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My best sex dream

EdBennett — Sat, 22 Sep 2018 17:18:49 +0000

22 Sep 2018 - 18:18 | Tags: sex fantasies, sexual fantasy, sex dreams

The “wet dream” is a long standing male tradition. Men having been having wet dreams for generations. It is not something that is discussed much, but they happen and they are usually completely outside of the control of the guy. You never know when you are going to have one. Whether you have been single for a long time, or if you have 2 fuck buddies in bed with you at that exact moment, it seems to make no difference to your ability to have a wet dream. The actual dreams themselves can be really fun. They can guest star fictional characters from tv and film that don’t exist, things can be totally out of proportion to how they are in reality, and orgasms can be stretched out and last for what seems an orgasmic eternity. Sex dreams can be the best. The only down side is the “wet” part at the end of a wet dream. It’s somewhat annoying to have to deal with when you awake.

Women can also have wet dreams, though they are not called wet dreams, which is strange as they are capable of getting just as “wet” if not more so than men are! Their dreams, just their male fuck buddy counterparts, are varied and exciting. Having spoken to a few ladies when researching this article, here is a small sample of some of their top rated sex dreams.

The woman, let us call her Jane, has a cock. Jane is still a women in all other respects, she just now has a fully functional and connected penis. She masturbates till she comes. She told me that she actually orgasmed in real life when she came in her dream, and that the orgasm was particularly intense. It has left her with a desire to know what it really feels like for a man when he comes.

The woman in this dream was in the form of a trapped bird in a bramble bush. The man, wondering through the forest sees the bird and rescues it. When he holds the now free bird in his hands, it turns back into the woman, where he promptly kisses her. Kissing leads to a lot more(!).

The woman works in a white-collar office environment. She is in a tight pencil skirt and a white blouse. She is working late leaving just her and her boss in the office, as the sun goes down he takes her into the meeting room and does her over the table. As she cranes her head backwards where she lies on the table, she can see the view of the city out of the glass windows from the 10th floor of the building. It was the most unexpected of hook ups.

Sex dreams are varies and joyful… but nothing beats the real thing. So if you don’t already have a fuck buddy, why not grab one and see if you can turn one of your fantasies into reality. You’ll be surprised at how willing a good fuck buddy can be.

What would a world without sex look like?

EdBennett — Wed, 08 Aug 2018 10:54:25 +0000

8 Aug 2018 - 11:54 | Tags: sex fantasies, sex fantasies trouble

Sex is one of the most powerful driving forces in human existence. We all want it, need it, and we all pursue it to some degree. When we are younger, for a time it can take up all of our attention, focus and energy till we are thinking about little else apart from a way to manufacture an encounter with that someone that we have taken a liking to. Half the time at that age we don’t even know what we want to do with the opposite sex, we just know that we want to, well, stuff. Sex is also free. When you find a fuck buddy, they also “find” you, it is always a win-win situation. Sex is one of the greatest pleasures that one can have, yet ironic that at a base level, it also remains as one of the few things that requires no money at all, just a friend with benefits or someone to hook up with. So what would the world look like if there was no sex. I am not talking about no one having sex, I am saying a world where sex was taken of the table completely. No one wanted to have it, it did not even exist. Let us explore this idea, by looking at the things the sex drive effects, and what would be different.

Everyone would do better at school

The distraction that the attraction to the opposite affect causes at school is palpable. If no one had a sex drive, there would be no distraction, and everyone would do better at school. We would see an overall increase in the intelegence levels of society as a whole, and thus technology and culture would advance more quickly, leading us to a future way of living faster.

People would be less drive to make money

So much of earning money is tied into getting sex, especially as a man. You get the money which buys the car, watch, fancy resterants and you get laid more. Fact. If there was no sex, I think that people would work less hard.

People would be more content

As we work less, we would grow more content with our lives. Relationships, even no strings attached relationships, bring much turmoil and upheaval with them. By stripping this out, we would all be more content.

We would have less “highs”

The flip side of this is that great happiness would happen less. We would have lost the big rush and highs that we get from not just the sex, but the chase and in fact the whole process.

We would be extinct

We would all die out. With no sex, there would be no kids, and that would end the human race. This website would also close, as there would be no need for fuck buddies to exist. Sorry!

