill his time, it is a really flattering thing when you then choose to spend some of your time with the girl. It is quality time. On the other hand, if you don’t have anything going on in your life, if you drop the ball on your friends and your family, if you let your hobbies and pastimes lapse into disuse, then you are being with her because you have nothing better to do. That is a whole lot less flattering!

You also want to remain the attractive man that she first chose to sleep with. The man that she first had sex with *did* have all these things happening. So if you drop down from whatever level of “life” you had when you first dated, then you cease to be the same sexy thing that deserves to have your plaything.

Maintain a life outside of your sexual partner. It is the best way to keep your sexual partner.

Focus on making the other person come for amazing sex

EdBennett — Sat, 12 Dec 2015 09:49:25 +0000

12 Dec 2015 - 09:49 | Tags: finding orgasms, great sex, coming

Focus on making the other person come for amazing sex
We all want to come with sex. We all want to have the amazing orgasm that gives us that huge rush of pleasure along with the calm and stopping of everything but being in that moment. We all want the rush – both men and women. What is the best way to seek that?

In our focus to achieve it – the drive to get it may actually undermine our ability to reach it as we are distracted from the moment and the other person. If we are completely focused on our own orgasm – it can lead us away from achieving it. There is a way out of this trap.

Focus on the other person. When you have sex, there is a joining of your path with each other. The more the other peron gets turned on, the more and more you will get turned on. The hornier you get, the easier it is to orgasm and come. The hornier you *both* get, the harder you will *both* come. So by focusing on the other person’s pleasure and building up their wetness / hard on, the more you will also have the same build.

It is easier for the other person – so both do it for the mutual win
It is easier for someone to turn you on and make you come, than it is for you to do it yourself. The same goes the other way around. So if you both focus on making the other person come – that is where the win win lies.

Everyone loves surprises – and that boosts pleasure
Everyone loves a surprise – and a good surprise massively increases pleasure. It is impossible to surprise yourself. By definition you planned it so you know what is going to happen. However, you can surprise someone else. I am not talking about massive pre planned presents, or anything that is at all hard work. I am talking about the moment they grab your ear in pleasure, or you slap someones behind whilst in the moment. The moment you suddenly decide to flip the person on to their front so that you can change position and take them from behind – or the moment you were flipped onto your front. By focusing on the other person, you can do all these things for them – and they can do all these things for you, and you both will end up having really amazing sex because of it.