Top two things that cause a low sex drive

EdBennett — Fri, 24 Sep 2021 22:38:21 +0000

24 Sep 2021 - 23:38 | Tags: sex drive, casual sex problems, problems performing

Having a high sex drive, especially on the adult dating circuit, is really important. The primary reason that your fuck buddy is spending time with you, is for the sex. They want to sleep with you, and they want to sleep with someone that wants to sleep with them! Having sex with someone who is super into it is a completely different experience to sleeping with someone who is just, well, putting up with it. Sex when you are going through the motions is terrible. It is one of the great things about having a fuck buddy. You are both there for the sex, so you are both super into it. If you weren’t, you would just leave. There are many long term relationships, particularly marriages, where one person is there for other reasons and they are just “putting up” with the sex. That is a terrible place to be for the person who is sex deprived! Luckily, this is simply never an issue with a fuck buddy or a friends with benefits set up. So you will want to keep your sex drive nice and high for all of this. How do you do this? Well, the first thing is to eliminate the issues that are causing you to have a low sex drive. With this in mind, here are my top two things that cause a low sex drive.

Pain

If you are experiencing any pain during sex, this is going to prevent an easy orgasm and take you out of the moment. This in turn will reduce your sex drive. The answer? If you are experiencing any pain, do not ignore it. Deal with it. Talk to your fuck buddy if needed and explain what is causing it, usually, they will be very ready and willing to help alleviate it! Note – there is an exception here as there can be types of pain that are welcomed, and if you are one of those people, then this will not reduce your sex drive.

Disease and illness

If you are ill your sex drive will usually suffer. The main thing to do here is to accept and acknowledge it. Don’t try and fake it. Concentrate on getting better, then when you are back to full health, at that point arrange a weekend with your fuck buddy and go crazy with each other! Until then, I highly recommend that you ride it out.

So, there are my top two reasons that people have a low sex drive. Deal with these if they arise and you are good to go.

5 Ways To Boost Your Sex Drive

EdBennett — Sat, 28 Mar 2015 11:53:09 +0000

28 Mar 2015 - 11:53 | Tags: sex drive, ways to increase libido, casual sex

Work, personal problems, stress, anxiety, weight, diet…all can affect your libido in a negative manner. Sometimes you just want to have sex, but you can’t because your body won’t let you. You sit and wonder why your body is letting you down. You’re confronted with a hot naked woman or man and all you want to do is fuck them but you can’t. What do you do? Fortunately for you we have a short guide on how you can improve your sex drive and keep your fuck buddy happy.

1. Check your diet
If you’re eating lots of red meat, potatoes or other carbohydrates in high quantities you need to check your diet. It’s proven that a well balance diet improves libido levels. If you’re eating crap all the time then you’re not going to want to have sex. We’re not saying give up all the goodies, we’re saying balance your diet.

2. Sexting
If you’ve found the fizzle has gone from your daily encounters, try sending your fuck buddy a few text messages like “Remember that time we did it on the kitchen work top?” Just reading a message like that gets you both thinking about sex automatically and will ramp up your libido level.

3. Check your meds
If you’re on any kind of medication it could be affecting your sex drive. Check the labels and consult with a doctor if you’re at all worried.

4. Set the room for romance
Mood is everything when it comes to sex. There’s nothing better than to plan for sex by ensuring the area you’re going to do it is conducive. Whether this means changing the sheets, lighting candles, playing background music or just tidying up, the way a room looks can be the difference between sex and no sex.

5. Use lubricant and massage oil
Nothing is sexier than giving each other a naked massage. It will turn you both on and you’ll probably end up having sex before you’re halfway through the massage. You can buy safe lubricant based massage oils that work on every area of the body including the genitals.

6. Exercise
Exercising ramps up your endorphin and hormone levels. Doing this will prime your body more for sex. It puts you in a better mood, and you feel ready to fuck.

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Top two things that cause a low sex drive

Pain

Disease and illness

5 Ways To Boost Your Sex Drive