Sexual Fetishes

EdBennett — Sun, 12 Nov 2017 14:56:28 +0000

12 Nov 2017 - 14:56 | Tags: sexual fetishes, fetish, sex fantasies

Sexual fetishes are a fascinating subject to most of us. We are not only interested in what we want in the bedroom (or outside the bedroom, or in a lift, or in public depending on your fetish!). We are also fascinated by what other people are into. We love hearing about other people’s sex lives, and we see this in all aspects of our society. We see it on television, with story lines focused and revolving around peoples sex lives, relationships. We see this in the office, where the most gossiped thing is the latest movement of whom is having sex with whom. We also spend a lot of time and energy focused on it. The dating and casual dating industry is huge, with vast amounts of money being poured into the process of helping people to find partners, hook ups, fuck buddies and other one night stands. We also sell most of our products through sex, whether that is clothing, ice cream or shoes… all of them are being sold on the basis that if you buy this you are going to have more sex. We are sex obsessed, of that there is no doubt!

What is a Fetish

A fetish is something without which a person cannot be sexually satisfied. It is more than something they simply like, or a sexual preference, it is something that they need to have. So for example, if someone had a “high heel shoe” fetish, without the presence of high heel shoes, that person would not be able to get turned on and be sexually satisfied.

The more day to day use of fetish

Now that the word is being used more day to day, it is no longer as extreme. A fetish has ceased to be something that someone needs, and has become more something that we simply want to have. Most people who say that they have a foot fetish do not really have a 100% fetish, they just really like feet and get turned on by them. This level of fetish is what most people are referring to when they say that they have a “fetsish”.

Embrace your fetishes

Many people ignore or surpress their fetishes. I think that you should embrace them! If there is something that is going to turn you on, to make your orgasm deeper and longer, that makes you hot and horney, you should gran that with both hands. No one can really make you come if you do not know how to come yourself, so you have to be turned on already. Help yourself and your partner out. If you have a fetish, share it with them and embrace it!

Sex fantasy verses reality

EdBennett — Wed, 12 Oct 2016 18:33:47 +0000

12 Oct 2016 - 19:33 | Tags: sex fantasies, sex fantasies trouble, roleplay

There have always been a huge surge of sex role play games, sex fantasies and icons and certain roles that we find sexy. There are some classics which you will find all too familiar. The sexy fireman or policeman fantasy is something that most women are really into – something about a man who as his job “protects and serves” turns girls week at the knees, I wonder why. For men it tends to be a lot more based on looks rather than agency! The sexy stripper, the sexy nurse, the sexy school girl fantasy... it is all about women who are hot and slightly subservient to their desires and needs. Britney Spears has a lot to answer for when it comes to the sexy school girl thing. The funny thing is that it is fantasy that people want, not the actual reality – and I mean this on both sides.

Reality VS Fantasy – for women

If you are a girl and you want the sexy policeman in the uniform, you want the fantasy. The reality of being with a man married to the force, who spends all of his time at work, leaves early, comes home late, and only really socialises with other policemen is not actually all that great. You want only the good sexy sides of it, not the gruelling reality that comes with it. The same is true of a fireman. He not only works longer hours, but actually has to sleep over night at the fire station a lot, has to therefore also pull shift work (nights and days mixed) and because of this sleep pattern is potentially around even less. This is not actually all that fun.

Reality VS Fantasy – for men

It is also all too true if you are a man. You think you want to be dating a stripper, and of all the cudos that your mates will give you for fucking a stripper, because she is hot, right? Well she may be hot – but that sweet body spends its evenings and nights being ogled at, stroked and touched by other men all night. She comes home at something o’clock in the morning, and eventually she gets a little older and has to quit stripping. This is not actually what you want, you just wanted the fantasy. As for the school girl fantasy – this will land you in jail. End of story. You definitely did NOT want it for real.

It is okay to have the fantasy, and I would encourage you to explore it – do so as a game though. Do not aim for the actual real thing, there lies fool’s gold.

Why Hermione is hot

EdBennett — Tue, 11 Oct 2016 16:29:12 +0000

11 Oct 2016 - 17:29 | Tags: harry potter sex, Hermione Granger naked, sex fantasies

If you are looking at Harry Potter, whilst you may have read the books, from a sex point of view you are talking about the films here, and specifically to Hermione you are talking about the actress playing her, Emma Watson. When you think about what she looks about you see Emma Watson’s face and image... but this article is not talking about why Emma Watson is hot, it is talking about why Hermione Granger the character portrayed by Emma Watson is hot. This is a subtle but important difference, as you will find out as this article goes on.

Hermione is hot. The actress Emma Watson when she was cast was so young, the casting people had no idea what she would turn out like. They made a gamble and rolled the dice, and luckily for them after puberty she grew up to be pretty good looking! She could do with a little more in the rack region, but no complaints. She has a pleasing face, good hair, and yes she looks like she would be a cracker in the bedroom. Whether the naked photos of her on the net are real or not is hard to say, you can do amazing things with photo shop these days, and likely most of them are fake, but it does make her hotter that you can see her in a sexual light. So what makes Hermione really hot?

