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Fuck like you are going to die tomorrow

EdBennett — Fri, 30 Jun 2017 08:30:31 +0000

30 Jun 2017 - 09:30 | Tags: keeping sex hot, sex and death, fucking fun

In modern times we all live quite measured and careful lives. We get up, have a morning routine that we rarely break from. We go to our regular jobs, do a similar thing all day long, eat lunch in the same place, talk to the same people, before heading out at the end of the day. We then perhaps go and grab a drink in our regular place, before going home to watch the same TV show and have our usual meal. In amongst this somewhere, we have sex. It doesn’t matter where in your routine you do this, the thing that always happens is that the sex becomes regular. It becomes routine, and routine is the death of exciting sex. As flight of the conchords put it so well in their spoof song “business time”- things just become regular. So what can you do about this?

Remember that you are going to die

This may sound like an odd thing to say, but bear with me. The thing that allows routine to set in, is our belief that we are going to live forever. We don’t have to do that today, we can do that tomorrow. We can allow ourselves to have ordinary days, ordinary weeks because we can be amazing next week, next month, or next year. We don’t have to have the courage to do something now, because we can always do that later. The most powerful antidote for all of this?

Accept that you are going to die. If you embrace this, the power that this brings can really set you free.
Understand that you have no idea when this is going to happen. Perhaps you will die tomorrow, or next week, or next year. No one can really tell you when your time will come to pass on.
Take action to do things that you want to do now. This becomes easier by far, because you come to realise that if you do not do it now, you don’t know when you are going to be able to do it.

Now psych yourself up to remembering your death before sex

If you do this, if you can work yourself up to a state where you know that this might be it, all “routine” goes out of the window. Suddennly this could be the last time you have sex – this really brings you into the moment and makes you super present. During sex if there is something spontaneous that you feel like doing, or there is boundary that you have always wanted to push – you will push it, because what have you go to lose. You will feel that urge to push someone against a wall with desire again, you will really in your gut want to take the person. You will, in short, fuck the person like it is your last time, and that will take you to a new level, possibly one that you have never been to before.

Try this, take yourself through this process and fuck your f-buddy like you are going to die tomorrow, and you will find yourself feeling like you did in the early days of sex again.

Make your sex sessions film like for a super star fuck

EdBennett — Thu, 28 Jan 2016 09:30:39 +0000

28 Jan 2016 - 09:30 | Tags: fuck like a rock star, film sex, fucking fun

We cannot ignore the influence that films have had on the way that we have our sexual relationships. Many fantasies are based on things that we saw in films (usually when we were younger). I know an English girl who has a massive lift fetish because of a film she saw when young, Indian girl who has a massive waterfall fetish because of Bollywood, and recently the upside down kiss has become a thing for the next generation due to the Spiderman scene. Men in masks has always been a thing that has fuelled the sexual fantasies of both sexes, from the actual masked balls in the Victorian era through to the many super hero films that feed the hunger for the same fantasy in today’s world. What I want to talk about is using this to our own sexual advantage.

Given that films have already formed a sexual foundation that is all too real, rather than ignore it, I saw cash in on it. This can be done in many ways.

Soundtrack your sex

All sex scenes in movies have these carefully timed and planned soundtracks. The music builds with the orgasm, and climax’s at the point of explosion. Fifth Element is my favourite example of this – they do it so well. So let’s cash in. Sound is one of the 5 senses, and for some people their primary sense. If you soundtrack your sex session you will find that both of you can gain a new level of excitement and commitment to the moment. Your brain will automatically tap into all the films you have ever seen and associate the sex with the same level of drama that was in the film. Try it – you will find this to be true!

Find the film fantasy – and do it

It is likely that your fuck buddy has a film fantasy. This could be as simple as wanting to have an encounter at a masked Victorian ball by a masked man, through to having sex in the toilets on a plane whilst it is being hijacked. The latter is going to be hard to create, but the former much easier. Take them to a Victorian ball, and boom you will be having the best sex of your life!

Re-enact scenes

There are certain scenes from films that they will have found sexy and a turn on. If you memorise a little of the dialogue – and it doesn’t have to be much – playing even just a few lines out before getting to it can give them the chance to feel like they are that person in the film... making you the heartthrob love interest!

Give the above a go – and don’t forget to think about yourself. If you have a fantasy of a film scene, play it out. If you are turned on, then so are they.

New years – great sex is guaranteed

EdBennett — Thu, 31 Dec 2015 09:39:43 +0000

31 Dec 2015 - 09:39 | Tags: holiday sex, fucking fun, easy sex

We are heading to the end of the year, and what a year it has been. This year we have seen the economy over all start to get better, gay marriage was made legal and millions of Americans now have access to free healthcare. The changes have been huge and widespread, and will be felt for decades to come.

New years is the time of evaluation. Where am I, what have I done, where have I been and where am I heading to? With all these questions people naturally return to themselves and inevitably their romantic and sexual relationships. Who have I slept with? Who am I sleeping with? Who would I like to sleep with in the new year? It is interesting that the pressure of events like Christmas, new years and valentines day actually causes and encourages more break ups! More people end their current relationships at this time than any other time of the year.

Well what does that mean for you if you are available? Well, whether you are available because you are single or you are available because you are in an open relationship, what it does mean is that New Years is one of the easiest times in the year to get laid.

More people than ever to choose from

There are more people than any other time to choose from. This is like peak season shopping time! The only time that is busier is valentine’s day! With a larger number of single and ready to mingle people to choose from, now is a great time to be meeting people.

Winter Horniness

With winter come in – no one wants to go and do loads of outdoor stuff. Now is the time to be inside, with a big warm fire and cuddle up with someone they fancy. Winter is not the time to go and build things, its time to be inside and chill.... and if you are in side and chilling what better thing to do than have sex. Lots and lots of sex.

Everyone wants someone at New Years

It is a simple fact: “Everyone wants someone at new years”. Everyone. No one likes to be the single guy/girl. As a result people make more effort in how they look, how they carry themselves, and they are more open to meeting someone. You are more open to meeting some whether you like it or not. As a result it is an easier time to get together with someone, whether for romance, sex or both.

Go get ‘em tiger

So get out there and meet some people. At this time of year, you win half the battle by just talking to someone, because if they are single, the likelihood is that they are ready to rock and roll.