Habits to have a great sex life

EdBennett — Thu, 21 Oct 2021 23:22:29 +0000

22 Oct 2021 - 00:22 | Tags: australian sex habits, sex habits, great sex guide

Whether you are single now and looking for a fuck buddy or already have a friends with benefits relationship set up, at the point we are having sex, we all want to be having great sex. Often, the better time we have In bed, the more that our fuck buddy will enjoy themselves as well, which means it can be beneficially for both of you. One of the key things to having a good time with the person you have hooked up with is to get to know them. Having sex with someone is like playing an instrument. It is new, and slightly different, and even if you are an experienced player you still need to tune it and tune yourself into the quirks of it. So the more that you play with one person the better you get at it, and the more fun that you bot have. That being said, there are some great habits that you can build in order to make sure that you have a great sex life. With that in mind, here are my top habits that you should build right now.

Think about sex broadly

Most people think about sex as being penetration. To them, anything less than that is not sex. However, studies have shown that people who think about sex more broadly have better sex lives. They think about sex as more than just the penetration, it is the intimacy, the closeness of bodies… the brushing of an arm can be a sexual act if done in the right context. This mindset shift is an important one for a great sex life.

They educate themselves

Knowledge is power and understanding something makes you better at it. Having a good educational understanding of sex can make you better at it. This is now very easy to access with the internet being on your phone. Consider looking things up and really coming to understand the mechanics and the psychology behind sex.

Touch each other – a lot

It is a given that there will be touching in the bedroom, but for a really good time make it a habit to touch the other person outside of the sex session as well. The holding of a hand, the guiding of an elbow, the brush of a leg… these are all small actions that, if done habitually, can keep the fires of desire going for far longer than for those who do not.

So consider taking on some of these habits for a better sex life for both you and your fuck buddy!

Australian Sex Habits 2015

EdBennett — Sun, 24 May 2015 11:37:41 +0000

24 May 2015 - 12:37 | Tags: sex habits, australian sex habits, casual sex, sex, hook up

In 2014 a census was published by a dating site detailing the average sex habits of the average Australian. It turns out that what profession you’re in can have an impact on the amount and type of sex you have over your lifetime. The survey conducted across an array of different age groups and professions concluded that people in certain professions, had more sex than others.

The Breakdown
Aussies working in the legal industry are the most satisfied sexually according to the census, with 54.5% reporting that they enjoyed their sex life. At the other end of the pendulum, 44% of the IT and telecommunications industries reported being dissatisfied with their sex lives. It turns out that you shouldn’t work on computers or with mobile phones if you want to have better sex.

Estate agents have always had a pretty slutty reputation, but even I was surprised by 44.7% reporting that they had slept with at least 21 people over their lifetime. Must be all those viewings they do.

If you work in finance then you might be embarrassed to know that most of the respondents in this section admitted to lasting very little time at all during sex, with many attributing fatigue and stress at work as the main cause. Having met some accountants, I’m inclined to believe this.

Does it mean anything?
Well I always take the results of any survey with a pinch of salt. It is a cross section that the survey covers rather than the whole, and we all know that you can’t judge a population based on the actions of a mere few.

Should you worry?
Only you can answer that question. Whilst there are professions that seem to expose workers more to sex, it doesn’t mean they have the best sex there is to have. If you think you’re not getting enough sex, or not having good enough sex, then it doesn’t really matter what professions you’re in. Only you can do something about that. Being on f-buddy is a good start, but actions speak louder than intentions. Start messaging some buddies and see if you can strike up a connection.

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Habits to have a great sex life

Think about sex broadly

They educate themselves

Touch each other – a lot

Australian Sex Habits 2015