Firstly let’s take off the table that we are talking about her in the timeline of the films / books. She is too young, we don’t need to go there. So we are thinking about her in more of an adult context, maybe a student context here... but what makes her hot is the context in which she comes from as well, because it taps into our own context which we relate to.

When we were at school/college/university the world was our oyster. Everything was ours for the taking, and everyone was ours for the winning. We like, we take... or at least we tried to! Hermione Granger has the prim and proper smart girl thing happening, but more than that the only fantasy in which we could do anything with her, is a fantasy where we are also at Hogwarts / still at school / college. It is more about what we have to be for the fantasy to work, and that is young, dumb and full of come. That is why she is hot.

Look to yourself here boys, because it is as much about what we want to be for ourselves as what we want the girl to be.

Sex in the library

EdBennett — Tue, 12 Apr 2016 18:38:02 +0000

12 Apr 2016 - 19:38 | Tags: sex fantasies, sexual fantasy, best sex stories

There are many people that have a fantasy about having sex in places other than the bedroom. My instinct was to say sex in “unusual” places, but in reality I do not think that having sex outside the bedroom is actually that unusual a thing! I think that most people have done it elsewhere at least a few times, and I certainly feel that the more memorable sex sessions that people have had in their lives often include at least one encounter simply because it was somewhere that was a little unusual. So what is the appeal in sex elsewhere?

The Taboo

One of the key things is the Taboo of it. We spend most of our lives being “good”, obeying the rules, observing social etiquette and social protocol. Ensuring that our actions do not impose upon other people in any way – we focus on not causing a negative outcome for others but this always actually spills over to stuff that would turn out to be positive were we to have the gumption to go ahead and take action to do them despite socially conditioned reservations.

Having sex in a location that is any way a shared space breaks a taboo – and that is exciting! It is a little “dangerous” as there is the danger of a backlash/repercussion if you were caught. The greater the level of danger the more exciting it is.

If you have never had sex in a public place or outside the bedroom I suggest that you start by just doing it in a room other than the bedroom, for example the kitchen. This is a great stepping stone. You can ensure that no one else is around and that you are not going to be interrupted, so that danger is removed, but your inner sense of Taboo will still kick in and you will get the benefit of the excitement of the unusually had sex.

Being Bad

This is a huge thing! Emotion is what lends power to experience, it doesn’t matter if that emotion is “positive” or “negative”, simply that the presence of strong emotion brings power. Being bad brings with it strong emotion that can bring extra excitement, fun and a higher level of being turned on and therefore orgasm. Doing it outside the bedroom for a lot of people is super naughty, and therefore “bad”. Being bad is good!!

It becomes a clothes rippingly, animal like sexually charged session
When you have sex with someone in the bedroom, it has a certain feeling of being planned. When you have sex with someone in an unusual place what it says to the other person is that you want them so much that you cannot wait till you get them home. You want their body so badly, that instead you are forced by your desire for them to rip their clothes from their body and take them there and then despite the odd place. Expressing that much desire for another human being raises the sexual tension to such a high degree, that it cannot help but become anything other than a most charged of sexual encounters.

If you haven’t cashed in on this before, time to get involved. If you have and are looking for something fun to bring some extra kick – this is a great way forward. If you are the master of this – keep doing what you are doing – good job!!!

Top 5 Sexual Fantasies That Could Get you Arrested

EdBennett — Thu, 30 Jul 2015 13:53:18 +0000

30 Jul 2015 - 14:53 | Tags: sex fantasies, sex fantasies trouble, illegal sex acts

Thanks to the internet, the proliferation of porn has just grown and grown. With it comes the ability for people to actually video their favourite sexual fantasies and simply upload them onto the internet. Millions of sites now exist where users can simply open an account and upload their videos for the enjoyment of others. With these uploads come a lot of the sexual fantasies that people have always dreamt of doing, but now actually have the opportunity to share with a large community. You need to be careful though, as there are some sexual fantasies that if you’re caught engaging in, could get you into serious trouble with the law.

1. Dogging

Engaging in public sex whilst others watch has been a popular past time for many. Voyeurism has never been more rampant. However if caught you can face a hefty fine or a custodial sentence. Shagging in a public car park (most popular) or outdoors in a park might be fun, (and is) will land you in a heap of trouble with the police if they catch you. If you’re going to do it, make sure you are literally in the middle of nowhere.

2. Sex on a motorcycle

Sounds like some thrilling fun to be had on the back of your bike. However even if you do manage to engage in some carnal fun and even if it’s in the privacy of your own garage, you can still be arrested for doing it. So keep the revs down a bit eh?

