Why it can be easier to find a fuck buddy from your friendship circle

EdBennett — Tue, 20 Mar 2018 19:35:11 +0000

20 Mar 2018 - 19:35 | Tags: fuck buddy friend, how to make a friend with benefits, sex with a friend

When we are looking for a fuck buddy, we are looking for someone that we can have sex with in a no strings attached set up. We want to be able to have sex, but without the nonsense of the extra baggage that often comes with it. Both people are looking for all the fun, excitement and joy of orgasm, without all the toil and drudgery of a worn and tired relationship. I can certainly see why this is the choice people make, especially since this is a clear choice you can make in the modern day. I am not sure this was available a couple of generations ago.

The key things that you want in a fuck buddy

There are some crucial things that you want in a fuck buddy. The main thing is that you want to be having excellent sex with them. You want to have mind blowing, orgasmic, screaming with pleasure joyous sex. A big part of this comes from being able to talk about what you do, and do not, like in the bedroom. If you want to try something different, or have a fetish or a fantasy that you want to play out it is crucial that you feel comfortable talking to them about it. Even simpler, being able to tell them things that you liked means that they will be able to do it again for you. This requires a huge level of trust between the two of you.

Trust is already fostered

When you meet someone or know someone through your social circle, the trust is already implied. The other person is “pre vetted” by someone you trust, just as you are “pre vetted” and thus they can trust you more easily. This 3rd party endorsement means that the path to honesty is paved for you, and is all the more easy to walk down. This builds to sexual honesty quicker, and thus to better sex.

How can you emulate this with a non-friend

The phrase “friends with benefits” came from the concept that you are looking for someone to just be your friend whom you sleep with. This comes more easily if they are already your friend. If they are not, the best approach is to pretend they are. If you act with the same level of openness and honesty and openness, they will naturally reciprocate. This requires a huge leap on your side, but it will pay itself in fuck buddy dividends later down the line.

Trust me.

Sex with a Friend: 6 Ways to Avoid the Awkward

EdBennett — Tue, 02 Jun 2015 10:09:06 +0000

2 Jun 2015 - 11:09 | Tags: casual sex, friends with benefits, sex with a friend, avoiding awkwardness

We’ve all done it or will do it at some point during our lives. That friend you’ve been friends with for a while or for a long time. That friend you’ve always fancied. One morning you roll over in bed and find them lying in bed next to you naked as the day they were born. The question is; do you roll back thinking "Oh God! What have I just done?!" Or do you roll back thinking “Damn! That was fun! I’m looking forward to doing it again?”

How do you manage any potential awkwardness after sleeping with a friend? There is no trick, no cheat, no special way of talking to someone. The answer is all in how you approach the situation. And there are 6 sure fire ways you can avoid any awkwardness.

6 Ways to Avoid the Awkward

1. Agree That You Both Want to Have Sex
Let’s be honest, most of us are wasted when we hop into bed with a friend. There really isn’t much thought put into the consequences until the following morning. Awkwardness can be avoided by being honest and talking about it as friends first. You can still drink, but it’s a good idea not to be off your face before having sex anyway.

2. Be Exciting
Also translated as ‘be adventurous’. Let your friend see a side of you that they would otherwise never get to see. As your friends they already know all about you so it’s fun to let them see another side of you in the bedroom.

3. Hang Out Afterward
The easiest way to avoid any friendship difficulties afterward is to hang out like you normally would. So you’ve just had sex! Great! Now watch TV, go see a movie or just chat like you normally would. Normalizing the experience will make it nice for both of you and maintain your friendship.

4. Do It Again!
If you’ve had sex with each other once, you should do it again if you enjoyed it. Great sex isn’t easy to find so don’t let outdated morals stop you from enjoying your friend’s company in as well as out of the bedroom.

5. Joke About It
Humor relieves the tension in almost all awkward situations. Avoid awkwardness the following morning/hour/day by cracking a joke. High five your friend…do whatever you can to make the both of you feel great about what just happened. It will relax them too.

6. Don’t Let Emotions Get Involved
It is essential that you both go into the situation knowing you are friends. If one of you secretly has been hoping for something more the worst thing you can do is sleep with your friend and not tell them how you feel. It’s not fair on either of you and someone (probably you) will get hurt.

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Why it can be easier to find a fuck buddy from your friendship circle

The key things that you want in a fuck buddy

Trust is already fostered

How can you emulate this with a non-friend

Sex with a Friend: 6 Ways to Avoid the Awkward