3. Sex with the lights on – Illegal in Hungary

This is definitely one of the more bizarre rules. If you’re caught having sex with the lights on in Hungary, you can and most likely will be arrested as its illegal. That explains why my Hungarian girlfriend always turned the lights off whenever we did it.

4. No Climaxing before your partner during foreplay – Illegal in California

Only the Americans can come up with something as weird as this. As long as neither of you orgasms during foreplay you’re basically fine. Personally we think it’s just an encouragement to skip the foreplay and move right onto the all important business.

5. Sex on the Beach – Illegal in Spain

The Spanish are pretty chilled out when it comes to most things, but if you’re other caught doing it on the beach you will be well and truly busted. Bear this in mind before considering where to have sex next.

Top 5 Most Popular Sex Fantasies

EdBennett — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 10:55:45 +0000

28 Apr 2015 - 11:55 | Tags: sex fantasies, casual sex, casual sex for women, casual sex for men, stripping, exhibitionism

We’ve all got sex on the brain and we all fantasise about it in different ways. Women want men to be all kind and caring in public, but go caveman in the bedroom. Men want women to be demure and proper in public, but rabid sex kittens in the bedroom. None of us ever seem to get enough of what we want, so we fantasise about it all the time. Our imaginations are absolutely abuzz with the different ways we could have sex and the different people we could have sex with. Being a single person on a site like this means you have more opportunity to engage in your favoured fantasy than ever before. Casual sex allows us all to try out things that we might be afraid to try in a relationship for fear of upsetting our partner. But just what are the most popular sexual fantasies?

1. Caveman
Women want their partner to go all prehistoric on their ass. That means; hair pulling, biting, sniffing, licking, spanking and throwing your partner about the bedroom like a plaything. As long as you both agree to this kind of scenario and set ground rules that prevent either party from getting hurt, go all ‘Ug!’ on your woman – she’ll thank you for it.

2. Teacher/Student
Nearly all of us have had the hots for a teacher at school. One of the top male and female fantasies is still to have sex with that hot teacher. There’s no reason you can’t act out this fantasy with a fuck buddy. Simply get the right uniforms and you’re good to go.

3. Sex With a Stranger
Most women don’t like to admit it, but many fantasise about having sex with a random guy. The idea of a hunky dark stranger approaching her to have sex randomly is something that gets many panties wet. Well if you’re looking for a fuck buddy, this is the perfect site to trial your fantasy.

4. Threesome
No one should be surprised by this particular fantasy. Nearly 99% of the world’s population have experienced this fantasy whether it’s man man woman or woman woman man. Again f-buddy.com is the perfect forum to experiment with this fantasy.

5. Private Dancer
The film was bull, but the idea of having your very own private striptease performed by a hot sexy stranger is something that turns most men on. You never know you might get lucky and have this particular fantasy enacted personally.

Time to Spring Clean Your Sex Life

EdBennett — Thu, 09 Apr 2015 10:56:07 +0000

9 Apr 2015 - 11:56 | Tags: spring sex, casual sex, sex toys, sex fantasies

Spring is a great time of year! The trees are blossoming, the sky is (gradually) turning a nicer shade of blue, the rain is less (sort of) and the grass is even greener. People often view spring as the perfect time to begin renewing those long forgotten New Year’s resolutions, especially the ones where you promised to do more about improving your sex life. Follow our tips on the best ways to spring clean your sex life this April and you’ll be having fun with an f-buddy in no time at all!

1. Dress for Success (or should that be sexcess?)
Nothing says ‘take me now’ better than a scorching hot outfit designed to get the libido aflutter. If you want people to start noticing you then you’ve got to start dressing the part. People aren’t going to message someone who looks miserable and boring; they will message someone who looks active and sexy. Take a look at what you’re wearing and ask yourself if you’re trying hard enough.

2. Don’t be Negative
It’s easy to fall into the trap of putting yourself down, but there’s no point! Enough people are going to put you down throughout life so don’t start doing it yourself. The more you big yourself up, the better you’ll be at finding the perfect fuck buddy this spring.

3. Change Position
There are millions of studies all indicating the same thing – people get stuck having sex in the same positions. We’re not saying that’s always a bad thing as everyone has a favourite position. However it’s worth changing it up now and then as this will encourage and excite you and your partners.

4. Don’t be afraid to engage in Fantasy
We have one of the most active imaginations from all the species we know so far; use yours. If you’ve been harbouring a secret sex fantasy for years, now’s the time to let it out.

5. Try a new Sex Toy
If you’ve never used sex toys, now’s the time to try them, and if you already do use them, now’s the time to try a new one. Sex toy sales are up year on year by a huge percentage so there’s more choice than ever before. Don’t be afraid to try something new this spring. It will get you in the mood for trying new things with a fuck buddy.